People say that being shy is bad and girls dont like it. Which is why I dont/never had a gf. They said you have to open up to girls and let them get to know you. How do I do that too someone I've never spoken to. I know that it is easy to say and not do. So what to I do/say to help me talk/open up to a girl?
2007-06-13 17:35:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls like shy guys im shy and i get more a$$ then a toilet seat
2007-06-13 17:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by cubby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off you need to meet a girl with similar interests..you can meet someone like that by doing stuff you like. for example you like reading, you can meet a girl while your at a bookstore, or if you like sports you can introduce yourself to a girl thats there. at least this way you'll already have something in common and you can easily break the ice by saying something that involves your surroundings. you also have to remember that opposites attract. so one of the girls you meet might be the one to help open you up. my bf is very quiet, so we make a good team because he's a great listener, and remembers everything! so try that to meet girls, you'll eventually find one, and if a girl is not interested, don't let that bother you..shrug it off..there's tons of fish in the sea!! good luck!!
2007-06-13 17:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me - I know EXACTLY how you feel... I am the exact same way!
But when I met my g/f - everything was completly different. Not only would we talk for hours on the phone (I absolutely LOATHE talking on the phone to ANYONE) - but on our first date, we ended up talking for over six hours (in public!) before we got back to her place (where we must've talked for another 4 or 5 hours)
When you meet the right one - that will be the first sign :):)
2007-06-13 17:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get over your shyness is to socialize more. I was like you once until I joined clubs, groups, and went to events. As you meet people, you will relax and join in...
2007-06-13 17:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi, small convo, here and there then progress over periods of time, make sure to talk with others to so it's not obvious that you like so and so
2007-06-13 17:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Hated Teenager♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start with a simple thing and hope a conversation starts up
2007-06-13 17:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋