I have always been told I was an attractive young woman but I am now almost 6 months pregnant and feel really unattractive even though I only weigh 115 lbs.When my fiance went 2 weeks away for training he told me he bought some nudity magazines. Does that mean he thinks I am ugly and wishes that I looked like those girls? Is he not attracted to me anymore or why did he have to buy those magazines?
2007-05-28 03:36:40 · 17 answers · asked by nady19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's insane. His looking at porn doesn't have anything to do with you or how physically attractive you are. What's unattractive is the jealousy and insecurity that rears it's ugly head when men look at porn.
You might try checking it out with him. Good times...
2007-05-28 03:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the bottom line here is that it's all about what's being done in the porno, not necessarily what the parties look like.The most popular porn these days is amateur porn and stars people just like you and I. It's very hot, you should check it out. By the way, did you ever notice (assuming you've ever watched a porn) that the guys in pornos can be a little out of shape yet their "privates" are rather, well, large? There's a reason for that too and I'm sure it's not because the porn industry is just trying to please the guys.
2016-05-19 22:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by gail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at those magazines has nothing to do with what you look like. Basically, those magazines represent sex.. simply stimulation. He could simply think about you, but it's hard to think of your fiance only sexually. He actually loves you, so it doesn't feel right sometimes. So him looking at those magazines isn't a way of saying you're not pretty enough. You shouldn't even be concerned about your being pretty, in the first place. That will cause you more problems than you'd ever care to encounter. But I won't get into that, unless you want to talk about it further. My e-mail address is eckm0032@umn.edu, in case you do.
Heath
2007-05-28 03:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by heath e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual creatures, a man can see different women in a day and have only a sexual interest. That is how we men are built.
Don't worry, nothing has changed, we are still attracted to you, and still want to be intimate with you and have a relationship with you, and love everything that makes you.
And if your man went away for two weeks, he needed visual stimulation to help himself get off, since you were not there in that time to do it for him. Don't take it personal and stop feeling so insecure.
2007-05-28 03:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men for some reason are always going to look at naked women and theres not a whole lot you can do about that. It does'nt mean he doesn't love your body they just get drawn to beautiful woman's bodys and they are just looking. I am a woman to and it really bothers me but if you were confident with yourself then that would'nt bother you and if your like me I dont have a whole lot of self-confidence and I will never look at like porn stars so you are just going to have to accept it or do the same thing he does only buy naked men magazines and see if he likes that.
2007-05-28 03:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one who has a problem with how you look right now is YOU! I'm sure he thinks you look great because he nutted in you and now you are carrying his kid. I know the mother of my child will look awesome as she Carries mine! Girls are so self-centered. I say that because porn has nothing, nothing, NOTHING to do with his feelings for you! and if you think those girls look better than you then that is YOUR problem! he probably just wanted to masturbate because every time he tries to have sex with you, you are acting frigid because YOU don't think you look good naked or "YOU are not up to it!" Go give your man some head and thank him for taking care of you and the unborn and stop being a pain in his butt while he tries to sexually leave you alone by watching porn! and yes you can have sex while you are pregnant so don't go with that excuse! you self centered B-word
2007-05-28 03:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women always seem to think that guys look at porn because they aren't good enough or they feel threatened by it. The truth is that we look at porn simply because we can. It's interesting. It has nothing to do with how you feel about a partner.
2007-05-28 03:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by J D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isn't comparing you to them.
He didn't buy them because he doesn't love you, or find you attractive.
Men are very visual. What we see turns us on, more so than for women.
Sounds like he knew he was going to have to take care of himself while he was away and planned accordingly.
You should be happy that he is comfortable enough to be honest with you about that. Most guys would be ashamed to admit that they are going to be getting their jollies themselves while they're away from their ladies.
2007-05-28 03:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by Bigshow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband use to look at porn, and we watched a small amount together. I think that it can make sex more exciting if it is not out of control. I do t hink he should b e able to masturbate to the vision of you and not someone else. I think you need to talk to him about what he sees when he finishes.
2007-05-28 05:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry. It sounds like he is looking at them to keep himself loyal to you. Most me look at those books just to be looking at them. I would not read anything into it. You can torment yourself for nothing and ruin a relationship that way. No he does not wish you looked like those girls. Men just like to look at nude pictures of women.
2007-05-28 03:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by golden rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋