he wants to get back together again and i don't but i cant just say no so any advice??
2007-05-28 08:45:48 · 18 answers · asked by kute lil hawtii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IGNORE HIM
2007-05-28 09:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by >>LiZ<< 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-29 03:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by irmgard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say something like "No, i'm sorry because when we broke up before it really hurt me. And i don't want to risk going through that pain again. You'll find someone else out there i'm sure you will, i don't know how any other girl can turn you down"
2007-05-28 08:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best bet is to tell him face to face but if that is a problem try writing a letter and sending it to him. That way you can explain as to why you dont want to and dont get all choked up. Of course end it letting him know that you will explain why in person to if he wants to that way it doesnt seem to cold. This way you already said no to him and dont change your mind.
Good luck.
2007-05-28 08:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Many girls break up with their significant others, is because they need time to figure things out. Don't take it personally, if you want her back, you have to show her you can help her. If you love her then you'll let her go, that's it. Not everybody who you date in high school you end up staying with, the chances are extremely unlikely. So if she doesn't want to, then you need to let her go.
2014-10-24 11:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well umm i suggest that you find a simple way to say know make up a excuse and try not to hurt him too bad do not use a fone or a friend to say no tell him to his face that u just dont want to try saying this its not that i dont like you its just that right now im not ready to began another relationship or somthin similar best wishess
2007-05-28 08:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by sapphire_cutie94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth! You don't love him and chances are if he just broke up with another girl that it's only the lonely talkin' hun'
Good Luck
2007-05-28 08:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lil Italian Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lie and tell him you are pregnant with another man's boyfriend, or that you have an STD, or that you are seeing someone else. Or if you really want to scare him off tell him that you want to get MARRIED NOW!!!!
2007-05-28 08:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and let him know your heart. If you tell him what's on your heart he will understand and leave forever provided you really mean what you tell him.
2007-05-28 08:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by Al Feel GoodH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 ways to do it.Just say you dont want to be mean but i just want to be friends.Or the most obvious way.Get one of your girlfriends that can stand him to go with you and you start off by saying.Can we talk.Then when you go to the side have your friend start saying "whatever"She will do it all for you and you wont feel so bad.
2007-05-28 08:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by doodoo27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it did not work out before what makes you think it will work out know don't say no or anything else just walk away
2007-05-28 08:50:41 · answer #11 · answered by love for fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋