ok ... so i live with my mom and soon to be step-dad and i cannnottttt stand it when i have to go somewhere and they always have to go together. i dont know .. maybe that's wierd but idk .. like i jus asked my mom a few minutes ago if she could take me to practice in the mornin and she was like sure "WE'LL pick you up at 10" and i was like ughhhhhhhhhhhhh its like allll the time ... they cant be apart their so co-dependent its scary ... and i jus ... DONT want him going everywhere i have to go ....sorry just had to ask
2007-06-08 13:35:07 · 2 answers · asked by kells 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
O.K. I get it and I think that I can help. But first let me tell you my experience.
I was alone for the first 12 years of my daughters life and doing all the running and the looks (you do get them) and comments from other parents can hurt. Never mind how lonely it can be. I think that your mother is so happy to have someone to be by her side that she hasn't thought of how you might feel, also with him being available for all your events she thinks that it is sending you the message that he is there for you too, whether you want him to be or not.
Now the help part, print all of the answers out and show her or leave it for her to find if you don't feel that you can talk to her. I guarantee that she isn't meaning to hurt you and no matter how much she loves this man you can never love a man more than a life you create.
Good luck and open up to her, you both deserve the truth and the mutual respect that this can help grow between you.
2007-06-08 13:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... thats not wrong... you should talk to them about it... but make sure that you talk to them at the same time... (so your soon to b step dad dont get offended)...
Just let them know that you value and would appreciate some more one on one time with your mother... I'm sure they will understand...
Good Luck!
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2007-06-08 21:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋