Family & Relationships - 28 May 2007

Zack- my cousin.....Albert-my cousin...Julia-my bff...Cassie-ahaha shes an extremely terrible child
We are all 14.
Every week Zack and albert said they would go bowling with me and julia, they ditched us 8 wks, even my birthday week. When we call them they just ignore me and julias calls. Yesterday at the playground i saw zack and albert, i wanted to thank them for them telling me that they were coming to hang with me two days ago, and they never came. Well albert was in a bad mood then they walked away from the playground to go swimming at zack's, just leaving me there. then they came back with cassie, albert just met her the day before i think, and zack always talked about her. They just ignored me. Then they ditched me and walked away, going to zack's grandmothers house (his g-ma was out of town). Then I forgot to ask albert why he didnt go bowling this 8th week in a row, so I called his cell, he ignored me 3 times, then he picked up and said that they were in the woods and cassie

2007-05-28 02:33:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-28 02:31:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with every day it seem the struggle gets harder.
with every breath it seem life gets shorter.
when every step feel like a trip.
when every hope feel less.
when you give but don't get.
when you forgive but never forget.
where do you go from there?
when you love so hard you become loveless.
tell me why love hurt so bad?

2007-05-28 02:30:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This will be our first date as for the first time we only saw each other half an hour and then we decided to write to each other and now a meeting will be happened soon.

2007-05-28 02:28:45 · 5 answers · asked by i_t_81 1 in Singles & Dating

For some reason it depresses me

2007-05-28 02:28:29 · 7 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be mother in law is driving me nuts... My fiance and I have been together for 4 years, She thinks I have to stop what I am doing to run errands for her at her beck and call. She is in a wheelchair is totally "with it" mentally. and doesn't understand that I can't run for her every day. I work full time night shift, and he works full time day. I go to the grocery story to get her ridiculaous list. and run medications from the pharmacy at least 4 times a week. i wouldn't mind doing it once a week. I have told her how we feel but she thinks we are mad at her. She is divorced from father in law, has 3 sisters of her own, she is late 40's. Please someone tell me what to tell her. I have told her I can't because of work, the kids, gas prices. I don't run to the grocery store 4 times a week for my self. I don't want her to think I hate her, but my lord this is ridiculous.. any thoughts??

2007-05-28 02:27:02 · 10 answers · asked by Holly 2 in Family

2007-05-28 02:26:39 · 7 answers · asked by nitin r 1 in Friends

Why is it that when I'm sitting next to a guy that they start to bounce their leg/s? Like, they keep their feet on the ground and they are short up & down bounces. And their isn't music or anything. Is it some sort of sign? I like most of the guys that do it.

2007-05-28 02:24:37 · 18 answers · asked by love 1 in Singles & Dating

About 50% of marriages end in divorce (highest estimate I've read). Then 50% of them end un-amicably.

Why should gays get special rights to avoid divorce court?

2007-05-28 02:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so here's my story...if you read any of my other questions you will know that i've been talking about this guy a couple of times. Well, now we actually are dating but the problem is that only my best friend and the guys in my class know about us. We have a very VERY small school and everyone knows everything about the other, and no one really likes this guy. They all think he's weird and stupid! But i really like him. I'm friends with the girls, but not close. They would laugh and make my life hell when i tell them! They always made fun of me for being close friends with him and teased me that i like him, and now if they find out - i dont know what they'll think of me! That i'm an even bigger loser than i already am! Oh, btw, he's my first boyfriend and im 16. How do i tell them? And how do i prevent them of making fun of me when i do?

2007-05-28 02:21:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I noticed that in many sites and channels they hide the male genital organ but they show the female one. Why are they doing that, What is the point?

2007-05-28 02:21:30 · 10 answers · asked by Mr. Bean 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 02:19:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this may take a minute...

man was married(wife cheated) and began seeing a woman, me...

on again off again, talked for hours, tried to even help with the marriage to work if that was what he wanted...

i was getting tired of the "i'm going back to my wife" and was going to end it...but got pregnant

skip ahead, we are now married with the baby and now another...

i stay at home with kids, i love him, he is a great guy, loves the kids and me but i feel like i am going crazy. i don't leave the house except for dr. appt. or to go to my moms with kids to spend the night maybe 2 times a month. his life seems to be going on as usual, i know its changed but mine has done a 180 turn. i was working, very independant with no responsibilities but to myself. i feel very trapped at times and am afraid i'm beginning to resent my kids, kinda feel like i wouldn't be here if not for the oldest (my fault i know for unprotected sex) but like i said i love him and want out children to have

2007-05-28 02:17:53 · 14 answers · asked by SweetieGoat 4 in Marriage & Divorce

basically the girl who helped sort things out between me and my guy - stole him!! They were the best of friends, and since he trusted her, I did to. We got into a fight she called me a 2am , telling me he loves me and I told her I love him to and did not mean for the fight to happen...

Invariably me and him parted ways - cause he decided its over, I did love him truly... 1 month later he told me he never did said he loves someone else... 5 months later we spoken again, and got back, and broke up just as easily - I can say I trusted him way to much - He broke my heart...
Spoke 2 months later as friends, he was awefully rude, and said he didn't ever want to walk to me again, and I should just to to hell!!

Today, I saw him and that girl, walking out of the guy I used to go to, and apparently he's joined the gym too, they were walking like I used to with him, and I knew it was her that he's now in love with. I don't know what to do, feel like I'm on the verge of a breakdown. heLP

2007-05-28 02:11:45 · 7 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I sent my fiancee an email and explained everything that I've been feeling about this relationship. One of the problems happens to be his mother and her behavior, she acts like he is her husband. While she is at work, she will call him 3 to 4 times each day. She expects him to pay everything for her. She's constantly worried about his finances and where he goes(if I call her to see how she is, she will ask "Where did he go? Whose house is he at now?)<---If he wanted you to know as a 29 year old man, he would have told you!
I tried to explain my irritation to him nicely and he's like "I dont think its really like that, but I can see how you would feel that way because I have been the man of the house. Perhaps you take it harder."

2007-05-28 02:07:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He makes me cry and makes me feel bad because he is a jealous person

2007-05-28 02:04:25 · 7 answers · asked by E 1 in Singles & Dating

She wants to put me in family photo's. We have dated coming up on 6 yrs and he clearly is not interested in a marriage or future with me. I do not want myself in the family photo's.
How can I get her to knock it off?

2007-05-28 02:01:44 · 9 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

my best friend's boyfriend has been one of my best friends for a while. and my boyfriend was one at my best friends for years, now everything has changed, it sucks. what should i do about my feelings for my best friend's boyfriend?

2007-05-28 01:59:46 · 25 answers · asked by Gwenna 2 in Friends

Do you really want an honest answer?? Also, are you trully willing to look at yourself and THINK??
Most of relationship problems stem from simple "Selfishness", think about it now!! Don't fly off the handle, really THINK it through and you will see that "Selfishness" on your part or your partners part, is the "Root" of your relationship problems.
After accepting that selfishness does exist here, the next thought will be to "Rationalize" that selfishness. "Well....he or she, did this or that" and with that you declare your "Right" in the matter.
"Well...I'm horny!!" "I want this or that" "He never does this or that for me!!" And if he or she did that in truth, check the "Selfishness Factor"!! It pops up everytime.
How about this, before you get in trouble. "Could WE possibly do this??" Or "Can WE make this happen about such and such"?? You have to sit together and agree to THINK and FEEL and BE as a single mind. Not two people struggling! Especially not AT each other

2007-05-28 01:53:55 · 11 answers · asked by dontwobears@sbcglobal.net 4 in Marriage & Divorce

have a list of the traditional wedding decorations for the ceremony and the reception? Like at the ceremony, there's the aisle runner and pew bows and other stuff, and at the reception, there's centerpieces and other stuff. I'm having a hard time finding a list of all these decorations, as I don't know them offhand. Please help!

2007-05-28 01:45:51 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa H 1 in Weddings

Went out with this women for four/five this months.
Most of the time her emotions were pretty mixed up due to her father dying the previous July. I never put her under any pressure for anything and tried to understand her grief but in the end our dates were affected by her sense of loss and me trying to understand her mixed messages and mood swings.

We were supposed to meet last Wednesday after six weeks but she cancelled due her being ill, which, even though I am a pretty sceptacle person, believe to be true because her stress always made her a little ill in one way or another.
Anyway I get a text on Saturday night asking me what I was up to over the weekend, I just said I was chilling after a long week. She text back to say she was doing the same.
So was she just bored? Looking for me to suggest something? as she is pretty backwards in coming forwards, or just checking to see if I was out with somebody else?
I'd really like to see her again, what to do?

2007-05-28 01:41:40 · 12 answers · asked by crazy fool 1 in Singles & Dating

We're having our wedding this summer, and we do not really have a kid friendly menu. We have about 3 younger kids under ten, and a 14 year old (who doesn't like either of the two meals we are serving). The place we're having the reception isn't exactly kid friendly itself, and I'm wondering if anyone has any ideas on kid meals I could ask the chef to make. He's an Italian chef by the way and said he can make whatever I'd like.

It's also a luncheon reception, but the only thing I can think of is chicken tenders or something like that. Any other ideas?

2007-05-28 01:36:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

hi i have bought a lilac chiffon dress which although is really nice i am not sure it is suitable for me getting married in. i had wanted something cream but cant find anything suitable.

What do you think about a bride wearing lilac, it has a wee matching shawl and i was going to get silver sandals etc

2007-05-28 01:33:40 · 25 answers · asked by cottontail 5 in Weddings

my best friend hadn't seen me in 5 months so we'd arranged to meet but she completely chose her bf over me and was an hour late...i wouldn't normally care, it's just an hour. But she hadn't seen or spoken to me in 5 MONTHS!! she was so excited to see me as well, some people say she's using me...what do you think??

2007-05-28 01:26:03 · 19 answers · asked by ludo 3 in Friends

When my wife and I have sex, I cannot have an orgasm. I am attracted to her, it just takes me so long. I always have to finish myself off, and she gets upset. It used to not be so hard, but here lately its almost impossible. She gets so upset, and I dont have any explantions for her.

2007-05-28 01:19:51 · 18 answers · asked by Chet the Body 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently called my old high school sweetheart--last monday--and he said he was glad to hear from me, and that he had been trying to get in touch with me. We chatted for 10mins or so and he gave me his email address. I emailed him Tuesday morning. Finally Friday I called him again and asked if I had the right email since I hadn't heard back. He said he's been busy and went and checked and said yes, I got your email. He had to run off to work. Now, today is Monday and I still have heard nothing from him. Should I email him again, call him again, or do nothing?

2007-05-28 01:17:00 · 2 answers · asked by jilldaniel_wv 7 in Friends

I VE tried my best not to notice how attractive he is coz i feel like im betraying my mom.but i cant help it..pliz help me stop thinking like this

2007-05-28 01:15:36 · 31 answers · asked by tot 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our mom is a nurse and quit her job to be a part time waitress. A bad decision I know and when my sister found out, she said, "How stupid can a person get? " My mom had money problems after that and my sister told her it's her own fault. Another time we went out to eat and I left the tip. My mom tried to pick up the tip and told us she got confused and thought she had left money laying on the table. My sister rolled her eyes and real loud said, "Give me a break! You know that money isn't yours so stop trying to steal it." When my mom asks my sister personal questions, my sister tells her to butt out, if she wants her to know something she'll tell her. She treats our mom rude and I tried talking to her about it and she basically blows me off. My sister and me are adults and she has no compassion at all for our mom. What to do????

2007-05-28 01:09:58 · 10 answers · asked by my_sister 1 in Family

2007-05-28 00:53:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-28 00:14:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships