my best friend hadn't seen me in 5 months so we'd arranged to meet but she completely chose her bf over me and was an hour late...i wouldn't normally care, it's just an hour. But she hadn't seen or spoken to me in 5 MONTHS!! she was so excited to see me as well, some people say she's using me...what do you think??
2007-05-28 01:26:03 · 19 answers · asked by ludo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think she's using you in this case. Sometimes when you're in a relationship, you can get a little carried away with that person. If I were you, I would just let it go. You said she was happy to see you, so don't worry about it. She's obviously very into this guy and made a mistake. Forgive her and move on.
2007-05-28 01:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk 2 ur friend. If she cares as much as u then she'll get it. Stay calm but tell her that ur feeling deserted, like she doesn't care anymore. Arrange 2 do more with her and she'll soon remember how u guys used 2 be. Best friends r forever but sometimes 1 friend has 2 giv a little more. Please dnt giv up, the thought of losing my best friend has me in tears, if u love her tell her. She probably doesn't realise how absent shes been coz shes soo caught up in her relashionship right now but it doesnt mean she cares any less. Tell her that u want her back in your life and don't leave it 5 1/2 months b4 u meet up again. And call her often!!! at least once a week. Communication is the key. Remind her how gr8 u r and how much she needs u as well as how much u need her. Don't let go.
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2007-05-30 05:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll first of all to a girl a boyfriend is everything they love them make cookies for them and never leave them alone. I think she might be using you but in way could you say that. Every on makes mistakes and you dont know may be this is her first boy friend in like months so may be she wants to make sure she keeps her man. Why dont you sit down and discuss this with her and tell it how it made you feel that you choose your bf over your best friend:)
2007-05-28 01:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jazz Isaac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are always late. I have a best friend who is always late no matter where she goes. That is just her. I wouldn't take it personally.
Your best friend should be respectful enough to call and tell you she was going to be late. I would speak to her about it and tell her it bothers you, after all you are best friends and should be able to talk about anything. Tell her to call you next time as you were so excited to see her and thought something might have happened to her. Tell her she is your best friend and best friends communicate.
Give her a hug and forgive her as friends are forever.
2007-05-28 01:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously bowled over with her new bf so thats why she's been neglecting you. Its allright...happenes to everyone once in a while. If you still dont feel secure abt it you should just confront her. But for now I dont think its really THAT bad and theres no reason for you to jump to conclusion. I really dont think shes using you-it was just a mistake. But before you do anything think abt the consequences and just imagine your life without her.
2007-05-28 01:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can be friends for ever but let u friend Have A life if u are really good friends . U have to get over that my best friend got married and i don't mind not seeing as of en as we use to but when we do get together we have Lot and Lot to talk about
2007-05-28 01:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Nicky_my bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friend over boyfriend. Boyfriends last for a few months, best friends are forever. It sounds like you should remind her of this.
2007-05-28 06:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think shes using you in the first place?
or is there a reason why she should?
for me there's no reason for you to get jealous you know thats her bf and by the way do have a bf also?if none well i guess its time for you to find one so you urself will be able to understand whats going on!
2007-05-28 01:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If youre her bestfriend, then you knew her better than 'some people'..What do you think, is she using you? Of course, she would choose her bf over you, wont you do the same if youre in your shoes?..Good luck to you and your bestfriend.
2007-05-28 01:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Like you said, it is just an hour. You both still had a good time and wasn't that the point?
2007-05-28 01:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by lt 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋