well. I started to fall for this guy. We spend alot of time together. He walks me home everyday. We sit and talk for hours infront of my house, well sometimes get all couple like with eachother. But i dont know if hes a waste of my time. He wants my trust and all...(as he says) we talk about so many things. Life, Death, religion, us, him, me. But i just dont know if its safe to get involved. He has already kissed me. But we arent going out...i dont know. He spends alot of time with me, and lets it show that he really does like me...but i dont know. He always assures me he likes no one else...what do you think.
2007-06-08 13:32:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie..It's not what we think..but how you feel about him! Apparently there's something missing..otherwise you wouldn't' have these doubts..
You sound like a very bright young lady..And if the total package was there..you would know it..It's just something you could feel inside..
From what you're saying, I don't feel or hear any sparks in this relationship..at least not for you..
Take your time..date other guys..see if he's on your mind , when you with someone else..if he is..that's a clue, that he might be the one for you! lol! ...
Don't rush into anything..
Believe me..you will know when the right one is at you side..Good Luck! The right one will come along..
Maybe it is this guy.Just take the time to find out!.
2007-06-08 14:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really likes you. How clearer could it be. HOW in the hell are you confused? Unless your not feeling love-feelings for him. I don't know how you could want a clearer sign that you should be with someone. He sounds like a MAJOR keeper. But don't go after him if your not interested. Ask yourself: Do you fantasize about that kiss? Do you think about him when he's not around? If so, does it make you happy? Are they happy thoughts. Do you ever get the butterflies in your stomach when you get near him or when he starts to talk about how he likes you.? Answering yes to some or all of these may tell you that you like him like he likes you. But, if not, I suggest you not lead him on.
2007-06-08 20:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by manybagolike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young when you say "walks you home everyday". I would take my time. If this the first guy you have had an interest in. Take it easy. You will know in time but first you have to gain experience. And from the sounds of your question you are young, Take your time.
2007-06-08 20:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dat Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you want. Yes he is at least worth having as a friend. any more than that is what time will take care of. Do not feel you have to be more than friends.
Do not forgetr to know others at the same time.
2007-06-08 20:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll first of all... don't rush him and just wait over time.. and let him make the first move. you don't want him to get the wrong idea if he doesnt like you. i think you should stay friends with him for now..... and when he makes the move if he does then everything will fall into place. good luck!
2007-06-08 20:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes u but wantrs u 2 send sum type of feed back 2 him if u like him kiss him simple with love manda
2007-06-08 20:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by CuteLolliP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no guarantees in life. As humans, we all need acceptance. Don't be caught up on "what" he is saying, rather, focus on his actions. It's easy to "say" a good game, but hard to show a good game. Let his actions prove his worth. It's easy to tell someone you love them, but it is very hard to show them. Remember, YOU are worth it, make him EARN the right to date you.
2007-06-08 20:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date him a little more like you are now. see if something develops. it seems like he is worth your time. someone that will walk you home everyday and is willing to spend their time with you and it seems that you talk easyly with each other is a good sign.
2007-06-08 20:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by dianna_lenger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wanna stay as friends for now, in time he will realize that he likes u then he'll ask u out or something :P
2007-06-08 20:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It already seems like you guys are dating, if your not sure, just get to know him a little more, and then make your decision.
Don't let him get to attached to you.
2007-06-08 20:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋