Well this girl and i have talked quite a bit. We have known each other for maybe 6 months but only really have talked for about 2-3 months. She has said im attactive and i have said that to her. We have alot of things in common(same music, and a lot more..) But we hardly ever hang out, i mean shes always busy with family or friends. Shes horrible at planing things, and often ditchs her own friends. But one would think that if she does like me would she reallly not hang out(outside of school that is) for a month?
I mean i see her all the time in school, walk with her in the hallways, eat lunch with her, then talk to her on the phone or aim or texts at night(almost every day at the same time for a few hours)
I really am confused, i don't know if i should be putting less pressure on hanging out? since theres a few weeks left of school.
2007-05-28 12:22:29 · 14 answers · asked by James 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i tell her she looks great often, and we flirt alot, and shes talked to my friend saying im a great guy and she wants to go slow....i want to ask her out too, but i dont think i should if i dont hang out with her outside of school much
2007-05-28 12:42:11 · update #1
Dang, you two already hang out a lot. On the phone, text, IM's, hallway, lunch.... thats a lot of time. It may be better when school IS out because she wont have you conveniently there anymore and she will bring up hanging out. With school being out, that will have to mean that you two hook up and kick it on the terms youre looking for.
2007-05-28 12:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by frankee_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably as confused as you are.She needs some to lead her with this relationship and where its going to.All you need to do is try to make her more comfortable and steady.Don't try to make her ditch her friends or family memebers to hang with you,she probably has no experience with guys and isn't ready for hanging out yet.Let her deciode when she's ready while you help her feel more confident and less insecure.
2007-05-28 19:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no pressure i would just wait and be patient..maybe shes liking what u have already just not ready to go the whole way with hangout and stuff..time will tell sometimes we girls have to take it slow ..wait until she comes to you or mention it while talking online or texts or whatever she what shes says..the best thing to do though is give her space time will tell.
"slow and steady wins the race.."
2007-05-28 19:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by randigril21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how you feel in no uncertain terms (ask her out, tell her you like her more than a friend, etc.). She might be afraid of rejection.
2007-05-28 19:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till next year
2007-05-28 19:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure whats the right way to answer this question. but, just ask her. cause u will never know unless u ask her, its the best way of course. u will never know unless u find out.
2007-05-28 19:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by jerkybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing happening here. Schools almost out and you'll be without her. Find someone who really cares.
2007-05-28 19:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she really really likes you. Maybe she might not like to hang out because she is shy or not used to it.
2007-05-28 19:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by malandajessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's liking you in a "guy friend" way, not in a romantic "boyfriend" way. Sorry! Take care, and good luck to you.
2007-05-28 19:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by AGT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she didnt like you she wouldnt keep talking to you so maybe she has last minute grades or studying to do i mean its the end of school!
2007-05-28 19:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by yogibear1414 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋