I have this friend and when its just me and her everythings fine and great but when were with other people she'll bearly even talk to me why is this?
2007-05-28 03:56:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she like you a lot more then shes saying , when you are both around other people , she does not want it to show how she feels . so acts indifferent towards you
2007-05-28 04:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that she is confused about her feelings for you. Maybe she likes you as a friend, but is afraid that you expect or hope for more. So, out in public, she doesn't give you toooo much attention.
Otherwise, it could possibly be just your perception. Maybe she likes to mingle when she is in a crowd. But, because of your alone time, when she divides her time among a lot of people, it feels like you aren't getting your usual share?
2007-05-28 11:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by nagoyarob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not want to let on that she likes you, it's embarrassing honestly. Have you tried talking to her casually while other people are around? If that doesn't work, next time you are alone together ask, if she cares she won't mind answering.
Hope this was helpful,
Jess
2007-05-28 10:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Madame Sarcastic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many people share this same talent - but personally try to treat the people the same regardless of the setting
but you have folks who struggle to be accepted by "everyone" but the real truth is that NOONE is liked by EVERYONE
either be what you are or simply do not be
life itself is a gift and we should all appreciate the time we have with whomever we share it with
2007-05-28 11:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she needs to get comfortable w/ those other people ...Is she a private person containing personnal thoughts that r important to her.? Give her time .you may find out she is extremely social when she is comfortable and therefore very likeable to people.. She may keep her hidden specialtys for well deserving crowds,
2007-05-28 11:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she freezes up around others? & doesnt know what to say? & till she feels more at ease, she might be like that, dont worry, very harmless, shes still with you right? im sure shell talk in time, dont force her, she will when time is right, let her open up her way ok? im like that to, i freeze up around others, it takes me a bit to open up, Be kind to her, dont bug her about it, only makes things worse, hugz
2007-05-28 11:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by HELPING LADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she does this you to we won't have the answers to this you have to be open either to ask her.
Good Luck
2007-05-28 11:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Molly D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt know herself.she has to be sure of herself to know that she has it all. and be proud of what she has to relate freely in public.
2007-05-28 11:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by nini g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not important to her.
2007-05-28 10:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you ask her?
2007-05-28 10:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋