Before I got with my fiance, I had sex with a couple of friends while in high school. I told him, while having a conversation about past people. He acted like it was so wrong and that it was slutty. Like I was a bad person or something. But it was a mutual decision between us and we were friends for a while...so it's not it was a one night stand. Is there anything wrong with casual sex with friends?
2007-05-28 08:11:01 · 10 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a personal choice, and I find that you have to be real mature to make it work.
You're friend probably reacted that way because some people see it as cheating. I totally hate that. People and their assumptions are really annoying.
Casual's cool by me so long as everyone consents and respects and is honest and communcates their needs.
2007-05-28 08:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a smart move on your part. This will haunt your marriage for as short as it lasts. No guy wants to know about your past lovers, even if he asks. You were foolish to say the least to tell him. This sluttiness of yours was better kept to yourself. Keep this in mind for the next husband/fiance.
There is a reason you are not friends with that guy anymore and the sex was the biggest reason. This is the real problem with what you did and not much more.
Don't expect your fiance to put it behind or forget it. Men just don't work that way...just as a woman wouldn't.
Just want were you thinking when you told him?
2007-05-28 15:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
safe sex is the best... casual shopping sex is fun and smart..the things i know now makes a lot of difference.. marry a guy that can come more than twice.. marry a guy that can do more than one position before the first ejaculation.. marry a guy that taste great.. marry a guy that will hold you after the greatest sexual gratification...all of this i found out after 3 other sexual partners ...........so i was lucky he wasn't number 10.......most important marry someone that can handle your erotic desires.. it isn't that bad unless your fiance is insecure then you gotta be the teacher and teach him all of the above
2007-05-28 15:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by bazookabubble gum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so as long as both friends understand that you still want to be friends afterwards. Your fiance shouldn't judge you for what you did before you were with him.
2007-05-28 15:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same exact problem. You can't change the past. In time he'll have to get over it. There's nothing wrong with it at all.
2007-05-28 15:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by kristie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol not really...I'd love to have sex with some of my friends
2007-05-28 15:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Nate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with it as long both of you feel the same way and its not like u were goin buck wild or ne thng like tht
2007-05-28 15:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by black_gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casual sex is great!
2007-05-28 15:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! He needs to get over it. Its that double standard thing. guys can sleep with who ever they want and its cool. But us women do and wwe are gross and sl*ts
2007-05-28 15:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, me and my friend who is a boy always play with eachother like he squeeze by b-o-o------bs and I will give him b------jo-bs. we know its not like we are a couple its just fun
2007-05-28 15:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋