If so, what could you have done differently before they died??
2007-06-08 18:23:57 · 20 answers · asked by Alisha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I regret not hugging and kissing my mom, one last time, in her hospital bed. I was caught off guard when she died the next day~~ON MOTHER'S DAY!
I can tell you this, for sure; YOU HAVE VERY LITTLE REGRET WHEN YOU HAVE DONE ALL YOU CAN FOR THEM, WHILE THEY ARE STILL WITH US. GREAT REWARD AT THE TIME OF THEIR DEATH.
2007-06-08 18:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my father, and I wouldnt have done anything different before he died because there was really no reason to. I am who I am and the way he died is also the reason I am who I am today. The only thing I wish before he died was to spend more time with me, but at the same time I was so used to only seeing him weekend. I was 13 then.
2007-06-09 01:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by starconfusionco1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad died. He was only 48, I was 21. I would have done nothing different. This was about 14 years ago. My mother never recovered. She now doesn't talk to me. There is nothing I can do to change this. She needs professional help and won't get it. Essentially I am orphaned (34 yrs old.)
2007-06-09 20:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Mama of 4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have spent a lot more time with them. It's funny how when you grow up, and have a family of your own, you sometimes don't see one another as much. I wish so much, I had taken the time, to just drop by and say hi, even if it were for just a second. To those of you who still have your parents, cherish evey moment you have with them, and make it your place to see them whenever you can. Tell them you love them often, because when they are gone, it's too late, and you will wish you would have done more when they were here.
2007-06-09 01:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by che_rae_gra53 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My father, he died by accident at work if there was one thing I would have changed that I did, was we fought that morning and the last thing he heard me say was I hate you.
So many children say this and it means nothing but you learn real quick it means a whole lot when it is the final word you can't take it back. or say I am sorry.
That would be the only thing I would change I wouldn't have said those three little words.
2007-06-09 01:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've lost both of them and I'm only 36. It's a drag and a bit lonely but life goes on right?
I made my peace with both before they died.
2007-06-09 01:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by Fat Boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my dad. I really miss him, but I tried my best to make him proud of me. Before he died with cancer, I wrote him a letter to tell him how much I loved and appreciated everything he did for me. I feel so much empathy for the children who are growing up in single parent homes with no father. I now take care of my mom, or is it she takes care of me? lol I am doing everything I can to make sure she never has to go to a nursing home.
2007-06-09 01:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My father who was never around died about 10 years ago. I never had the chance to know him. If I could change anything, I guess it would be to have never known of him. He was not worth my time.
2007-06-09 02:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lost both and I can honestly say there isnt anything I would have done differently. I took care of them as they were getting older and told them I loved them. They took care of me and I took care of them. I know they are together now and happy.
2007-06-09 09:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've lost both my parents and it seems so long, I can't remember when they passed on.
I could have not given them a hard time when they both were alive.
2007-06-09 01:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by Hani 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋