Ive had 1 really good long 6 month relationship about a year ago it was long distance but nice but in the end just decided to be friends. I havent done much dating at all cause ive been used twice now and completley puts me off. I think of myself as a nice guy i like to have but i also can be a bit of an asshole but in a good way, but im just tired of getting used. im not bad looking girls like to flirt alot with me but just things either go nowhere or i end up getting screwed over. I don't go out lookin for a girlfriend etc im not desperate but when it does happen its always bad or the girls are nice but live no where near me or just use me anyone else sick of stuff like this? whats the problem?
2007-05-28 03:31:50 · 8 answers · asked by bd3333 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you aren't the problem. don't give up and keep looking. you will find the right one. sometimes it takes time.
2007-05-28 03:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by imsoemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would buy some good books on dating and relationships. Also, I am sincere about this, are you reading your bible? Read about relationships in the bible and you'll discover that there is a lot of wisdom there......especially in Proverbs. You will be greatly enlightened. Also, in the beginning, you have to date a lot of girls to learn the basics. No sex, just learning to communicate, etc.
2007-05-28 10:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up so much in the beginning...share expenses, dont do tons of stuff for them, do not buy them things. Wait until you see if they can be trusted, and like you for yourself, not what you can do for them. You have to do this because there are users out there trying to see what they can get from you.
2007-05-28 10:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by WE 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The problem is that your too soft and too trusting. Let the girl earn your trust and in the mean time you can carefully observe her and what she does
2007-05-28 10:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by !!engaged&underage*HAPPY*!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is not you, is them. Dont worry you will find the right person for you. If not soon then later!
2007-05-28 10:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right one just hasn't come along yet.
2007-05-28 10:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i dont see a promblem u seem like a great guy
2007-05-28 10:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by chickadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush it.......wait for the right moment.....when it'Z there.......u'll feel it.....don't worry.....there'Z alwayZ someone out there for everyone.......even the ugliest dudes get the hottest chicks (no offense)......
2007-05-28 10:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by pSyChOgUiTaRiSt U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋