None of my friends ever tell me anything. I'm in what's considered the popular crowd, and the most uncool people could know things before me. Basically, I'm the last one to know anything that's going on.
I don't get why I don't get told anything, and I don't have a big mouth, either. One day at lunch, I asked what was going on. They told me nothing was going on, like they always do when somethings happening. I finally got one of them to break. I asked why I wasn't told sooner, my friends said they didn't want to make a big deal out of it and they didn't want everyone to know. I came back with "But everyone already knows, so why can't I know, and why am I never told anything even when it involves me???" I didn't make it a big blowout or anything but i got my point across.
Mostly I can rely on 2 people to tell me stuff.
Any suggestions???
2007-05-28 03:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yea. I would just drop the popular peeps, and get with the the uncool crowd. I bet they would be better buds:) !
2007-05-28 03:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are being excluded by your popular friends. So I am not sure how they are really such good friends if you are always being left out. This bothers you, obviously - naturally. They are giving you a silent message and that message is that you are not a full-fledged member of the group, but they are sort of letting you hang around on the outskirts.
I would look for a new group of friends, but take your time over it. maybe join some new clubs at school or take up a new sport and see what happens. Good luck!
2007-05-28 10:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have Im pretty sure you dont want to break your friendship because thats hard but if they cant trust you with nothing maybe you should get one of them on the phone and tell them look i dont undestan why you guys dont tell me anything but first you apoligize so she can feel on your level and then if her answer is i dont know 1 of of ten chances there really not your friends more than likely when there by themselves they probaly talk about you and just gotta go with that if she doesnt tell you a good explanation u might just have to break the relationship
Sincery,
Mz.squarepantz01
2007-05-28 10:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by mz.squarepantz01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW is it always what about me, me, me. Well maybe your not around when somethingis happening and they think that it's all over and everybody knows. So they think you know too. But it's just a phase you go thru. So what you need to do is LOOK, WATCH, and LISTEN and you can find out what's going on
2007-05-28 10:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not have a big mouth but obviously you do make a big deal out of stuff because they are avoiding telling you
2007-05-28 10:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying about what everyone else is doing or not doing and just worry about yourself and getting yourself thru school.
2007-05-28 10:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start telling them stuff you hear rather they heard it or not. one time you will tell them something that they don't know and if it keeps going on, they will eventally start telling you things cause they would want to know what you know.
2007-05-28 10:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by traceysandy917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave em,
they aint ur friends
2007-05-28 10:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is exactly what happends to me all the time..... i just try to ignore it but if it really gets to me i tell my "friends" that it is really bothering me. who knows, maybe they aren't ur real friends.......i found out who my real friends were by doing that
2007-05-28 10:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by trickskater915 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No suggestions. You don't have to know everything.
2007-05-28 10:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋