Family & Relationships - 28 May 2007

My fiances friend has just announced that he is getting married 1 week before we are and my fiance is expected to be the best man! This couple have only been dating for three months and their wedding is in three months. They have known for a year when our wedding date is. I think this is rude. Is it?

2007-05-28 05:05:41 · 31 answers · asked by KikiM110 1 in Weddings

I am curious to what other think so here is the question:

Should a person live with someone before they get married? Why?

2007-05-28 05:05:34 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I try to answer questions but it only seem like lil kids are asking questions, i'm talikng about the ones still in elementary middle and high school. Some trying to get away with things, some trying to do things way before there actually aloud to, and some that really do actually need answers. Why is it lil kids on here asking questions they really shouldnt be worried about?

2007-05-28 05:04:47 · 6 answers · asked by Lady_Sweets82 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 05:01:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months. we are 5 years aparts, the relationship started great, then my bofriend started having some personal problems that has been affectin the relationship to move forward. In the meantime i got a job asignment out of state. we both supported the changes that were occurring in our relationship. SInce my job placement away from him(this is temporary), my boyfriend has been distanted, not attendtive to me and our relationship. He's been too lay back and seem to have put our relationship on hold. My phone calls have been replied on late notices. i feel like im not a priority in the relationship.

2007-05-28 04:53:43 · 3 answers · asked by maudy3227 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, as far as high school girls are concerned, which guy would they like better
1. A very strong and dominant alpha male. Not macho or buff, but fit. Wears very tight hollister or abercrombie shirts. Shorter hair that he gels up. A very friendly guy. A go-getter. Good looking. Very popular. Very dmonstrative.All the girls go crazy for him. However, even though he's very very nice and friendly, he can be a bit impersonal. He jokes around but doesnt get too close. May not listen to all you have to say. A little arrogant. But a very nice guy nonetheless. You once asked him out, but he took you on a date and said he couldnt be with you. But you guys are good friends anyways.
2. A less assertive but very nice guy. Just as popular as the first. But with the girls he's popular as easy to talk to and engages in deeper conversations and with guys as a good friend. Wears nice clothes be it the converse shoes, jeans, collar shirts or the jumper sweaters. Also a very friendly guy but you think

2007-05-28 04:43:45 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there guys out there who are really cute and have a wonderful personality??? Who are good looking, but don`t brag about it all the time and who care about there girlfriend??? Who respects her feelings and problems and doesn`t make fun about it??? If there are any guys who are fun-loving , caring, good looking , has a grate personality and has a sense of humor, PLEASE let me know!!!

2007-05-28 04:40:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has met my friends and says she likes them but the other night she said it would be weird if we all went out to a movie together because it would be 3 guys and her. My friends are nice and would never do anything to make her feel awkward. We ended up spending the night just us two but then she did the same thing a few days later. I don’t get it. Thanks.

2007-05-28 04:36:37 · 21 answers · asked by brunzy23 1 in Singles & Dating

I am single parents. I have two children and now my son live with his father and my girl live with me. I was divorced because ex husband married again, when we still a husband and wife, and I am so dumd, doesn't know everything about that . I can't accept the condition. But till right know my ex husband always give the statement with my son a layer story, that he never did it. He always said that it is only my story and never trust the story. He always said that I want to divorce with him so that why I always barder him about his new wife. I don't want to tell my son cause he still 10th years old. I never said that I caught his father with his new family. My son always think that his father is a hero. Till I was divorced 3 years a go my son didn't talk with me, he hate me so much. I feel like I am dying. And Know my son talk with me only asked me to comeback with his father, and said his father never want the divorced, and still love me forever, and forced me.

2007-05-28 04:35:21 · 9 answers · asked by ika_dj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and think about another man wife during night. I don't know how to controll myself.

2007-05-28 04:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by Marlon L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been really stressed lately and on top of all that i just had to go through the nerve racking think of telling my mum i think i might be pregnant, me and my mum dont talk much. i feel really on edge and my heard going quite fast. i feel quite panicked i dont know why i told her now but i still feel all the presure

ive been watching friends cos it up lifts my mood and my bf was telling me that when ever he felt like that he'd watch friends to make him feel better
but its not working lol

do u know anyways that i can relax a little and chill out, maybe take my mind off thing?

i would really apritiate it
thanks

2007-05-28 04:33:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 22 and my fiance is 25 and we have a 7 month old girl!! i am thinking about leaving him but i don't want him to not have any part in our little girl! he is the type who gets mad very easily. i know that if me and my little girl leave he is just goin to leave and move out of state and never speak to us again!! i need help!! should i stay just for the baby or what?

2007-05-28 04:33:04 · 7 answers · asked by ananda 2 in Family

2007-05-28 04:31:33 · 12 answers · asked by inna s 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 5''2' and weigh around 180. I am 16. and knida shy. I have long brown/blond hair that goes beneath my shoulders.

2007-05-28 04:30:23 · 1 answers · asked by beauty_tells_all 3 in Singles & Dating

he likes me and loves me very much. but his wife forgive him give him chance and he felt guilty. they trying hard to save their marriage now. but after so much of effort he still miss me, call me & date me out. he told me its tempted and lust. he sometime deny the feeling of love. can anyone tell me is love and lust come together? he told me he lost his courage to love me cos of his wife forginess. but when i told him i wanted to quit he start to panic and sad. he will do little deed to make me stay. since he put in effort to save his marriage but why he still have feeling for me? did he truly loves me? i decided to end this relationship, but we work at same company. whenever we can see each other we find it very hard to let go the feeling. he avoid me sometime but sometime he miss me and he will appear infront of me. the emotion dragging till now. how to bury the feeling if we still work in same place? we both suffer cos not willy to let go but have to cos of his marriage.

2007-05-28 04:28:43 · 15 answers · asked by sarah@520 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was shocked when I looked at my crush's Personals section ( on a dating site he invited me to be friends on)--he says he likes assertive, flirty girls with body art.

...I'm sort of shy and hard to open up to, and I don't even have my ears pierced. But he still seems to enjoy talking to me, and thinks I'm a very cool person. But I still feel so inadequate: could he like someone even if they're not totally his type?

...there is definitely a wilder, more assertive side to me, it just doesn't always come out. ;)

2007-05-28 04:26:52 · 1 answers · asked by billie M 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for 2 years. We come from different family background. She came from money and I grew up poor. She looks down on my family and doesnt ever want to spend time with them. I go to college and work full time and also do all the housework(most of the time). Almost every weekend I'll go to my brothers house to hang out with my family. She will get mad and say a whole bunch of cruel things. I spend so much time with her but still get treated like crap. I tried to get her into marriage counselling but she wont go stating that she doesnt have a problem. How do I save my marriage? I never got married to get a divorce but with her not sharing housework and calling me a f-ing loser all the time because I never went to college until I was 28. I just dont know. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

2007-05-28 04:25:17 · 50 answers · asked by starwalker530 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now yeah, every man likes different things in girls and all you guys are different but do guys like bigger girls? Now there is a difference between bigger girls. There are the girls who are big, don't give a dang and dont take care of themselves but then theres those big girls who have high hopes and works on trying to look good by doing anything they can. I'm a big girl and im 16 but being big runs in my family and im just curious as to what guys like and if y'all do like big girls what you like about them. sorry if this don't make much sense but i just want to know

2007-05-28 04:21:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i find a good wife

2007-05-28 04:15:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I cannot go to a doctor until next month and want to know what are some signs that you are?

2007-05-28 04:13:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-28 04:09:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of working on the Marriage and getting to the other side together.. I know some Marriages are not meant to be and for them they need to divorce.Has anyone been in a Marriage that was not meant to be?

2007-05-28 04:08:52 · 14 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you show your love that they are loved and cared for? do you kiss and hug each other before leaving for work,store,trip and say I love you? Do you love the one you are with?

2007-05-28 04:04:06 · 8 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-28 04:03:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like one man. i'm 19 (2-nd year uni student). he's 41. i've been staying with my friend's family in new jersey state for 3 months. he's the friend of the family. he's divorced, his wife cheated on him, they don't see each other, no kids. he's a pretty well-known actor, he's a very nice, easy person, and very clever, sporty one as well. when he first came while having dinner he glanced at me now and then, we talked.he has a very good sense of humour. he came to me when i was doing the dishes and we talked again. then he came every time he had free time? we sort of became closer to each other. not htat he was paying me more attention than others.on the 3rd month i didn't sleep at night and was sitting downstairs in the dark room.heard someone coming.it was him,he wanted water.he saw me.we talked, he asked why didn't i have a bf and gave some good advices.after a while i fell asleep, and he took me to my room. when he turned to leave i woke up and asked him to stay.he said he couldn't because of my age, but i asked him, and we made love for 5-6 hours i guess.the whole family took off for a week to visit their relatives, so i stayed alone, and he also came. we spend whole week together.we had sex onyl twice! so it's not just sex.now we're together for 5 months, i met his friends, parents, we care about each other. one of my friends that know him said he was thinking to move in with me and stuff.
do you think i should move with him? what do you think in generaldon't say he's too old, coz i'm always into men in their late 30s-early40s, and yes, i have a father,he's my best friend, i love him very much

2007-05-28 04:02:39 · 8 answers · asked by Rose M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you have them: how often? Is it more trouble than its worth or do you enjoy the time and can't wait to see them next time?
I'M curious because our social fabric is being torn apart wider each year and families dont appear to be as close to each other as just one generation ago. What's your opinion?

2007-05-28 04:02:12 · 13 answers · asked by dwayne j 2 in Family

I left her and It was a very bitter divorce.Things have seemed to calmed down some.Now the nice things she does is always buy me x-mas,b-day,father day gifts for my son to give me.Always lets me see my son whenever i want and for as long as i want.now for the bad she nickels and dimes me for everything(i all rdy pay her the max the court ordered) and "blasts" me if i give her gref.She trys to run my house by making me stick to all her rules(we have joint custody)like bedtime,movies,ect and i get hell if i don't.The worst is the way she treats my gf(not the reason i left her) who loves my son dearly and treats him great.She talks poorly about her to my family in frount of my son.Flipped out when she went with me to a p/t conference.It was such a mess the school has asked me to keep my gf away from any school functions.There is no reason for this as my gf has never done anything to my ex or son.I know what can do i just want to know why is she acting like this?

2007-05-28 04:00:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Its one of those ex questions, well me and my ex are still friends and we still do things together but now im not in a relationship with anybody but i have been having sex with girls but i still seem to want my ex and think about her. We were together for three years and she has a son that loves and calls me daddy because im the only father figure he knows. But do u think she is going throught the same thing i im because i know she is dating men but she still calls me and wants to go to the movies and she even worrys about me. The other day she told me that she loves me to pieces. But why do we both seem to not want to get back together with each other. Love is weird isnt it.

2007-05-28 03:58:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband is out of town(with his sister for work again)and my neice is staying since her and her mother now have a restraining order from him. my neices boyfriend was staying over that night in the guest bedroom(i said they couldnt share a room)and everything was fine when we went to bed. so i got undressed(i sleep w/o clothes on sometimes)
at about 12:30 i woke up and my husband was massaging my breasts. after about 5 more minutes we were making out and i remembered that my husband was out of town! when i realized this wasnt my husband i looked a little harder and found that it was my neices boyfriend!!(she is 16 and he is 18)
i told him to get out and go to his own bedroom and he did but the next morning he kept on making kissy faces at me over breakfast and when my neice went to the restroom he walked up to me and started makeing-out with me again!

what should i do?
tell somebody?! or should i just stay away from him?!
what if he keeps coming over and trys to kiss me?!

2007-05-28 03:57:43 · 14 answers · asked by supersexyx5 1 in Family

I want to do a Survey on Dating. Please answer this following questions : Have you ever had a Boyfriend/Girlfriend? Have you ever been on a date? Did you ever like someone who didn't like you back? Have you ever kissed with you Boyfriend/Girlfriend? Do you spend a lot of time with your Boyfriend? What did your Boyfriend/Girlfriend do to make you kiss them? Was it just love that made you kiss? Why I want to know these questions: I want to know these questions because I am thinking about getting a Girlfriend soon. I want to be the perfect gentlemen, For my Girlfriend.

2007-05-28 03:56:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating