ok, as far as high school girls are concerned, which guy would they like better
1. A very strong and dominant alpha male. Not macho or buff, but fit. Wears very tight hollister or abercrombie shirts. Shorter hair that he gels up. A very friendly guy. A go-getter. Good looking. Very popular. Very dmonstrative.All the girls go crazy for him. However, even though he's very very nice and friendly, he can be a bit impersonal. He jokes around but doesnt get too close. May not listen to all you have to say. A little arrogant. But a very nice guy nonetheless. You once asked him out, but he took you on a date and said he couldnt be with you. But you guys are good friends anyways.
2. A less assertive but very nice guy. Just as popular as the first. But with the girls he's popular as easy to talk to and engages in deeper conversations and with guys as a good friend. Wears nice clothes be it the converse shoes, jeans, collar shirts or the jumper sweaters. Also a very friendly guy but you think
2007-05-28 04:43:45 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his previous silence with you could have been from nervousness. you know he's a nice guy because he supports animal rights. one of your best friends thinks he's a very good guy. has pierced ears. wears soothing colors.. very calm and chill. Both guys get good grades. both guys are friends.
2007-05-28 04:54:26 · update #1
#2. I'd rather be with a guy who I can connect with and get to know.
2007-05-28 04:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Rewind 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2007-05-28 04:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a woman and far as I can tell you worry about all the wrong things when it comes to attracting a female. Its not what you wear or how expensive your clothes might cost. Girls are attracted to guys that are respectful towards others, friendly personality, not selfish, giving, thoughtful, and honest. Some guys will promise things, then not carry through. This is a bad thing. When you can't trust the words of the opposite gender you have nothing. Popular guys usually end up finishing last. They think because they are good looking girls will fall for anything they want. This isn't always true. Being your self is what they look for and they aren't at tracked to a lot of competition because of their great appearance. Looks are only skin! deep! So remember to be genuine inside and you will do better in the end. Cocoa
2007-05-28 05:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by cocoa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, seriously, I am a guy and I am not in HS anymore, but I have a life secret that will shock you. Girls like the macho idiots until they are like 25, and they do not like being in long term relationships with them. After that, they like the smart guys because there is a point in life where they no longer want a 'fun guy' (which I dont understand because they treat them like crap) and want a husband. Case in point, I was the smart popular guy my whole life, but didn't really get into many relationships before I was 23-24-25. After that I was a crazy chick magnet because they all wanted to be in relationships (which, once I was getting attention, I DIDN'T want.)...
So, if you want to get the attention of the ladies in high school, be the bad, jerky, alpha male. After high school, still be that guy. After that, be the smart, cool, deep conversation guy.
My real suggestion, though, is to be yourself and deal with not getting chicks for a while. It will give you more chance to become successful, and then once you are established you will be beating them off with a stick. Really. That is what I did, and looking back on it, a lot of girls that I wanted to date have really crappy lives now anyway, so I don't feel as sorry as I did when I wanted them.
2007-05-28 04:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Your Favorite Writer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go for the 2nd guy just because he has almost everything that the first has: good looks, dress great, popular, and friendly. However, a relationship with the second guy would be more meaningful because you can engage in a deeper conversation and someone who is easy to talk to and can be a friend. The first guy can be too agressive and can be forceful if he wants to. You don't need that girl! You are strong and you can decided for your self and you DO NOT need him to dominate you. Go for the 2nd!
2007-05-28 04:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by shayna 508 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. 2
2007-05-28 04:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, number 2 sounds so much more easier to get to know than number 1. Especially since he told you that he couldn't be with you??? However, the choice is still yours. If you want to be friends with number 1 and hope...so be it. Did number 2 show an interest? If he has, go for it. You will never know until you give it your all. And trust me, girls should always give it their all. Be honest, loyal, show consideration and be the beautiful young lady you are meant to be. Love is a beautiful thing and it can also hurt but it is worth it. You will be in my thoughts.
2007-05-28 04:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who could you picture living with in your old age? It sounds like the first guy and you did not click romanticly. The second guy seems more like the type of guy you can enjoy being with longterm. The problem is: you need to just have fun and quit worrying so much. When it's the right one for you to be with; your instincts will tell you. This is where you listen to your heart! The answer is there!
2007-05-28 04:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 1st guy sounds like a snob... Looks are nice, but personality wins my heart. The 1st guy, you may think has a good personality too, but he just doesn't cut it in the real world. I'd choose the 2nd guy every time.
2007-05-28 04:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by Princess Leia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of girl you're going for. If she's the explosive type, craving attention and movie-like butterflies, she'd definitely go for the first category. If you're talking more down to earth girls, it would be the second.
2007-05-28 04:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jules 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
severe college, what not elementary time! properly in severe college unhappy yet actual maximum women tend to prefer the the macho guy, aka they prefer an asshole, i understand thats undesirable to declare yet they do. Now i'm not asserting cope with ladies undesirable and that they'll prefer you b/c the great element approximately ladies liking those style of jerks is they lose interest of being taken care of undesirable and choose for the nice guy! nice adult men fairly do end final!
2016-10-09 00:03:26 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋