Family & Relationships - 8 June 2007

My Mum died 7 years ago and my Dad has been with his girlfriend for around 5 years. My sister, 18, doesn't particularly like her. we don't live with my father, but i usually stay with him on weekends. my Dad's girlf's son's are grown up with their own families.
i feel like my family are always making the comprises for her family. when we finally argeed to go on holiday with my sis, her boyf, Dad, his girlf & me she said that we couldn't because she argeed to look after her sons rabbit and house while they were away for 2 weeks. yet that time was the only time me & my sis could go away because of our school exams.
& now we can't go away at all because of her back problem.
last time i went away with them plus her granddaughter she took lots of pictures of her granddaughter & my Dad but not me i felt really left out because we are usually quite close. they don't talk me me much in the car amore, i like spending time with them but do they not what me around so much anymore?

2007-06-08 19:28:27 · 17 answers · asked by aimz w 2 in Family

should i go to sleep i am a 12 year cute girl and ir is 2:26 i just have a softball game tomorrow at12 and going to a family party at 5 should i go to sleep???

2007-06-08 19:27:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but his battery died... he said he would call me... am i just being jealousss....

2007-06-08 19:27:02 · 6 answers · asked by nene w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-08 19:23:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well see me and this girl out here in Washington have had problems since the beginning but I think she is in the wrong for trying to get my boyfriend to go behind my back and trying to talk to him in private while I am not around sitting on his lap and ****...I don't think I am wrong I want someone else's opinion on this she actually threw a fit about a couple of things one about how I defended myself on MYSPACE after her and my boyfriends x were plotting to try and break me and him up and her boyfriend is the owner of where me and my boyfriend live and he actually turned off myspace from the server!!! And then she had a fit and called my a ***** because I asked her to nicely turn down her music...she said it was beneath her and said I was a *****. She also writes blogs about how much she HATES me on her myspace and claims she has a lawyer for our myspace incident what is wrong with this broad someone please tell me please!!! I tried to be her friend!!!

2007-06-08 19:23:37 · 8 answers · asked by baby223 1 in Friends

We moved to a new town trying to work things out and start over as friends. We were the only people we knew so we hung out a lot, almost everyday. But now he has new friends and is dating someone new. We were friends " with benifits" and now i feel horrible and left out. He wants me to be freinds with all his new friends too, but i feel like a tag along and like he pitties me or something. we still have to see each other because of our son. I'm scared of being totally alone. Do i meet all these new people and possibly make new friends and watch him fall in love with another girl or be a single mom totally alone?

2007-06-08 19:23:09 · 11 answers · asked by alana d 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-08 19:23:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He talked for 10 hours last night, then we cuddled. I think it's sweet that he can tell me everything but honestly thats not what he's for. He knows this, we've been "buddies" for years but lately he's changing. He calls just to talk, he's around just to be around, if I have plans he gets upset, and he got me a birthday gift ( for the first time in 6 years)
This was originaly a NSA (no strings attached) arrangement and nothing on my end has changed except I'm losing interest.
I asked a couple of other females that he dealt with how he was with them, they all say cold & nonchalant. No cuddling, no kissing, no conversation, no emotion.I've seen him cry several times, he greets me with a kiss, he took me to his family reunion ( I probaly shouldn't have gone). Isn't he wrong for expecting more from me? We had an agreement. Should I end it ? What would you do?

2007-06-08 19:23:05 · 8 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Singles & Dating

he makes everything into such a competition and I end up so stressed about it, that I NEVER fun ever because I am so worried about how the outcome will be.... I am sick of it.. Don't know what to do???? Will I ever have any fun too....

2007-06-08 19:21:08 · 6 answers · asked by almostready 2 in Marriage & Divorce

never seems to blink, except when you break eye contact first. What does that mean?

2007-06-08 19:16:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always cosidered myself to be a loner. Although i get along with everyone else ( well 95% of people) I find that i am happier by myself. I talk and listen to my coworkers (more listening than talking) but i dont hang out with any of them after work. really the only two people i make an effort to talk to are my mother an my brother. those are the only two people i consider having a connection with. for all of the above reasons i thought of myself as a loner.

the reason i am not sure if i am what i have always claimed to be is because i find myself spending 60-70% of my free time helping people. whether it is my working with them to help them out, doing "behind the scenes" work, or volunteering at some charity event.

2007-06-08 19:15:15 · 6 answers · asked by lineman108 2 in Friends

who can guess the name of the boy i like????

2007-06-08 19:12:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-08 19:10:59 · 4 answers · asked by davis 2 in Singles & Dating

One week ago my husband went camping with his friend(male) whom I dont really like. My husband called me from the mountains to talk to me, and his friend was yelling and cussing him out the whole time we were on the phone, telling him to get the *&%$ off the phone with me. so he did and said hed call back later. The next time I heard from him he told me he was comming to get his stuff and I needed to find my own way to get mine and our 2 kids stuff out of the house. He couldnt take it anymore, he was done. two days later he says he made a big mistake and wants us to come back.

2007-06-08 19:10:36 · 16 answers · asked by J H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I already know that I gave in too soon and now I have to deal with it. Actually I should mention that it was more than on one occasion. I'm also a sweet girl and at first he seemed like he really liked me (while we were intimate) it's been a week and now it died. The sex is still there and its good but it seems like that's all it is. Can I regain what I lost. The good girl image. At least a little bit. How do I do so?

2007-06-08 19:08:38 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have two more weeks of school and theres this girl smart perrty and a bit taller then me but I like her. I have been trying to get since the bigining of the year and ive been some what suttle and just recently I trid something stupid I just stoped talking to her just to see if she care and she did so ive been trying to get the relationship like it was but I still dont know if she likes me or dosent want anything to do with me any advice is helpfull espically if its not stupid

2007-06-08 19:05:40 · 13 answers · asked by Hephaestus 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi there, I have a girl friend whom i met online. i help her in may ways...our online chats, sms msgs , phone talks were since 6 months, She infact saw my picture, but i could not see her. Now she says , she is in love with me, never somuch about any other guy, she wants to share her entire life with me, she say that she want to come to see me in couple of days, but i like her as friend , not as patner, how should i tell her when she meet me in person ?

2007-06-08 19:04:02 · 6 answers · asked by vinnu5 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and curious as to how many decent guys there are out there that aren't afraid of committment?

2007-06-08 19:02:54 · 7 answers · asked by mrs_me19 3 in Singles & Dating

i found out my husband enrolled in a sex website to meet other women in the area for "just sex visits". i had a problem with him cheating in the past. im 4 months pregnant and i want to leave. we were married in SC and now live on base in FL. it will be 2 years sept. he claims i will only get $250 a month in child support if i leave. i dont know what im entitled to or how to go about this. he is an e-5 in the AF. does anyone know what i can do to make this as easy as possible on myself. i want to get out ASAP. about a month ago he was searching online "how to enduce a miscarriage". im trying to get out of a sticky situation, any information would be very helpful. thank you :)

2007-06-08 19:00:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-08 19:00:30 · 8 answers · asked by lishon77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My children's mother is an GFE. Has anyone ever experienced one?

2007-06-08 18:55:17 · 17 answers · asked by kali 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My soon to be ex-wife asked me to leave the house about 2 weeks ago. I thought things were over but she is now calling my friends to find out about any news that she can. She even went thruogh my cell phone to get phone numbers of people that I work with to find out info. She has a phone bill and she also used that to contact some friends. She tells people that she wants to be with me but she does cray stuff behind my back. She even told the daycare, where my 2 year old daughter attends that not to let me pick her up. She talks nice to me and all but these things she does really makes me wounder about her. What could she be up to and what does she want to accomplish?

2007-06-08 18:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by martin s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is that the way they do things now a days?

2007-06-08 18:49:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this is a dumb question but one of my friends tried to convince me that strippers have feelings after I said something hateful to one. I know its ridiculous next he is going to say that the earth is flat.

2007-06-08 18:39:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this may sound so stupid but my husband belches all the time and it's setting a bad example to my daughter, she's 4 and she's going to start thinking it's okay. but every time i confront him about it he laughs it off. i want him to at least say excuse me. it's almost as if he deliberatley makes it loud and obnoxious and it's a constant thing. what's the deal with men?

2007-06-08 18:33:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are you wearing ;-)

2007-06-08 18:33:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so, what could you have done differently before they died??

2007-06-08 18:23:57 · 20 answers · asked by Alisha 3 in Family

2007-06-08 18:23:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-08 18:21:19 · 9 answers · asked by zoidgirl0905 4 in Family

sorry to say this but , I have a secret, and I want to share with you,but don't judge me.,,I am married (unhappily) for 111/2 years and well I have been seeing someone special for 7 years, and well he has eveything that my husband lacks, and well do you think I should just tell my husband about this??? just to let you know my husband has a very bad temper, and well lets just say I won't go down without a fight,,,just answer my question truthfully,,,

2007-06-08 18:17:56 · 24 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Marriage & Divorce