Family & Relationships - 8 June 2007

Okay so my best friend is a guy. I love my big sis and she would be upset if it wasn't her, but I have three sisters and I don't want any of them to feel less important. I know it is different, but do you think it is okay? He is my best friend and has been there for me always.

2007-06-08 01:43:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and My Girlfriend we're at school yesterday and we we're just hanging out.All of a sudden though we lok into each others eyes and french kiss...Ppl at school saw us and they said we were way too young but me and my GF dont think so...I need info about this please...thanks.

2007-06-08 01:43:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for a few months now. At the beginning the sex was awesome, now he battles to get an erection and we never have sex unless he takes viagra. He is too young to suffer from erectile dysfunction, can it be caused through alcohol or from smoking weed? It makes me depressed cause nothing I do (even kinky stuff) gets a rise out of him.

2007-06-08 01:38:51 · 19 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

she calls me a slut behind my back but in my face she is nice to me. what could be her problem. she's the one having sex with every guy.

2007-06-08 01:34:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The Church instituted marriage and monogamy.
Looking at divorce figures, marriages are in trouble.
Since prehistoric man until recent history men had many women, like most animals today. Is marriage Natural?

2007-06-08 01:33:09 · 33 answers · asked by Hector of Troy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-08 01:33:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 7 years now. My husband and I have had some pretty rocky times in our relationship. Mostly just bad arguments. He is not physically abusive but calls me the most horrible names when he is very angry. Please understand that he is always that way and not just to me. My mother has basically given me the choice of leaving him or losing her because she hates him. We have three children together and he is really good to them. He does yell at them alot when they are misbehaving. I also do this though and can't hold it against him. We have talked about it and decided to try and improve our patience and not fly off the handle so quickly. I don't want to break up my marriage but I also don't want to lose my mother over this. She is even threatening to move several states away because she says she cannot bear to watch the way he treats me and the kids. I know he can get rather noisy but he has never physically hurt anyone. It's just his way of blowing off steam.

2007-06-08 01:31:11 · 10 answers · asked by Lare S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay-wedding is Sept 29 this year.
Both wedding & reception are being held "outdoors" @ my parents farm.
WE are doing all food ourselves & not having a caterer.
Since we're not catering & will not have 'servers', we're setting it up "Family Buffet" style.My fiance & I want to go for good "comfort/downhome cooking" foods, but we have to keep the preparation manageable.
We've come up with:
Main Items: Ham, Roasted Turkey Breast
Hot Sides: Old Fashion Green Beans w/bacon & onion
Sweet Potatoes (Family favorite)
Cheesy Potatoes (Family favorite)
* Not scalloped,
uses hashbrowns, red/grn pepper, onion,
sour cream & cheese-YUM!
Cold Sides: Macaroni Salad (His mom makes the BEST!)
Tossed Salad w/FRESH greens
Dinner rolls

2007-06-08 01:29:13 · 39 answers · asked by secret_oktober_girl 5 in Weddings

Can anyone suggest a lawyer that is very reasonable in price? Its time for me to get divorced but I am unsure where to start. Any help would be appreciated.

2007-06-08 01:27:39 · 4 answers · asked by mk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have two very good friends who are married and at the moment are at each others throats all the time. They both abuse alcohol to a massive extent and both use cocain. He is the breadwinner and works away a month at a time, she is lonely whilst he is away and drinks all day long. she came round yesterday to my house and was very hungover and smelt of booze, she brought 3 bottles of wine with her and this was 12.30 lunctime, by 15.15 she had drunk all the wine and wanted to go out drinking in town. She has a secret credit card with a £10.000 limit and is using that to fund her drink and drugs habit and her husband doesn't know, the friendship is making my partner and I argue, because she keeps coming to our home on her own to drink even when her husband is home. He phoned me late last night shouting that I had got his wife drunk and that she told him that I had activated a credit card in his name to fund her drinking etc (not true) and was going to report me for fraud. What should I do

2007-06-08 01:26:39 · 17 answers · asked by Hove Andrew 3 in Friends

My parents are divorced, and I haven't seen or talked to my dad in over a decade. My mom is walking me down to the aisle at my wedding. Would my fiance and I just cut out the dancing with the parents portion of the reception, or how could that work?

2007-06-08 01:24:32 · 7 answers · asked by Jamie316 3 in Weddings

I have just dumped girlfriend but I still have feeling for her. She cheated on me twice with different guys so I kicked her out. In those two occasions she cheated, she blamed me that I was not giving her enough attention.

She told me that she felt ignored so she cheated maker her feel better. This is probably true because sometimes I'm very busy working and work some night shifts. She doesnt work at the moment so she has plenty of time to hang around while I'm sleeping. She had lot of affections towards me and still says she loves me.

I have the same feeling to her but I'm a bit unsure about her argument. Does girls cheat to seek attention from their partners or is just an excuse to justify their cheating behaviour?

Because of the feeling I have for this girl, I was thinking of asking her back and give her the full attention she is craving for but I'm also thinking she might cheat again despite the attention. Any opinion or experience please?

2007-06-08 01:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-08 01:20:24 · 5 answers · asked by varun K 1 in Weddings

i have my spousal visa for 1year, until sep 5 this year, i plan to remarry to the japanese man again but im so worry that i could'nt stay here. until my visa is end,

2007-06-08 01:19:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He says I'm a burden on him...and that if I ever get sick, I'll break his bank?

2007-06-08 01:17:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You're kissable and cuddly;
You're lovable and sweet;
You thrill me every minute,
And sweep me off my feet.
You're charming and disarming,
Desirable and true.
You inspire and impress me,
And that's why I love you!

2007-06-08 01:15:45 · 18 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

i have been talking to this boy on the phone for about a week and we have so much chemistry. we would speak on the phone from 9pm to 1:30ish in the morning on a school night. he tells me how different i am from the other girls he talked to or had dated. but the best thing he said to me is that he could see himself inlove with me in the future. But i'm always calling him he calls me sometimes but it's not good enough. i told him to call me yesterday but he didn't. so i didn't call him either, am i overreacting.

2007-06-08 01:14:55 · 11 answers · asked by Rundis19 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I filed for divorce but he still feels compelled to take care of the house. It is still in both our names and he is giving me alimony and child support. I don't mind him helping out, but he even feels obligated to take care of the yard by mowing and weed eating. He says that he still has an interest in the house and it's still his too. Is there more to it? Is this normal?

We do have a daughter and she does live with me too. Is this his way of taking care of her too?

2007-06-08 01:13:11 · 12 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-08 01:12:35 · 20 answers · asked by spankybee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I plan on just giving money rather than buying a gift. Thanks.

Oh yes, another similar question....our neighbors are finally getting married. We aren't invited to a wedding, but I'd still like to give them something, how much do you think is appropriate? Thanks!

2007-06-08 01:07:07 · 10 answers · asked by Just me. 4 in Weddings

I dated this guy on and off for about 1 1/2 years. We both are stubborn and have a short temper. On some occasions i have feared for my safety when his anger becomes overbearing. I have told him that he scares me because sometimes he would make threats like "if you were a guy i would hit you" and once i remember saying if you're going to hurt me, just do it! He held my throat and stopped short. He has also become increasingly addicted to gambling. Do men like this change or get worse? I have always told him that if he ever hit me i'd be gone, end of story and thats when he calms down. If he ever wanted me back, should i bother with this man?

2007-06-08 01:05:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you know for certain if a guy is reallt interested in you.

2007-06-08 01:02:04 · 6 answers · asked by yoli 2 in Singles & Dating

sitting in a room across from a man, who you want to arouse and excite. You aren't allowed to touch him. You are both sitting in chairs about 6 feet apart. Remember, no touching. What would you say to get him excited? What could he do to return the favor? Interesting???

2007-06-08 00:55:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-08 00:36:20 · 5 answers · asked by rjw30ishny 2 in Friends

2007-06-08 00:25:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-08 00:24:44 · 8 answers · asked by nilanga_2005 1 in Singles & Dating

His other wife just smiles, the cow I hate her. I'm thinking of poisioning her and him if he carries on. Am I right in thinking they would die suffering?

2007-06-08 00:20:52 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really fancy this guy. he found out that i liked him (because of my stupid drunken mouth)
a few weeks later my friend asked him on msn what he thought of me... he said
shes a nice girl
quite good looking
very funny
and my friend replied with 'do you fancy her'
'slightly' he said
now was this just him being polite, seeing as he is the nicest guy ever, and as were are friends he wouldnt wantto hurt my feelings?
gimme your opinion please :)

2007-06-08 00:16:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex bf refused to commit but wanted children. He tried to keep our relationship quiet always degrade me, said I'll not be a fit mother, my cooking wasn't good, I am the best cook ever, my cleaning wasn't right but my house was.

He is my best friend of many years, was always there for me. We were always in relationships, so never were interested in each other, until once, he was single and I was in a relationship. He then took me out to super resturant, bought me a bouquet of red roses as a thank you for a meeting I set up for him, and asked me if I loved him several times. After that guy and I broke up, and I had a breakdown at work due to harassment from employer, he was there for me when I was vulnerable. Then he started abusing me, so I went from 52, to 36 kilos. He told me he loved the way I loved him, wanted to be a father, then was moving back with his ex, same romantic evening! He left long ago, spread gossip.Should I go public now? Silence hurts. He got off scott free.

2007-06-08 00:14:33 · 6 answers · asked by Madame Y 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-08 00:13:26 · 19 answers · asked by jakhu 1 in Marriage & Divorce