Family & Relationships - 28 May 2007

I have this friend and when its just me and her everythings fine and great but when were with other people she'll bearly even talk to me why is this?

2007-05-28 03:56:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my week has been stinky because yesterday my car second car broke down. my job never seems to give me enough help. i work part time at a grocery store as an office assisstant. i have made some of the most important people in my life mad at me. please help me with how i can get some good luck and get out of the dumps.

2007-05-28 03:55:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is it worth getting published or does it suck. i wrote it last night

their looks and body i despise
anger and jealousy soon arise
a need for perfect i cannot subdue
im alone down here with no one but you
always so critical always so mean
with all these troubles i must come clean
i hate when i breath, it means im still here
im living my life with nothing but fear

2007-05-28 03:55:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am half filipino and half american indian. People, even guys, tell me I am unique and pretty, but they wont date me. Is it because Im mixed??? Should I worry, or will I meet the right person? Is it so bad to be mixed?

2007-05-28 03:53:43 · 28 answers · asked by Sooo. 3 in Singles & Dating

usually, do you give up on a guy that easily if he didn't ask you out yet? (we'er still talking, flirting and stuff....)

2007-05-28 03:53:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would the bond be broken??Would you talk to other guys?Would you take him back after he explained why he did it?Would you go to the club?Would u say its over??????

IF YOU TRULY LOVED HIM..........HONESTLY WHAT WOULD YOU DO?????????????????????????????????????????????

IS IT UNDERSTANDABLE for a girl to talk to other guys when this happens??...........but if you love someone, another boy should not make you feel better, right???????????????

idk tell me something

2007-05-28 03:52:46 · 5 answers · asked by BangerZ 1 in Singles & Dating

ok for about 6 years now my step mom has complained that i have a badass attitude and that i piss her off everyday. well im 13 and i hate her. well my mom and dad have been divorced since i was 16 months old and ever since then my dad took care of me and my brother by himself. i gave all my mothers day stuff to my g-ma and havent gotten used to givin it to my step mom since and really i dont get her anything. well now she says she doesnt even care about me and that she knows i hate her and uses my mom against every ****** time i get in trouble. she talks bad bout her. well in like a week im goin to my blood mothers house and i think my step mom is jealous
just yesterday i think she tried to start a relationship with me... but i dont want one with her because i really do hate her with a passion.. what should i do?? ignore her, or try to build a relationship too??

2007-05-28 03:50:23 · 19 answers · asked by lind.say.le.anne. =] 2 in Family

They go to the same place for the same time every Monday and someone broke in. They've lived in the same neighborhood for over 40 years. Obvisouly they are elderly and now we know, don't keep the same routine, other than that, what should they do, not do?

2007-05-28 03:49:22 · 6 answers · asked by lady 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend and her husband have been on rocks for quite a while. She finally told me a couple months ago that things were not good and they were going to counseling. Well, counseling has not helped and now it is time for the divorce. She doesn't want or like to talk about it, so I don't bring it up. I support her decision 100%, he's a jerk, I told her that on day one of their relationship. She just keeps saying that he needs to change a lot and it's not going to happen. I do think there are mutual issues (trust, drinking, money). What can I do to help her out without being to pushy or in her face about it?

2007-05-28 03:48:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

also plz tell me that how many time she would take in recharge or able to have sex again for second and third time and more in first night?i;e 15 min or 20 min or...

2007-05-28 03:48:10 · 9 answers · asked by liqvid 1 in Weddings

2007-05-28 03:47:59 · 23 answers · asked by vie 2 in Friends

I was answering Falco's question on cheating when I found myself putting 'just' physical and as I typed it it occured to me that I had no idea how that would work (which I put in brackets) and then thought to myself, well, let's find out then....

Basically when someone says they're not emotionally involved, it's just a physical thing how is that possible???

I can't get my head around it, how can you be physically intimate but not emotionally involved on some level?

I'm not asking because someone's done something by the way, just because I'm genuinely befuddled by it as a concept....

2007-05-28 03:47:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At my age, I won't be going down that road anymore.

2007-05-28 03:46:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please give the steps on how to repair this...

2007-05-28 03:44:16 · 6 answers · asked by BB5150 1 in Friends

Been married for 5 years and my marriage is as dull as dishwater despite trying to spice it up many times. My husband is a couch potato and doesn't even want to try to work things out. Our daughter is 3 and recently I've started going out every couple of weeks drinking with single friends. I've been snogging a couple of blokes. I wouldn't sleep with them but does this count as being unfaithful or is it just a laugh?

2007-05-28 03:43:42 · 61 answers · asked by Abbey H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

None of my friends ever tell me anything. I'm in what's considered the popular crowd, and the most uncool people could know things before me. Basically, I'm the last one to know anything that's going on.
I don't get why I don't get told anything, and I don't have a big mouth, either. One day at lunch, I asked what was going on. They told me nothing was going on, like they always do when somethings happening. I finally got one of them to break. I asked why I wasn't told sooner, my friends said they didn't want to make a big deal out of it and they didn't want everyone to know. I came back with "But everyone already knows, so why can't I know, and why am I never told anything even when it involves me???" I didn't make it a big blowout or anything but i got my point across.
Mostly I can rely on 2 people to tell me stuff.
Any suggestions???

2007-05-28 03:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

answer this if u do have a long one, and then email me please!

2007-05-28 03:36:40 · 13 answers · asked by Tina L 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always been told I was an attractive young woman but I am now almost 6 months pregnant and feel really unattractive even though I only weigh 115 lbs.When my fiance went 2 weeks away for training he told me he bought some nudity magazines. Does that mean he thinks I am ugly and wishes that I looked like those girls? Is he not attracted to me anymore or why did he have to buy those magazines?

2007-05-28 03:36:40 · 17 answers · asked by nady19 1 in Singles & Dating

because i asked this girl out and she said yes but she didnt seem really sure or excited about it.

2007-05-28 03:36:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm falling in love with my best friend. He's finally single so we pass notes in class all the time, talk to each other A LOT, and hang out after school. We went to the carnival as friends and had a really good time we even held hands (on a water gun) and on like all the rides I tried really hard not to fall on him! I have a study hall with him on Tuesday, I want to get on the topic of LOVE but it's really hard cause all we talk bout is silly stuff and I can't just flat out say "I Love You". Even if I don't tell him there will always be rumors = Help me!!!

2007-05-28 03:35:04 · 11 answers · asked by I Luv Abercrombie 1 in Friends

we've been together for 2.5 years, things are good.

However I have to leave this country to get back to the west, as I need to progress in my career and staying here any longer will be detrimental to this.

However, she cant leave as we dont have the funds/property to get the visa - and we both dont want to marry yet.

Also long distance isn't an option.

Do I stay here with the woman I love and never be able to advance in my career, or leave and be heartbroken?.

2007-05-28 03:34:14 · 16 answers · asked by jimmypayneman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex is not paying her half of auto insurance($475), her $250 of health and since our son moved in with me while going to college she isn't paying her 1/3 of room and board. How is the best way to handle this? Do I need to get a lawyer?

2007-05-28 03:32:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This was the 1st time I caught him after married 8 years. I was shocked and felt very hurt and upset. I ask him why but he cannot answer and refuse to answer. He ask me never to ever mention or talk about it. I ask him whether he always does it all these while but he denies t. He says it was because I was pregnant and did not want to ask me to have sex with him because he feels that I might have difficulty to do it. Why men still masturbate even though he have good sex wih wive?

2007-05-28 03:32:16 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive had 1 really good long 6 month relationship about a year ago it was long distance but nice but in the end just decided to be friends. I havent done much dating at all cause ive been used twice now and completley puts me off. I think of myself as a nice guy i like to have but i also can be a bit of an asshole but in a good way, but im just tired of getting used. im not bad looking girls like to flirt alot with me but just things either go nowhere or i end up getting screwed over. I don't go out lookin for a girlfriend etc im not desperate but when it does happen its always bad or the girls are nice but live no where near me or just use me anyone else sick of stuff like this? whats the problem?

2007-05-28 03:31:50 · 8 answers · asked by bd3333 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 03:31:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a boyfriend and I we met when we were kids...and then I never knew anything about him because he and his family went to the united states for living definitely.
the situation is that 12 or 13 years later and that means 8 month ago, he contact me again (after all hese years, you know) and we started talking by phone (because he lives in the us of course) 5 months ago, he came here to the place I live (far away from the united states) to visit me and then we started a relationship...now, we`ve been a couple for 5 months eventhough we`re far away one of the other...the thing is that he says that he wants to marry me, that he is in love with me, that he doesnt want to lose me and thats why he wants to be with me forever...
The truth, I love him as well, Im in love with him. how could I be in love with a person who lives in another country? I dont know, but he is a very special person.
He says hes gonna pop the question at any time and i would marry him but, is he serious? tell me

2007-05-28 03:29:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I need answers. I'll hurt by my heart and maybe physical but I need to get out.

2007-05-28 03:28:43 · 28 answers · asked by !!engaged&underage*HAPPY*!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A female with a car look more attractive to the opposite sex.
THe more a female has of her own car/home/hobbies/job etc does it look more attractive when a female more independant and in control of her life, to suppose open to relying on men to drive her around the place.
I know girls who use their looks to get what they want from guys like lifts home etc but i personally find it degrading and hate the idea of the men having control over me like that. I don't know if i'm makingsense with the point i'm trying to make and the point i'm trying to discover is that do men really find it attractive when they give girls lift home.

2007-05-28 03:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by brownskinrose 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so my 'friend' told out whole middle school that i like this boy in my class. now he is like, i dunno, afraid of me...??!!! i'm so embaressed and now everyone teases me 24/7 at school. i'm moving and i want him to stop being mad at me b4 i move. how the heck am i supposed t odo that!!!! HELP!!!!!

2007-05-28 03:27:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've recently fell in love with a guy, but he frustrates me very much. I know he cares about me, but he is shy and seems to have a really difficult time showing it. I have to all but beg him to open up to me and talk to me about more than just tv and the weather. Every once and a while I'll get a glimpse of the guy inside and I love it, but I don't know how to get him to let me see more of that. Also, it seems I am always the one to come over to his place and I am always the one to call him. He got angry at his roommate one night and left the place without me! Then sometimes he says he will call and he doesn't. I know he really cares about me so that isn't the question. How do I get him to be a better boyfriend?

2007-05-28 03:25:11 · 10 answers · asked by Jelly B 1 in Singles & Dating