Family & Relationships - 28 May 2007

and what did you say to them?

2007-05-28 12:39:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my sister wants me to babysit for her cause she and her husband are going on a 4-day cruise but i have 3 kids and trying to work too and i can't say no to her cause she is my sister. help! she has 2 kids and they both are young and i would have to cut my hours at work to watch them and it seems hard. what to do?

2007-05-28 12:38:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-28 12:38:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband sometimes says hurtful things after he's had way too much to drink. I usually only reply with a short answer like,ok. Then try to stay busy and ignore him.We've been married for 23 years,and at times he'll let things from the past bother him when he's been drinking.I try hard to not let him hurt my feelings,or dwell on what he's saying at the moment.
I used to be told by someone else years ago that the truth comes out when someone is drinking,but I really don't believe that after my experiences.
Leaving him is not an option for me,because I know the kind of man he is when he isn't drinking,and hope that one day he will again quit.He had quit for almost 12 years,and started again last year. He is not abusive to me physically.

2007-05-28 12:36:53 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hannah burton

2007-05-28 12:36:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i would say the eyes and the smile and the hair

2007-05-28 12:36:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so my sister is one year younger than me. When I am in my room then it is fine, she will knock if anything, but really she doesn't ever need to come in. But, when I am out, and not home, she always snoops around my room, taking my candy, clothes, and other tings. I know that it is her, but she is stubborn and always denies it. Any suggestions?

2007-05-28 12:35:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

also he is 1 year older than me and my friend. also my friend already has a new boyfriend that is younger than her.

2007-05-28 12:34:56 · 24 answers · asked by Sarah p 1 in Friends

How am I suppose to react to him telling me he loves me but doesnt want to be with me. We have 3 kids and he loves them i know but he just doesnt want to be a husband or a dad. How do i keep my cool for the kids sake I love my kids anfd i know this is breaking their hearts. How do i let them know their dad loves them and so do I.

2007-05-28 12:34:22 · 8 answers · asked by Kimberly M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So....if you don't have something nice to say then don't say anything at all.


I've been married for four years and my husband and I got married pretty young, 17 & 18. Well to make a long story short...I've cheated on him a few times, not slept with anyone else but I have made out with other guys. Now I know I need to change or my whole life is likely to fall apart and soon! My husband said he is not going to leave me because he loves me but he is finally to the point where he cant take it anymore and said he is going to cheat on me now. Now I know I probably deserve it but does this make things right?? I don't know what to do and it sucks because I know it's my own damn fault. Any suggestions??

2007-05-28 12:34:10 · 12 answers · asked by wifey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ladies can u please tell me the type of guy u like appearance wise? I'm talking about their bodies... im going to start to get a nice body and i just want to know what type of guy appeals to you... please find a picture of the guy u like and post it here.

2007-05-28 12:33:10 · 7 answers · asked by puablondes 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 and have been in a relationship for a long time (6 years). I love her so much. I can sit here and promis her that i will never ever cheat on her. I can't explain it, i just wont let it happen, that is the bottom line. She says honey i love you and i know i love you but i can't promis you that. I know i will never try hurt you and i don't wont to cheat on you but it is the future and i just don't know. But i can say i love you.

2007-05-28 12:32:22 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well I need some advice, I have a boyfriend named Nick, and me and him have been friends for 6 years and been going out 4 a year and 5 months (almost six), and I love him SO MUCH and NEVER want to be without him!! He makes me happy. but.... I met this guy and he is just like AMAZING, he is sweet, cool, and SO CARING, and he tells him I make him SO HAPPY, and would do anything for me, he told me he loved me, and you know what? I love him too, he knows about Nick and says he'll be patient for whenever me and Nick break up, but what if me and Nick NEVER break up and he is just waiting? I tell him to move on but he WON'T! He refuses to!! I ;m so confused right now!! I love them both SO MUCH, and I know they both would make me SO HAPPY!! If you have ANY advice and I mean ANY I'd really appreciate it!! thank u SO MUCH in advance!!

2007-05-28 12:29:49 · 10 answers · asked by Kristina S 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I are both 14 years old. We've known eachother for about 3 years and have been going out for almost 4 months. How far do you think is too far for us to go? We may have already gone beyond the line you draw, I just want to know what other people think

We're not close to having sex.. We make out and a little touching (all above the waist)

2007-05-28 12:28:40 · 15 answers · asked by Like woahhh!!! (: 3 in Singles & Dating

My brother and his girlfriend PROMISED that they would take me to the pool today, then they see a Wii and decide that they dont care at all

2007-05-28 12:27:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My girl wished i could satisfy her sexually and even wanted to leave bcos i couldn't, due to PE. I tried foreplay but she always wants me to thrust in and when i do, i ejaculate within a minute, leaving sexually frustrated. I want to know if women really place emphasis on sex in a relationship and if they respect the man that could satisfy them sexually and if so what do i do to keep my girl and gain her respect and loyalty.

2007-05-28 12:26:29 · 7 answers · asked by Kiddo C 1 in Singles & Dating

im just wondering what i can "count" as a boyfriend and dating and what doesn't

this is the closest expreience i've had to having a boyfriend but i dont know if it really counts: i went out w/ a guy for like 5 months, maybe? we never kissed or went out on dates or anything, we just kinda enjoyed each other's company while we were at school...we e-mailed each other every day and iknew things about him that no one else did, like how he likes stuffed animals and did gymnastics, but that's the same thing that could happen w/ a good friend. i had to kinda force him to take me to homecoming, we just met there didn't go out to dinner or anything and he broke up w/ me b/c he said that i didn' thave enough freedom to be able to do real boyfriend/girlfriend stuff...

if i meet another guy, and i'd like to be his girlfriend or somefink, can i honestly say that he's my first b/c he would be the first guy that i would kiss? did i really have a boyfriend already or just a semi-relationship?

2007-05-28 12:24:44 · 5 answers · asked by butterflykiss 3 in Singles & Dating

1st - 10th date
and tell you she worry about getting herpes from kissing
what would you do?

2007-05-28 12:23:07 · 22 answers · asked by gurlmewant 2 in Singles & Dating

Well this girl and i have talked quite a bit. We have known each other for maybe 6 months but only really have talked for about 2-3 months. She has said im attactive and i have said that to her. We have alot of things in common(same music, and a lot more..) But we hardly ever hang out, i mean shes always busy with family or friends. Shes horrible at planing things, and often ditchs her own friends. But one would think that if she does like me would she reallly not hang out(outside of school that is) for a month?

I mean i see her all the time in school, walk with her in the hallways, eat lunch with her, then talk to her on the phone or aim or texts at night(almost every day at the same time for a few hours)

I really am confused, i don't know if i should be putting less pressure on hanging out? since theres a few weeks left of school.

2007-05-28 12:22:29 · 14 answers · asked by James 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy (19) and a lot of my STRAIGHT guy friends always ask me to chill and they always say stuff like "yeah we'll go get some girls" or "lets pick up some bitches"... why do they always do this? is it because they think im good at getting girls so they wanna chill with me so they can get a piece of my action?

2007-05-28 12:21:30 · 4 answers · asked by puablondes 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend recently found out her boyfriend of 4 years has been married the whole time they have been dating. She wants answers and her circle of friends is discouraging her from seeking these answers.

2007-05-28 12:19:48 · 6 answers · asked by Maira 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 12:19:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright so here's the deal! I have been talking to one of my guy friends that I've liked ever since like 8th grade. Well he just got out of a 2 year relationship, and is looking for a new girlfriend. I have NEVER had a REAL relationship and I can TOTALLY see us together...all we talk about is our interests in other people and how we are looking for someone to make us happy since we haven't been for a while. Well I'm like SO in love with him and I just can't get the nerve to tell him. I would flirt with him, but since I haven't had a relationship before, I'm really bad at it! I've asked him how he would want to find out if a girl liked him and he said he would want her to flirt with him...wow DILEMMA for me! ugh!! so I just don't know what to do!! besides this girl that he DOES like...is like GORGEOUS!! so it's no competition...should I leave this alone, or go for it and if i do....how?!?! i'm so confused!

2007-05-28 12:17:38 · 10 answers · asked by tomwlglvr5 2 in Singles & Dating

I've known my boyfriend since i was 14 years old, we've had feelings for each other for all those years, but when i was 16 i moved to pennsylvania and then came back one summer when i was 17 and we started talking again and then i took him to my senior prom. we've been dating for a month and we want to move in together, this feels right to me, because i know him very well and we know our little quirks and problems. we also get along very well, and i don't want to tell my parents because they will be so mad at me and i don't want them to guilt me into staying home because i need to leave sooner or later. my mom is emotionally abusive as well, she makes me feel horrible about myself. my boyfriend gets me through those hard times and he makes me feel happy and good about myself. i just need advice! any advice! thanks, loves!

2007-05-28 12:16:47 · 23 answers · asked by KaityKat 2 in Singles & Dating

for the past three years, my friend and i have gone to my grandparents cottage for a few days in the summer. We've had good times, but this year, she's chosen to hand out with other people, and we aren't as close anymore. I want to bring someone else with me, and my friend has already started asking me when we are going. I don't want to bring her with, but i don't want to lie and say that we aren't going. I don't know what to do...it's been a tradition for us, but she simply isn't close to me anymore. Help!

2007-05-28 12:15:26 · 14 answers · asked by amloompa21 2 in Friends

I'm a recent graduate with school loans and had some slip ups with credit cards. I have a total debt of 40 grand. I have a good job now and I've stopped using my credit cards execpt for emergencies. But my question is will a women want to be with a man if he's not willing to spend a lot of money on her at first. I want to get out of debt but I also want a relationship. Any thoughts...

2007-05-28 12:13:09 · 13 answers · asked by yaabro 4 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy, except i used to go out w/ his best friend. we're still friends and all but i dont know how he'd feel about me going out w/ his best bud. and i really wanna stay friends with him, but i really like his friend.

2007-05-28 12:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by Jillian 2 in Singles & Dating

my 3 younger cusins r always messing with me i already dont hang out with them alot and is startin to hate them exspesaly for what they did to my sis but why do they have to test and pester us older children who can be just as bad or even worse than them . i just cant stand my family there worse than girls tryin to act like there all that or still your bf b/c there cter than u ....bla bla bla bla man my family sucks can anyone out there convence me not to cut them out of my life as they do me.

2007-05-28 12:11:55 · 8 answers · asked by Sasha 1 in Family

I am always getting blamed for flirting from my wife, which she doesn't care about. But she says when I hug a female friend, My hugs are to tight and/or to long. I don't mean anything, or at least I don't think I do. ?????

2007-05-28 12:11:52 · 23 answers · asked by Ducci 3 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering

2007-05-28 12:11:37 · 9 answers · asked by butterflykiss 3 in Singles & Dating