Family & Relationships - 8 June 2007

so a couple of the guys loaded pallets on the p/up to bring them to the fire. They were down in the BACK of my dads pasture.My husbands foot got caught in one the pallets and he fell and twisted his knee.He went to wk until he could not stand it anymore and i finally convinced him to go to the Dr. They ultimately did and MRI and he has a torn miniscus and severe strained ligaments.We are a close family or atleast I thought we were. I called my dad and told him we may have to file a claim on his homeowners ins and he freaked out on me.He has owned his place for 30 yrs and has had MAYBE 1-2 claims that I know of. He said some really hurtful things to me and acted like my husband meant to hurt his knee out there. My husband is a supervisor @ his work and has NEVER missed a day of wk hardly ever.But we live paycheck to paycheck so I thought my dad would WANT to help out. I honestly dont know if I can get over this.We have health ins but it wnt pay for my husb time off wk 4-6 wks plse help

2007-06-08 16:27:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-08 16:21:34 · 11 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Friends

now that i have ur attention.....i need help. at this exact moment i feel sad lonely unloved. im listening to heartbroken songs and i just i dont know i feel so sad and i cant sop thinkin about my ex.i feel like sh** i just want someone to love me....what can i do to feel better?

2007-06-08 16:16:09 · 2 answers · asked by sad_eyez_kika 1 in Singles & Dating

So, Ok....my husband TRIES to be know it all. (like most men)..We have a one year old son. I am a stay home mom, so in essence i have created a schedule for feeding, napping, etc. I have been sticking to it...dinner at 5:30-6, plays, snack, bedtime around 8...so far so good. BUT tonight, my husband had this IDEA that he should take our son out for a walk...well, like most babies, movement puts them to sleep, esepecially when they havent slept since 2 this afternoon. so, of course, after dinner, at 6:30, he took him for a walk and he TOOK A NAP for an HOUR...so, of cousre, when he came home, he didnt want to go to sleep until after 9...AND of cousre, our son ONLY wants ME to put him to bed....He also does it while i am feeding him..OH you should try, this, that....DO i go to HIS job and start "trying to make things easier for him???"
anyone else have these annoyances?? thanks for listening to me vent!!

2007-06-08 16:15:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister's (she's 25) boyfriend (he's 28) sexually abused me last year (I'm 19), and now there getting married. I told her right after it happened and she told me she would break up with him, well that obviously hasn't happened. She asked me to go to their wedding, should I go or not?

2007-06-08 16:15:20 · 13 answers · asked by Darkchild_SliverSunPickupsFan 1 in Family

okay listen I am 15 years old. i am a girl. real country, and loves to sing! not too big and not too small..lol to me far from small.. but I need help. I have a big singing competition tomorrow and I am really nervious about it! and I hate my life right now. b/c I have had one bf. and he wasnt nothing to talk about and I am just having anhard time right now so yeah..lol leave me one!

2007-06-08 16:15:11 · 5 answers · asked by off_road_chick_9219 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband just left to return to Iraq. He was home on his leave for two weeks after only 2 1/2 months there. Now he has about another 12 months to go before he gets to come home. I don't think he will have another leave in that time. I miss him so much already, and I am afraid for his safety. We have been married for only about a year and a half, and most of that time we spent apart due to Basic Training, AIT, etc. This is his first deployment. I'm trying to be strong, but don't quite know how to make time pass quicker. I know this question has been asked many times already by different people, but does anyone have any suggetions on how to cope, and how to make this easier for him as well? Anybody in a similar situation?
Please, serious answers only. This is hard enough without people being jerks about it.
Thank you

2007-06-08 16:14:11 · 20 answers · asked by Jessica 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We all know about it, and maybe some of us have done it! I have, and it worked out fine until his life got off track & He broke up with me b/c he didnt want to drag me down with his problems. I was just wondering what you all think about online dating? Do any of you have personal experiences with an online relationshp you want to share? Do online relationships work out? Would you ever get involved with one or like the idea of Online dating? I wanted to get everyones opinions. My opinion honestly is not to do it. ive done it only because I met my [now ex] Zack online b/c of my friend Arin who lived with Zack in NYC. I think if you dont know 100% that the person your talking to is real or if you dont know much about them or if youve never spoken on the phone, than Id say dont do it. You could get attached & heartbroken in the end. Then theres trust. Since you dont see them daily you dont know what they could be doing. Lucky for me I had Arin in NYC to watch over Zack for me just incase.

2007-06-08 16:11:52 · 22 answers · asked by alyson b 1 in Singles & Dating

hi there,
Was chatting to a few girls last night and the subject came up about same sex experiences and i was surprised at the consensus being most girls would indulge even once just to see what it was like?

2007-06-08 16:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by Adrian 4 in Singles & Dating

i am a christian girl, i am a freshman in high school, and i really like this guy who goes to the same church as me. we have the same group of friends, but he doesn't really like me. he says he doesn't want a girlfriend because if they break up they aren't friends anymore, and its too much drama. how to i change his mind?

2007-06-08 16:09:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my husband for 6 years total. We've been married a year and a half. We do not have children, nor want any. Frankly, from the minute we got engaged (May of 2004), our sex life went in the toilet... it's been a struggle for 3 years to really have an active sex life.

Not to bore you with details but it's a mix of financial issues, relationship issues, family(in law) issues --- that have all brought this relationship to a standstill -- maybe in every way. We've had discussions on the topic, promises for things to change and they never change..

When my husband DOES want to have sex, it's only if he's drunk or have been drinking... I'm at the point now where I no longer give in to that -- and it's been 4 months since we've had sex. I checked his PDA and have found he's been surfing the web and looking at porn... When I do initiate sex - sober sex - i'm turned down, he says he's tired.

where do I go from here? therapy?

2007-06-08 16:05:05 · 22 answers · asked by big-ear01 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong that I actually HOPE my bf (of several yrs) will cheat on me so that I have an excuse to run for the door and yet again prevent myself from getting close to anyone? Honestly I'm too scared to let anyone in or trust them. I've always pushed people away. Even people who really cared about me. I've been to psychologists and nothing helps. I still feel this urge to build a ten foot wall around myself. Maybe I am just better off alone?

2007-06-08 16:04:24 · 4 answers · asked by Runaround Sue 1 in Singles & Dating

It hurts my feelings when I get a card. Am I being oversensitive? We all get along very well.

2007-06-08 16:01:33 · 6 answers · asked by reindeer dippin 3 in Family

my ex boyfriend broke up with me three months go, and i didnt care but we were still friends untill i told him i got a new boyfriend now he wont speak to me

2007-06-08 16:01:14 · 3 answers · asked by destineegean 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in VA. My husband and I have been talking about divorce and separating when he comes back from deployment. I would like to move out before he comes home because we fight a lot. I want to avoid fighting in front of the kids when he gets home and when we do argue it gets really bad and i am afraid that it will be worse when he gets home. We talked about over the phone and he seems fine but I don't know what he will tell the lawyers later. I know it considered abandonment but what does that really mean and how does that affect me and what are the consequences if i do move out? I really cant be here when he comes home cause i am afraid of his temper. Do i have to wait till he comes home and kicks us out?

2007-06-08 16:01:03 · 12 answers · asked by sandy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My aunt gets on my nerves soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo bad that I wanna piss in her drink or put her tire on flat. Should I prank her like that?

2007-06-08 16:00:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is it abnormal to keep going in a cycle in which u only go out with guys u don't like, get bored of them, dump them, and find someone else in a week?
y am i getting so bored with my boyfriend after like...5 days?!?
its almost as if i like them until i get them....?!?!

2007-06-08 15:55:29 · 28 answers · asked by lalalua 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy started e-mailing e/o 2 months ago and ever since then we have become really close. He flirts w/ me ALL the time (He e-mails me all day everyday, he brings up little things from past conversations, he sits near me everyday in class, he looks for me before school so we could talk, he compliments me, he smiles when we talk, he keeps eye contact, says he's sorry for anything he did wrong, and a lot more) B/c of all this everybody thought we were going out and I assumed he liked me. But in a recent e-mail conversation, he told me that he told this girl who he liked and that he's scared that she'll tell and when I asked him who he liked he described her as somebody that was nothing like me but never told me the name. Why would he flirt with me and then tell me he likes someone else???....most of you guys either think that I'm the girl or that he's just a flirt...so I don't know what to believe

2007-06-08 15:54:53 · 1 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-08 15:54:23 · 18 answers · asked by Marky Marc 3 in Singles & Dating

Is usual between friends ?
I'm dating a guy. He never said me " I love you" , but sometimes he write LOVE in the end of the e mail.
He is falling in love or what ?? lol
excuse me by my stupidity, but I really don't understand !!

2007-06-08 15:54:01 · 4 answers · asked by Mara 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 14 turning 15. i have brown/ blonde hair. i am 5'9''. i weigh 135 pounds. i do gymnastics. i have since i was 3. so i am kinda muscular but i dont look manly or anything. i have blue eyes.i am white. i have a lot of friend but at school i am not concidered as popular. i work alond with my mom with an extremely poor family. i love to travel. and i love animals , especially dogs. would you date me on knowing these things.

2007-06-08 15:53:37 · 2 answers · asked by maggie xo 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy that I've been friends w\ 4 a year now and hes been really sweet to me and cutely flirtn' w\ me ect. but lately hes been gettn' in my space by sittn' on my lap all the time and laying his head on my sholder and playn' w\ my hair and then talkn' bout boners and stuff and I feel like hes ruing our friendship. I do like him as more than a friend, but him doing all this wierd stuff, is that his way of showing that he likes me as more than a friend also or that hes just been really horny for the past 2 weeks?

2007-06-08 15:53:02 · 3 answers · asked by :) 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i's anniversary was on the march 21st, but we broke up for 2 weeks and got back together on the may 27th. should our anniversary be on the 21st still,or on the 27th?

2007-06-08 15:50:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my guy says he love me...but other personalities say they love others????

2007-06-08 15:42:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you make out with a guy?

2007-06-08 15:37:17 · 18 answers · asked by Wondering 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like black guys, and everyone knows. i met this guy that was just released from...prison...and he knew a lot of black guys and he said that they say very bad things about white girls like me...like we're an easy piece of *** and whatnot...but i dont consider myself easy...i've only been with 2 guys. and even though they were both black, it doesnt mean im gonna sleep with all black guys that come across my path...and so i ran across this nasty pig's question about why white girls are so easy...so now im wondering if it's true...what's the meaning?

2007-06-08 15:33:19 · 6 answers · asked by Love Child 3 in Singles & Dating

I feel like my life is spent working and I'm just 21. I thought this age was suppossed to be one of the best times of my life. How can I have fun now while I am single if most of my life is spent working? I work on Monday's and Tuesday's 8:45-3 and on Thursday 8:45-6:30, Friday 9-5 and then almost every other Saturday from 9-2. The other women that I work with are always taking days off yet I have to continue to come in everyday. It's very exhusting & by the time I get out I need a nap. I just want to have fun and not have to be tied down to work. I'm sick & tired of coming home everyday seeing my 19 year old brother sitting at home all the time doing nothing. He has no job & I hate busting my butt while he is at home everyday watching tv and on his computer. I'm also tired of always seeing my perfections and not seeing any good in myself. I feel like people bring me down all the time and make me feel bad about myself.

2007-06-08 15:33:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am because my friends or (lack there of) suck.

2007-06-08 15:30:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his girlfriend used to be my best friend and now she hates me. and they went out for a really long time. and i know what goes on at concerts its like hook-up-mania. i def. trust my boyfriend i just dont trust his ex. am i over reacting or is this a serious situation?

2007-06-08 15:27:51 · 4 answers · asked by melanie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-08 15:27:51 · 2 answers · asked by Amanda M 1 in Singles & Dating