My girlfriend has met my friends and says she likes them but the other night she said it would be weird if we all went out to a movie together because it would be 3 guys and her. My friends are nice and would never do anything to make her feel awkward. We ended up spending the night just us two but then she did the same thing a few days later. I don’t get it. Thanks.
2007-05-28 04:36:37 · 21 answers · asked by brunzy23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how would you feel if she brought three of her girlfriends are you? Wouldn't be so hot now would it?
2007-05-28 04:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by ~*Katie*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the relationship get to the point to where it is only you two all the time. Take the guys up on their offers to go out once and a while, if she isn't comfortable going...that is fine...but she should want you to go instead. So I would go with or without her next time you get invited. If she gets mad at you for going without....then you would know she is controlling and wants you to be with her all the time...which is bad. Don't let that happen.
But if it is legitimately just that she isn't comfortable around all those guys, talk with her about the reason why and maybe you can get something resolved. Goo Luck and I hope this helps!
2007-05-28 11:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by No where to hide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you all to her self. Women don't feel comfortable when a guys friends are around because Men act different around there friends. You would not be as loving and caring around your friends she wouldn't get that extra attention. Men don't want to be looked at as punks or as a weak guy in front of the friends because men always have something to prove. Don't get me wrong you may not be that way at all you may be totally opposite but the truth is she don't want to go through that so she avoids the situation. We would rather not know then to find out the hard way.
2007-05-28 11:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mz Ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friends (at least) one of them brings a date. Or maybe instead of a movie, go to an amusement park or places where there are a lot of interaction and bright lights, or go to coffee shop. Then after actually spending time talking to them, she can feel more comfortable. Yeh, it would feel weird to be in the dark with the other guys she does not know a lot about.
2007-05-28 11:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by shayna 508 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be your girlfriend is not comfortable around your friends as of now. Let her get to know your friends maybe invite one at a time for lunch or rent a movie to show during the day
2007-05-28 11:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess I can understand how she feels. Yes ur friends are nice and she likes them but she just rather it be the two of u when u and she go out and u can spend time with them without her.
U and she are dating not u she and ur friends. So just make time her her and when u go out with ur boys it's just with them and not her( I hope she will not rip on that) because if she wants u to spend time with her and understand she then needs to realize that u have friends that u would like to hangout with too sometimes.( it's only fair)
I'm sure she has girlfriends who she'd like to hangout with without u. She can't expect for u to give up ur friends( not fair)
U need to get this straight with her, let her know that althought u enjoy being with her when ur together u do have friends u like to hangout and because she rather they not come around when ur together she have to have the same respect for them too
Good Luck
2007-05-28 11:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's weird. She shouldn't mind once in a while but if you're trying to do it all the time, that might be why. It could also just be a selfish power move. She should appreciate the fact that you like being around her and your friends at the same time. Lots of guys don't like to mix.
2007-05-28 11:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds shy, like she needs time. Lots of girls are nervous about their boyfriend's friends not liking them. If one of your friends has a girldfriend, maybe the four of you can hang out. Even better, try to get together as a group with your friends AND hers so that she has someone to talk to in case she doesn't have anything in common with your friends or their girlfriends.
2007-05-28 11:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb she wanted to spend the night with u alone. And it is wierd from a girl's point of view to go out with 3 men although ull r nice. Giv her some time.
2007-05-28 11:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by sash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she can come or not come, but you need a guys night out. There is no reason why she can't hang with you and your friends, but if she feels uncomfortable you can hang with her later. Or she can invite one of her friends along too.
2007-05-28 11:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels uncomfortable since she'll be the odd 'man' out. You could get your friends to bring their girlfriends or get her to invite her friends as well.
2007-05-28 11:41:06 · answer #11 · answered by Jacqui Waze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋