Family & Relationships - 8 June 2007

I feel that one of my dude baby momma trying to interfer with me and his relationship. I can give examples and tell me is she wrong for what she's doing. One time she told him on the phone (it was on speaker) that he better think about her while he's taking his shower. Second time everytime he mention my girlfriend to her she always have something smart to say. Third on mothers day she wanted him to spend mothers day with her all day and he told her he going to spend it with me and my mom but she kept asking him. Fourth she asking him for money for her pockets, but not for their daughter. Fifth she be trying to get him to meet her at a bus stop when she get off at work at night and she also be trying to get him come over her house. She left him and didn't want him to be a father to their child. So his daughter grew animosity towards him because he wasn't around. His babymomma wouldn't let him see her every time he would come to see her.

2007-06-08 14:38:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what would you if you had a bf that you lived with, and you worked and he didn't. Doesn't even have any interests in looking for a job, and was lazy all the time???

2007-06-08 14:32:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok new from today:
~In advisory this morning we were marching and he stood next to me in line and when we were listening to the teacher he was satnding so close him arm was brushing mine. when another girl stood that close he took a step away from her like your too close to me.
~In art he ran by me tapped my shoulder and said yes got you that time
~saw him starring at me in art
~ him and 2 other friends were walking and when i passed them one of his frineds said thats lindsey. (why were they talking about me?)
~then he sat next to me on the stage on our feild trip
~him me and his friend was walking and his friend ran a couple feet ahead to go to his locker and i thought for sure he would stop and wait for him but he kept on walking with me.

yes I like this guy and yes were frineds. and i've already asked him out in like january but he was going through a hard time with his girlfriend. they broke up a long time ago though so he is single.

2007-06-08 14:29:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and he promises to change and he doesnt . is it time to leave.

2007-06-08 14:28:28 · 14 answers · asked by Esperanza 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I do.

2007-06-08 14:26:43 · 17 answers · asked by Dolly H 1 in Family

READ TO ANSWER:I don't know what to do.I ve been with him for 2yrs.His mom & sisters don't think i fit into their high society lifestyle.He's their only Son.6 months ago at his grandmom'sB/Day his mom introduced him to a white girl.Since then she is at every function we go to & never says a word to me.Her face lights up when she sees my man.Once before the tention she asked him to dance.I was standing near his mom & heard her say"they would make the cutest white babies".WHY? knowing i was next to her?2 months later she started showing up at his house just to say"HI" to him.She became a threat to me & i talked to him about it.He said,he would avoid her but his mom kept on bringing her so i moved out of his house.I told him i would only moved back if he married me.2 weeks later he proposed to me.So i moved back in but I feel like it's a SHUT UP ring.I found out that she said"she will make sure the wedding never happens".
I'm Indian(from india)28 and his 30.this girl is so subborn.

2007-06-08 14:26:04 · 46 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-08 14:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by Gregg S 1 in Friends

my mom wont let me have a boyfriend or go on dates
what should i do?!?

2007-06-08 14:20:03 · 30 answers · asked by mango_charlie12 1 in Singles & Dating

OK. There is this guy,,, Are really special guy, and he is amazing. Anyhow, He is such a flirt but I think he does it with everyone. But my BFF thinks other wise. She says that he only flirts with me. And now she is sorta mad at me because she thinks we are going out and I haven't told her. But we're not dating. Ok lets get back on subject. He gives me those "looks" all the time. The ones that make the world stop and revolve only around you and him. Well, anywayz he is always flirting w/ me. People think it is sick. Not like gross but just constintly going on. His ex-girl is like so jealous because he supposably broke up with her for me. Do you think that is possible? I mean even his BFF told me that he likes me. If he likes me then why won't he make a move? Should I make a move? Tomarrow I'm going to a party w/ him. Should I make a move? Well let me Know, please help!!!

2007-06-08 14:12:39 · 6 answers · asked by andersonvolt93 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-08 14:12:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have known this guy for 5 months, so not that long and I like him, but I don't think he feels the same way. I know I will never know unless I ask him, but what if when I ask he doesn't feel the same and he thinks I'm weird and then he doesn't want to be my friend anymore. we barly know each other...only 5 months! plus it's summer and I might not see him til next year....should I just hold off until then? do I have a chance?

2007-06-08 14:11:23 · 5 answers · asked by ??? are you saying 1 in Singles & Dating

so i like this boy and i wanna kiss him. and he wnts to kiss me. but lets just say he has more experience and i dont wanna be bad. but i dont know if im goood. so i dont know wat to do

2007-06-08 14:09:27 · 9 answers · asked by lid938 2 in Singles & Dating

backstabbihg! I have two kids (ages 7&8) and they don't know ALOT of their extended family. I feel bad about that but I am wondering if it's worth all of the craziness that goes along with it!??! It's my mom's side of the family & she is not going because she don't get along with her brothers & sisters (AT ALL)! She asked me not to go because she's worried about her sisters asking where she is at. But I really would like my kids to know her side of the family. They have many cousins they should know. I have many things I have to do tomorrow & will have to rush everywhere I go so it won't be easy squeezing a family reunion in anyways but I'm torn between what to do! What do you think is the right thing to do?!? Please help!!!

2007-06-08 14:09:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just want to test my friend and not email her for a week to see if she emails me. We only talk through email right now (b/c thats what she likes best)and I just want to see if she really cares and wants to be friends if I dont say anything to her for awhile. I have never gone over 2 to 3 days w/out emailing her and I am usually always the one to email... what do you think?? will this work to see if she cares or not about becoming friends? I feel like I might be overdoing it sometimes and so I am just trying to see..
by the way we are both female and she is married!!! so dont even say lesbian stuff cuz it aint even like that at all!

2007-06-08 14:08:46 · 2 answers · asked by pink_flamingo1211 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am so happy that i have you here
But ever since my heart has been bleeding
This state i can no longer adhere
All i have to offer is pathetic pleading
Just turn your head and look at me in another way
I wish you would take a chance
It is so hard seeing you every day
Knowing that You and I will never have romance

2007-06-08 14:04:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

say a guy sees a girl he thinks is hot. would most guys waltz right up to her and start a coversation? or will he hesitate and kind of sit back and watch, and make sure its ok to approach her?

2007-06-08 13:51:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

be the right thing to do???

2007-06-08 13:51:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm dating a man in his early 50's who has never been married. We've been together a little over a year. It's been hard sometimes because he is used to his own space, his own bed, etc.. and adjusting to having me there has been difficult for him at times. He knows he is like this, and for the most part he does try to make me feel comfortable.. but is there any thing I can do to make him feel at ease without making him feel like I'm invading his space? I'm not a pushy person, I don't invade his space, but as his girlfriend, I want to feel comfortable at his place. He's been hurt before, years ago.. and I think part of it is him letting me in his house and his heart...

2007-06-08 13:50:49 · 11 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-08 13:50:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do i do... because everyone I love is rarely simultaneously ecstatic and therefore i'm never really happy :[

2007-06-08 13:48:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl that i met since the begining of the school year. she is nice and has a big sense of humor. she is in my english class and i have only talked to her 5 times the whole year. and 4 of the 5 times, it was her who approached me. however everytime we talked it only lasted for about 20 seconds because i was too shy. also 4 out of the 5 times she laughed even though nothing was funny. in class i always look at her, and sometimes i see her looking at me. she is also always talking with other guys near me. she always seems to have too much fun around me when she is talkiing with other guys. in addition she also always talks to her friend about how cute other guys are in front of me. i noticed that she is slighty shyer around me than other guys. she is also on my bus and the past 3 days in a row she has been sitting close to my seat. all 3 times it she stayed quiet and it seemed as if she was waiting for me to approach her. sadly i was too shy. does she like me?

2007-06-08 13:46:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You and her dated over the years but nothing ever too serious. When would she know that you are serious about her?

2007-06-08 13:40:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is in jail and is looking at serving 15 months in there.In the past he has cheated on me,left me pregnant and had his ex threaten to kill our son.do u guys think its time for payback...Like they say payback is a mutherfucka!!!

2007-06-08 13:40:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Fathers day is coming up and i wanted to do something nice for my boyfriend who is the father of our 5 month old son and also the father to a 5 yr old girl with another women. Because money is kind of tight and he drinks alot of coffee i thought it would be cute to order one of those coffee mugs from walmart and put a picture of our son on one mug and his daughter from a past relationship on another mug. Well that little girl is currently with her mom for the time being and i wanted a recent picture. so i asked his sister to call the mom and see if she could take a picture of the little girl and send it through email so that we could print it out to place on mug as well as a pillow case. I have met her and she actually made a good first impression on me which usually most dont. But anyway its not like we talk or anything cause im just not the type really but oh well thats just something i'll have to deal with it. But i really think it would be cute to do. Opinions please..

2007-06-08 13:39:25 · 8 answers · asked by rlynn 1 in Family

As in they couldn't make it and they WANTED to tell you but their cell was dead and they couldn't reach you? Did you believe them? Did you trust them after that?

2007-06-08 13:37:52 · 11 answers · asked by ZER0 C00L ••AM••VT•• 7 in Singles & Dating

would have gone a lot better if Jay-zizz handed out free cell phones to the apostles and said "you're all in my circle," don't you think?

2007-06-08 13:36:06 · 18 answers · asked by scrambled_egg81 4 in Singles & Dating

ok ... so i live with my mom and soon to be step-dad and i cannnottttt stand it when i have to go somewhere and they always have to go together. i dont know .. maybe that's wierd but idk .. like i jus asked my mom a few minutes ago if she could take me to practice in the mornin and she was like sure "WE'LL pick you up at 10" and i was like ughhhhhhhhhhhhh its like allll the time ... they cant be apart their so co-dependent its scary ... and i jus ... DONT want him going everywhere i have to go ....sorry just had to ask

2007-06-08 13:35:07 · 2 answers · asked by kells 1 in Family

well. I started to fall for this guy. We spend alot of time together. He walks me home everyday. We sit and talk for hours infront of my house, well sometimes get all couple like with eachother. But i dont know if hes a waste of my time. He wants my trust and all...(as he says) we talk about so many things. Life, Death, religion, us, him, me. But i just dont know if its safe to get involved. He has already kissed me. But we arent going out...i dont know. He spends alot of time with me, and lets it show that he really does like me...but i dont know. He always assures me he likes no one else...what do you think.

2007-06-08 13:32:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this italian guy at work and we hooked up but i think i still have feelings for my ex fiancee is this normal my ex use to beat on me but i still love him am i intrested in the wrong person plus i have fun with guy im with

2007-06-08 13:32:22 · 2 answers · asked by ashleyfrey94 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-08 13:30:24 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley. 3 in Marriage & Divorce