Family & Relationships - 28 May 2007

but we can definitely be friends. What do you think the chances are that we will ever get physical, since I can see by the way she looks at me that she is attracted to me? If we start hanging out, going to museums and talking on the phone, etc?

2007-05-28 09:52:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a child from an affair (i was drunk before my wedding and had sex with a male exotic dancer in vegas).the child id now 2 years old and my husband has no idea. i know its the dancers- the facial features, hair really give it away, my sister who is a doctor told me. i was really drunk and regret the whole affair thing. the thing is my husband has no idea, he is a great dad, i i love him and my child more that anything. my family life is great.

should i just take this secret to the grave? my family is happy, and i dont want to ruin things.

2007-05-28 09:33:07 · 34 answers · asked by jen e 1 in Weddings

Ive noticed that in all men..they want attention by the ones they love,they get jealous easily,they want to be 24/24 spoiled..but when you give them a lollipop they'll stop crying..

no offence.

2007-05-28 09:32:23 · 19 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

ok what do u do when you like someone but he already has a girlfriend??

2007-05-28 09:29:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In India, many husbands leave their wives and kids and go away with other females. Even if the wives are not working, these husbands do not bother to look after the survival needs of them. Law too has no strong remedy for this. Is it right?

2007-05-28 09:23:58 · 58 answers · asked by Dr. Rekhaa Kale 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not fat, but i'm definitely not thin. I'm 28 years old, 158 lbs and 5ft11 tall. As long as i have this weight it's like i don't feel good enough to have a loving relationship so i'm not even bothering, i don't date and i don't go out much. I don't know how to accept myself the way i am.

2007-05-28 09:19:15 · 27 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Singles & Dating

One of my friends from High School (its now ten years later) had her kids taken away from her by DHS and she called me and asked me to move to where she is so I can take custody of the kids (now she lives in Florida and I live on the other side of the US) she claims she can come up with money to get me there if I will put all my stuff in storage, etc., etc. I told her I would have to think about it b/c it's a huge decision for me.

She called me a little later and said that if I didn't come that we would no longer be friends and that I was selfish b/c I didn't care about her or her kids - which really put me off b/c I don't respond well to threats.

My problem is that I don't see how DHS will give me the kids by my moving there b/c I won't have a job yet and a stable environment - which is what I have where I am living now. I am tempted to call DHS and see if they will send the kids to me where I am living now so I can take care of them - these kids have never had a stable home.

2007-05-28 09:14:43 · 18 answers · asked by Alessa 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

this one goes out to all the females, cuz i want a female p.o.v.

Im also 19, however, she looks stunning i mean really stunning with blue eyes and brown hair and im sure there alot of the guys who com onto her whilst she is serving on the counter. i c her alot whilst im getting a pumpkin seeds or somthin but i don't know how to approach her . becuz im a stranger

I basically don't wanna freak her out, im just curious to know what she's like as a person .

2007-05-28 09:10:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are in the Queens area of NYC

2007-05-28 09:06:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Do you like women to come right out and TELL you that they like you? Or do you like a more subtle approach?

I like an older man who I believe likes me back, but then we end up joking or laughing and I don't think he takes me seriously.

Is it best to tell him flat out that I think we'd have a lot of fun together if we went out? Or do I wait for him to ask me out if he's interested?

He seems interested... just hasn't asked me out.

Advise me, oh wise ones....

2007-05-28 08:55:19 · 30 answers · asked by Miss M 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for me to feel akward when my bf wants to slap my butt? Because he wants to but I won't let him.

2007-05-28 08:48:13 · 20 answers · asked by J.D. 1 in Singles & Dating

he wants to get back together again and i don't but i cant just say no so any advice??

2007-05-28 08:45:48 · 18 answers · asked by kute lil hawtii 1 in Singles & Dating

On the day we celebrate our emancipation Day my fellow friend was shot. It was just a random shooting and she got stuck in the cross fire. I just want to know is this what we as human beings have to do have fun. I don't know about you, but I'm mad as hell. Because us as the top of the food change are killing our selves, by stupid stuff like this. Why is it that every time people get together to have fun something horrible happens. Whether it is rape, murder, child molestation, or man killing man. All this needs to stop. I just hate that a 14 year old kids see it before most adults and teens. I'm sorry to say this but, we all need to grow up, and it's not just the adult. It's the kids that wana be grown but have no clue about being grown.


I’m sorry I’m just pissed and I needed to write some stuff, but for real what are we doing to our self? What are we doing to the world? What are we doing to the future? What are we doing period, point ,blank?

2007-05-28 08:43:28 · 10 answers · asked by honey.. 2 in Friends

I'm a 38 years old man, 5'7. I really never had a girfriend in my entire life. People say that i'm a good looking, nice, and sweet guy. but can never get to close. i've been rejected many times and even online dating didn't work out. i always hear the usual stuff from women! no attraction, no chemistry, can't envision ourseves together, and you not my type! I feel my life is empty with no love around. i'm a very romatic, down to earth guy and its too bad that i will not get to find that elusive thing called love. I started too believe that i'm a loser, suck so bad, and maybe should just quit. a wizard told me once that i should never get too close or i will burn. i wonder if he was right coz this always been the case with me even when it comes to family and friends, always fights when i become clsoe with them.

2007-05-28 08:43:18 · 26 answers · asked by knightlove 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 08:41:05 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah S 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 24 and deeply in luv with my boy, i was a christian before i lost my virginity,i did'nt lose it over him er, but nowadays i feel lyk going back to church and recolecting myself, i love him much and he loves me much but he does not want to go to church with me, its so hard becoz i nid him to motivate me spiritually and again if i get born again i'l have to abstain which i forsee he cant manage, but he usually tells me to go to church but its nt easy, at times i feel lyk quiting the relationship and have hope that i'l find a new born again husband who i'l love as i love my current fiance, pliz help me!! this makes me feel bad coz i dont go out to clubs nor do i go to church, who am i and where do i belong?

2007-05-28 08:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by Pearlie 1 in Singles & Dating

i talked to my grandma today. i told her it feels like she forgot about me and hates me. i spy on my grandma and she is always giving my cousin cookies and giving her presents. she always gets to go out to eat. my cousin is 18 and alittle to old and she hates me and lately my grandma gives her all the love. lauren is finding ways to not let my grandma see me. she is painting my cousins house. so i cant see her for even longer. i usually see her once a week. now i never do. the last time was three months ago. grandma says she wishes she has time for me and she misses me. help! i miss her so much. she gives my cousin kisses and hugs and gives her sweaters with love in every stitch. grandma always has some excuse for not seeing me. help! i miss her!

2007-05-28 08:28:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-28 08:25:15 · 32 answers · asked by kenny 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend who is out of state for work at the moment always sends me cute texts and i would of course like to send a few his way. but my mind is really blank in that area.

2007-05-28 08:21:08 · 7 answers · asked by Atllas 3 in Singles & Dating

my girl of 10 years has started to act all different. we have 2 kids and live together, she works 3 nights a week in a night club and i work 5 days a week and am therefore always tired and sleep from about 9. lately shes been going out every sunday night (the only night we have together) with her workmates, which i dont mind but she never asks me to join her and only tells me just before she gos out (cant arrange a babysitter on short notice). The other night we went out to her work and she was not herself before we got there and as soon as we did she wouldnt show any affection to me. Also she deletes all text messages she gets excepts the ones from me. I did trust her but have lost all trust in her lately and when i speak to her about it she says im being stupid and thats the end of that. The worst bit is Im not allowed to go out without her and she doesnt speak to her workmates (on the phone or on myspace) when im around. im i being paraniod what would you do bear in mind the kids.

2007-05-28 08:19:29 · 9 answers · asked by I CAN BUT TRY 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am totally irratated right now.....This guy and I have been hanging out recently. Anyways, he keeps telling me that he does not have a girlfriend. but I now know for a fact that he does. I am pissed that he has lied directly to my face. What should I do? Confront him and watch him lie some more? or should I not care....and just see what happens. Do guys ever dump their girlfriends for other girls? i don't want to be that girl who steals other people's boyfriends.

2007-05-28 08:17:54 · 25 answers · asked by Heeheheehee 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you stop arguing with your spouse, huh??? Well i am so in love with him, and i know he is in love with me. We have been married for a year and a half now but i feel we argue so much over the stupidest things. Help me, what can i do!!!

2007-05-28 08:17:06 · 15 answers · asked by tia m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mine was a few years back when I broke up with an ex. I got her password to her emails and used the information to play havoc. I was never found out and it was intended that way. It was fun though.

2007-05-28 08:17:03 · 8 answers · asked by Wulfruna 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 08:16:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a progressive liberal so I'm a little more enlightened then your average american. I wanted to help the poor people of New Orleans who lost everything due to Bush's Hurricane. I invited several people to come stay with my in my home in New York state so they could get there lives together. My wife and daughters were upset but I told them we had to help. The men refused to look for work and they constantly spend my money on things that I don't feel are necessary, like alcohol. They stay up all night playing rap music loud with women who I suspect are prostitutes. I get very little sleep which has severly hurt my job performance and I was demoted. They have spent almost all of my savings now. Now my wife is threatening to leave me after the men sexually assualted my daughters. I don't know what to do, I can't turn these great heroes away after what happened to them, but I don't want to lose my family or home either. Please help me!

2007-05-28 08:15:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 08:15:30 · 13 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

A debate amongst my friends and I, I was wondering the other opinions out there. Should you get married after you graduate from College (with a BA or BS) and before you go to graduate school or wait until after graduate school and before you get a job or after you have been working for awhile? Tricky I know, I hope you understand the little bits.

Marry:
Before Graduate School
After Graduate School but before beginning "new" job with whatever degree
After working for awhile

2007-05-28 08:14:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A gurl's 1st time
As you lie back, your muscles tighten. You put him off for a while searching for an excuse, but he refuses to be swayed as he approaches you. He asks if you're afraid and you shake your head bravely. He has had more experience, but it's the first time his finger has found the right place. He probes deeply and you shiver; your body tenses; but he's gentle like he promised he'd be. He looks deeply within your eyes and tells you to trust him - he's done this many times before. His cool smile relaxes you and you open wider to give him ;more room for an easy entrance.You begin to plead and beg him to hurry, but he slowly takes his time, wanting to cause you as little pain as possible. As he presses ;closer, going deeper, you feel the tissue give way; pain surges throughout your body and you feel the slight trickle of blood as he continues. He looks at you concerned and asks you if it's too painful.U get up and leave the dentists office with tears. What were u thinking??<3

2007-05-28 08:13:10 · 9 answers · asked by calientaXOchica<3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

k me and my bf have been dating 4 a while were both 16 but him& his mom are moving about 2 hours away and we wont be able to see each other as much (neither of us has our license yet) but heres the thing he's still a virgin im not and we both want to...yeah but im worrying that if he gets it from me then cant see me 4 a while and wants it and sum other girl offers it then he might go 2 her but im pretty sure he wouldnt do that cause he is faithful and honest,

but i just wanted someones oppinion so feel free to respond thanx =)

2007-05-28 08:12:25 · 4 answers · asked by ♥BitterSweet♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Before I got with my fiance, I had sex with a couple of friends while in high school. I told him, while having a conversation about past people. He acted like it was so wrong and that it was slutty. Like I was a bad person or something. But it was a mutual decision between us and we were friends for a while...so it's not it was a one night stand. Is there anything wrong with casual sex with friends?

2007-05-28 08:11:01 · 10 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 2 in Singles & Dating