Family & Relationships - 28 May 2007

It is my bf's 10 year reunion in September. We have been together for two years and are planning on getting married. Is it normal for him to not bring me?

2007-05-28 13:24:09 · 8 answers · asked by rebekahvada 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-28 13:23:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

*because i wanna recognize it when i see it
p.s
lovers enonomous

2007-05-28 13:18:36 · 7 answers · asked by crazy3baby7 1 in Singles & Dating

regarding my girlfriend. My girl is like mother theresa. She is constantly helping everyone around her, and putting herself last.
she has a friend who she has known since the age of 13.

My girl is pretty where as her friend is not so blessed, She has always been in ore of my girlfriend, not in a positive way though, this friend over the years has tried to emulate my girl. Everything my girl buys, and i mean pretty much EVERYTHING. her friend buys it and is wearing it a week later.

this same friend has a boyfriend who is her first, and theyve been dating since 14, she is now 21. The boyfriend treats her like ****, and its obvious he cheats on her, she knows it but instead of facing the truth, she USES my girlfriend for reassurance, and has done so for around 8 years lol. all the energy my girl has wasted on her, she never listens to the advice, thus, the record never changes.

This story has a twist in it, but no space to write sorry.

Anyone else had similair situations?

2007-05-28 13:15:05 · 1 answers · asked by Dan E 2 in Friends

ok there is this girl...she is one of my really good friends....we have known each other since lk 2nd grade but this year we have hung out more..she just got over a really bad relationship and she told me her problems..you can tell that she is kinda hurt but at the same time you know she's over it....umm we both share the same friends...so anyways we have been hanging out more but not alone but with our friends..i invited her and 2 of my other friends to my familys beach house this weekend and as we sat by the fire that night i wanted to hold her hand and tell her how i felt but i didnt want rejection cause i have been rejected before, but not by her! I mean the moment was perfect..but i dont know if she is into me like i am into her..what should i do....how do I knoe....she is sending me mixed signals?????

2007-05-28 13:11:51 · 1 answers · asked by dude23 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 13:11:20 · 2 answers · asked by Avinet A 1 in Singles & Dating

So i've just become friends with the girls that i loved to hang with....but theres this little bycth who first kissed one of their bfs and well she forgave her after a while and then he put his gum in her mouth and well she wasnt friends with her and now their friends again.....???But me and this girl HATE each other and now we have to share friends....im debating on weather or not to just step back and let her be friendly with them because when me and these two girls werent talking she really got close to them and well i just hate being around her and then a part of me wants to just put up a fight and give it all i got....hang out with them more.....talk to them more then she does and really jus get better with them?????but i just dont know what to do???H3LP????

2007-05-28 13:09:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 6 YRS. AND LAST YR WHILE I WAS PREGNANT WITH HIS CHILD HE CHEATED ON ME WITH A PUERTO RICAN GIRL FOR ABOUT A MONTH, I WAS STUPID FOR TAKING HIM BACK.BUT I LOVE HIM AND I KNOW HE LOVES ME. WELL THIS GIRL LIVES IN NEW YORK AND SHE CAME BACK HERE ABOUT A MONTH AGO, AND I KEEP THINKING THAT MAYBE HE'S STILL SEEING HER WHICH I DON'T KNOW IF HE EVEN KNOWS SHE'S BACK. HE HASN'T GIVIN ME A REASON.BUT I FEEL LIKE I SHOULD JUST TELL HIM TO BE WITH HER SAYING THAT HE DESERVES TO BE WITH SOMEONE LIKE HER INSTEAD OF ME, SEE WHEN HE'S DRUNK HE SAYS HE DOESN'T EVEN WANT TO BE WITH ME SO I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD STAY WITH HIM OR JUST LET HIM GO, EITHER WAY I'M THE ONE THAT'S GOING TO BE GETTING HURT.

2007-05-28 13:07:56 · 9 answers · asked by CASPER 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and do you confront it? what is the best way to deal with such a situation?

2007-05-28 13:01:48 · 20 answers · asked by SuperGirls™ 5 in Singles & Dating

Me- Bored (That's what got me to type this in the first place. XD)

2007-05-28 12:59:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-28 12:58:02 · 9 answers · asked by Steve T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you agree that when you are raising you children, you are not raising children, but instead you are actually raising men and women?
Obviously, they aren't adults when they are children, but we aren't raising kids, we're raising men and women. We teach our children to behave as men and women in healthy relationships. How do we teach them that if we don't show them by example? Do we raise our children only to teach them that their children come first ahead of their spouse instead of showing them what a healthy relationship between husband and wife looks like? Only to see when they get older they don't know how to treat their spouse as it relates to their children...In the meantime, the relationship with your husband goes to sh*t....He finds a girlfriend and you no longer want to have sex with him because there is no passion in your relationship. Years later your children grow up and leave home and you're waking up to someone you don't even know anymore...Does this change your mind?

2007-05-28 12:53:42 · 18 answers · asked by YBMEUBU 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my brother has gotten in LOTS of trouble like doing drugs and all. So my mom sent him to boot camp(mma) and when they let him come home for summer he ran away and he was doing drugs and while he was still their but my mom wasn't he did drugs AGAIN. He ran away so many times and my mom can't trust him to go out with friends so when ever he asks to go out, she says no and he gets angry and sometimes runs away and when he's old enough to get out of the boot camp he's probably going to do drugs and ruin his whole life. And its a shame because he's hansome and smart and he could do better than this! We don't know what to do with him.
HELP!!!!!!!

2007-05-28 12:53:27 · 19 answers · asked by luckyduckling688 1 in Family

any help here and i like her alot and i dont want 2 be the bf that cant kiss

2007-05-28 12:51:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend claims that he doesn't look up porn anymore. He told me that he has in the past, but not often. When I asked him what kind of porn he use to look up, he became embarrassed and said "nice girl porn," whatever the heck that means! I'm a virgin and have old fashioned morals, which he loves about me. He's 21 and a virgin too.

2007-05-28 12:51:38 · 9 answers · asked by *Stargirl* 1 in Singles & Dating

I try to be nice to my husband's ex and she just flat out refuses anything to do with me. I stay out of the child support/visitation arrangements between she and my husband because that part isn't any of my business. It's between the two of them to work out just like it would have been if he and I never married. I try to include her daughter in things, and she gets angry about that. I mailed my step-daughter a birthday card in August and signed it from her sisters (my husband and my children) and the witch called me a week later to say that she would prefer I said "Half-sisters." I don't ask my husband to say anything to her because there should not be extra strain on their relationship for my step-daughter's sake. Earlier tonight, I called the woman to ask her to do a favor for me so I could do something from the girls to my husband for Father's Day and she got crabby again. I don't want to say anything that will add more stress to the situation..

2007-05-28 12:51:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and get money from being in movie not sutable to all

2007-05-28 12:50:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 12:48:47 · 3 answers · asked by Avinet A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with this guy for only about 5 months, and i think before me he didnt have many sexual experience but he told me on a drunkin nite with his freinds that our sex wasnt adventerous and when i asked him about it he said "from the crazy stories ive told him that i have had before, he feels im different with him,which maybe is true i know im a little shy about intiating, but i duno he said its because im growing up.. I duno i was affended really!!! and i dont want him to leave if he gets tired of me. What do i do? any suggestions

2007-05-28 12:48:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok,if your husband/boyfriend choked you once that all most made u pass out,(he was mad at you)what would you do?

2007-05-28 12:48:18 · 20 answers · asked by valasyk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-28 12:47:23 · 10 answers · asked by Avinet A 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and his wife wants to throw my son a birthday party and would like to do with me, my boyfriend, and my daughter. It doesn't bother me to do this but my boyfriend of 4 years kinda feels uncomfortable. What should I do?

2007-05-28 12:45:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

were here and now, but will we ever be again
cause i have found
all that shimmers in this world is sure to fade
away again.

2007-05-28 12:42:50 · 10 answers · asked by st_racer167 2 in Singles & Dating

i met a guy through mutual friends but we live almost 3 hrs. apart. we talked online (cheezy i know) for a while and he asked me for my number. our religious beliefs are no dating until you are ready to be married...so there really was never any pressure there. our parents both knew we were talking to each other and we talked on the phone almost every night most weeks. i was able to visit him and he met my parents and we all hung out, and our familes were introduced. we continued to talk and both would visit each other from time to time. he stopped calling one time for like a week and a half but other than that everytihng was fine. then i came for his birthday (after he got on the phone and begged my mom to let me come) and he basically ignored me. his family acted happy to see me, and greeted me with hugs as he always had. anyway i hadn't heard from him in 2 months, then about 3 weeks ago he calle and apologized and i haven't heard from him since except through e-mail 2x!

2007-05-28 12:42:41 · 8 answers · asked by hanabana 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I was just wondering, i've really liked this girl for about four months now. We always talk and I can make her laugh and it's great whenever we talk to each other, but i really want to tell her that i like her now. I just want to let her know how i feel but is it too soon to say something like that, or is it okay? I definiteIy don't want to ruin a lovely friendship and i really care about her, i don't want to seem creepy or make things awkward for her at all. I'm totally cool with it if she doesn't feel the same way, and it's totally up to her whether she wants to continue to talk to me or not, the less stress for her, the better. Thank-you in advance for your help and advice, deeply appreciate it - Thank-you. (^_^).

2007-05-28 12:42:26 · 21 answers · asked by Sketch 4 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married May 24th next year. I have decided on Black and fuschia wedding colors. I want the bridemaids to have black dresses with a fuschia bow around the waist. I found a picture online and cant find it. I was wondering if anyone had a picture of these colors or other ideas to use these colors in my wedding. Any ideas are welcome because I am so lost. I love these colors and nothing can change them besides not having ideas. Thanks in advanced!!

2007-05-28 12:42:04 · 17 answers · asked by sissy 3 in Weddings

i need it tonite and she cant cant cant change t help me plz how do i make a one piece a two piece

2007-05-28 12:41:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, i was wondering, i want to have sex with my b/f, we are both virgins, we have done other things, he has nearly made me orgasm but i wanted to stop and loose it through sex, that feeling. Bascially i know it will hurt the first time, buh HOW long will i last? and how much will i bleed??

2007-05-28 12:41:36 · 7 answers · asked by akaw r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I were planning a big wedding. My husband even received all of his sacraments through the R.C.I.A. program at our church. Unfortunately, I became extremely sick and was diagnosed with lupus. I had to quit my job and lost my health insurance. My husband tried to add me to his but needed a marriage license to do so. We eloped with out telling anyone. Eventually we shared the news and our families were both very happy for us and still wanted to plan a church wedding. We have been married for 3 years now and have a beautiful 15 month old son. We wanted to receive the sacrament of Holy Matrimony on our 4 year anniversary, however, we were told that we could not have a Nuptual Mass because we are already married. If the church does not recognize civil ceremonies then were are not technically married. Right? If this is the case we should be allowed to have our Nuputal Mass. What do you think???

2007-05-28 12:40:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my dad was so mean and hatefull, got a kick out beating his kids, other things as well. hope never to see him again ,not this life or the next, what happens to people who make others life a liveing hell on earth, please let me know. also dont want him around my brother who died too . my brother was a cool big brother, dad made him steal. he dye running from the law 25 ago. dad has no right to see him in the next life. he did not love his family, he hated us kids, so mean too us all, mom went a long with him on everthing, she was suppose to go frist. she real sick too.also will mom last long, she is only 82 pounds.will mom go to the same place as dad, we sure hope not somebody let us know ok,worried about mom soul.

2007-05-28 12:40:00 · 7 answers · asked by god gift 1 in Family