Family & Relationships - 28 May 2007

We have had this problum before. We went to a church and they basicly gave him the 3rd degree and told him sex was wrong b4 u r married. Well now almost a year after being told that and me being a sex crazed ninfo having to beg for sex from my own man for a year we are married. We just got married may 26, and well we haven't had sex for 2 weeks b4 we got married and yet here it is the 29th and we still haven't had sex. Yes i had my period on the night of our wedding but it ended yesterday and he still doesn't want to have sex with me. I just don't understand.....How can a guy not want sex. We have been together for 4 years and married for a few days and this sucks his sex drive has gone down hill WAY DOWN HILL only this past year. I blame it on that dam church he was going to. But now he isn't going and he still doesn't want sex. I'm lost. We used to have sex all the time even when we split for a few months just moved away from eachother...We had sex like there was no tomarrow.But now?

2007-05-28 17:09:56 · 36 answers · asked by knj_7142003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't have a clue. My kids have told all the benefits but left out any nagatives that I may have to face. So I'm tapping your brains and experiences with your kids and their dealings with My Space. What do I have to look out for or be aware of ...and like a lot of other things when it come to computers and the web...how would I even know if something is or isn't going on as compared to a parent that would know far more than me.

2007-05-28 17:06:16 · 11 answers · asked by Paul 3 in Family

there's this guy who I really don't like. He's got bad body odor, and I'm not physically attracted to him....and he just isn't charming at all. He is a pretty nice person, but he is boring, and he is from Nigeria and I can barely understand a word that he says, which really gets on my nerves, but he always calls me. Am I wrong or shallow for not liking him for these reasons? I'm sorry, but I HAVE to be with someone that I am attracted to physically AND emotionally. You can't have one without the other.

2007-05-28 16:58:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I look forward to going, but always feel terrible when I wake up the next morning. I am single, so it is not like I am cheating on anybody.

2007-05-28 16:55:24 · 5 answers · asked by guitar slim 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 16:55:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 16:53:27 · 19 answers · asked by CandyLynn. 1 in Weddings

Why do guys like girls' butts and what about them??? I just dont get it. And when guys hug girls front ways of a side hug what are u thinking exactly ( if ur even thinking about n*e* thing)

2007-05-28 16:50:28 · 17 answers · asked by Sweet and Sassy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 16:50:11 · 15 answers · asked by mdmj 1 in Weddings

You somehow know that she likes you more or less and you want to trust your feelings for her which are quite deep but she is taking little or no initiative. Dazed and confused.

2007-05-28 16:48:00 · 23 answers · asked by Avatar 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 16:43:02 · 13 answers · asked by david r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 16:37:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been hurt badly by this behaviour of his and i have come out unglue and we have had rows cuz of this. I have begged him not to scope women out when we are having dinner, it's a special dinner for just the both of us and i am hurt, badly hurt to see him looking over the other table with women. He raises hell if i sit facing the crowd and accuses me of scoping men out but when it is him actually doing it over and over every time we are out, he defends himself saying it's normal, its a man's nature. Please, if you want to scope them out, pls do it when i am not there, he is out every night for drinks after work and i am not there and i am fine if he scopes them out. All i am asking him is not to scope them out when I am there with him.......it makes me feel that he doesn't love me & doesn't desire me, maybe i am not beautiful enough for him but he says i am beautiful and he wants only me. I am very hurt becuz of this. I am feeling inferior everytime we are out.

2007-05-28 16:37:20 · 5 answers · asked by Such is Life! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Iv been rejected about 6 times within the last 5 months, now I have found out a few of those girls had a B/f, and thats fine. But Now Iv got a few girls that are trying to hint to me they are into me (more then the other girls ever did) But Im not sure if I should make a move b/c of my past rejections. Any advise on how I should think about this, how should I change my way of thinking, I know the past is gone, but the future is unknown, I have a problem putting those past rejections in the bin, and looking ahead. Any advise. Thank you.

2007-05-28 16:34:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lf a spouse can't have sex due to an illness, can the marriage survive?

2007-05-28 16:32:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am in love with one of my far far cousin.. she doesn't belong to my family hierarchy but from some ancestors grandfathers grandfather relative and so on..

is it safe to have love and marriage with such a deemed cousin ?...

is this any misconception ?

It would be great if anyone can guide me up
Thanks in Advance

2007-05-28 16:28:33 · 34 answers · asked by idunix 1 in Family

He was really small like maybe 4 inches and just bad.

2007-05-28 16:27:07 · 9 answers · asked by labella129 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-28 16:23:56 · 9 answers · asked by Brian J 1 in Weddings

I think if U are married or bf/gf living together, that who ever makes dinner that the other person is obligated to provide the dessert, (U know what I mean ) LOL
Dont U? That way U always come out a WINNER!!!!

2007-05-28 16:16:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do I do?

2007-05-28 16:15:33 · 22 answers · asked by mustluv50 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is married to a guy for about 5 years. He admitted that when they got married he continued to go to full service massage parlors for about a year (3 times) and thereafter he went to ones where it is not intercourse but you get a happy ending. He swears he does not want that anymore and only continued doing it after the marriage as he was stupid, immature and not ready for commitment. He actually told her everything he was not caught. She knew he had went for a massage one night about a year ago and when he came home he told her everything. I was in shock that she stayed. Do you think he really has changed? I can not understand why he went to begin with. Not ready for commitment????

2007-05-28 16:11:32 · 7 answers · asked by justa? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have often thought of ways to end my life...is this normal?

2007-05-28 16:10:45 · 19 answers · asked by katienys 1 in Marriage & Divorce

after 6 yrs 2gether, i've realized he's not THE ONE...how do i make him understand that i'm serious..i've been telling him i was unhappy for over a year, but he's not taking me serious. what should i do? i've already asked him to leave once - and he flay out said no!

2007-05-28 16:07:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-28 15:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

of trying so hard to get my husband to pay more attention to me. I feel like i am the only one that makes any effort in our marriage to make things exciting. I have changed a lot to please him, but nothing works. We have been married a long time and im just giving up. Why doesnt he understand how much i love him and want him to make more of an effort to make me feel loved?. And Yes i have talked to him about this...........to many times to count.

2007-05-28 15:48:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i never hear my wife says thank you.she never happy what i do?maybe i cant do much things.but i try my best but i never be enough always something was wrong or missing.where i grow up is male is dominant.man is never do house jobs .man works bring money.woman is does the house job .but where im living is differetn then i used to.and my wife is making more then me .i changed so much for her.i cook for her cuz she is not good with that.i like to cook no matter for who.she never eats same thing twice,very rare.i try my best in the house for cleaning she never happy,so i try my best . still not enough for her.she chooses what is true or wrong.like i dotn have brain i dont know what is good or not. anyway she decides can i go out or not or what time can i come.even when im going toilet she asks where are you going?how i grow up woman cant even do anything with out asking ,but me still for her i take this listen .she never says naything good ,at least i never heard.pls tell me where is my mi

2007-05-28 15:44:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you see a girl that you find attractive, do you look at her ring finger? And if so, and you see a ring that is NOT a wedding band or engagement ring, do you automatically assume she's taken?


For example, I wear a ring on my left ring finger but it's just a regular ring that I've had for a while and just think is pretty. However, I am single. Could I be sending the wrong message? It does not look like a wedding band or engagement ring in any way. Does it really matter these days? Thanks for your answers!

2007-05-28 15:44:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've known this guy from work who happens to be a friend too, and lately we became closer and decided to take it to the next level,but we have an understanding that this is not a commitment and we can go on with our own lives and will never be in each others way if someone new comes along. i'm just prpbably afraid to fall in love with him in a long run be hurt when that time comes.

2007-05-28 15:42:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i asked him some questions but im all out of ideas give me stuff to talk about

2007-05-28 15:42:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's really stressed out about it and i dont know what to say to help him.
suggestions?

2007-05-28 15:41:08 · 23 answers · asked by :) :) :) :) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My son has 2 kids by 2 different women. He pays child support regularly. He can't afford to get an apartment, he lives with his parents. He only makes 11.00 an hr. and pays out 190 a week on the 2. This seems like alot more than he should pay. I believe in supporting your children, but without his dad and me he would live under a bridge or worst. Rent is expensive, plus having to eat, pay on a car and gas. Can he have his case re-evaluated? One of the women has never worked a lick. I don't need any lectures. It depresses me deeply, I love him and wish he could be on his own and so does he. One of them drug up and moved to Florida, he can't even afford to drive and see his little girl, he is heartbroken.

2007-05-28 15:39:25 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce