I have just dumped girlfriend but I still have feeling for her. She cheated on me twice with different guys so I kicked her out. In those two occasions she cheated, she blamed me that I was not giving her enough attention.
She told me that she felt ignored so she cheated maker her feel better. This is probably true because sometimes I'm very busy working and work some night shifts. She doesnt work at the moment so she has plenty of time to hang around while I'm sleeping. She had lot of affections towards me and still says she loves me.
I have the same feeling to her but I'm a bit unsure about her argument. Does girls cheat to seek attention from their partners or is just an excuse to justify their cheating behaviour?
Because of the feeling I have for this girl, I was thinking of asking her back and give her the full attention she is craving for but I'm also thinking she might cheat again despite the attention. Any opinion or experience please?
2007-06-08 01:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT ASK HER BACK. IT DEFINITELY IS NOT YOUR FAULT SHE CHEATED. SHE WILL ONLY HURT YOU ALL OVER AGAIN. GOOD LUCK.
2007-06-08 01:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor u ithink she is insane even my bf is very busy in his life but i dnt cheat him and i cnt even think of wake up its an easy excuse imean if u gona be with her then also wht do u think she wnt cheat u wake up once gone gone if she cnt wait for u then its her mistake not yours and whats the gaurantee that she want repeat even if u give her time and yes will u never feel jealous because of the ditching she dne , well ithink search some one better because u cant leave work always even if u try its her problem that she is not working or free ther is no much mistake of urs so get along some cute pie girls not ***** like her
2007-06-08 08:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - she shouldn't cheat. It's wrong and she knows it. She's blaming you so she can make herself feel better.
I've said this to a lot of girls - now I'll say this to a young man -
YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!!
Find someone else who isn't so high maintenance and has a better sense of loyalty.
Oh yes, when she has to pay rent and utilities on her own - she'll be wanting you to take her back. She'll cry. She'll plead. She'll beg. She'll promise to be faithful no matter what...
Don' fall for it. She'll just go back to her cheating ways.
Even if she offers you a night to remember - don't forget what it cost you - twice already - Keep you pants zippered.
YOU DESERVE BETTER, honey.
2007-06-08 08:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every1 deserves a second chance. Im not saying let her back into ur life w/ open arms, but u dot have 2 completely shun her. try being her freind. if that dosent work out, ull no shes not right 4 u.
2007-06-08 08:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sami S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh, she's gonna fool you again.....
she's gonna cheat on you again...
go find a new GF=)
2007-06-08 09:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by Valkyrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋