with every day it seem the struggle gets harder.
with every breath it seem life gets shorter.
when every step feel like a trip.
when every hope feel less.
when you give but don't get.
when you forgive but never forget.
where do you go from there?
when you love so hard you become loveless.
tell me why love hurt so bad?
2007-05-28 02:30:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When you know someone as a casual acquaintance, you don't obsess over where they are or what they are doing and you don't wish they were there every second.
With love, it is different, many people feel pain with their love because they allow themselves to dwell on the what ifs.
Like What if she is talking to another guy, or what if she decides she doesn't like me anymore?
You have to get a grip, love is a very comfortable and painless feeling if you don't let yourself worry about silly things too much.
If it is meant to be and you are compatible, she will feel basically the same way as you do.
If it isn't real, you can't afford to have a fickle girl to obsess over anyway.
Don't read too much into what she does when you aren't around, just be glad for the times when you are together.
2007-05-28 02:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love
makes you stronger
makes you harder
makes you hopeful
makes you a giver
makes you a forgiver
makes you lovable and adorable
Hurt is a must to make one a strong personality. Medicines are never delicious but still they are more important than sweet ice cream.
If hurt and struggle make us stronger and bold, then how they can be bad and if love eventually makes you a stronger and bold person to face life and adversities, how it can be bad. Remember, you are a stronger person with every such day.
2007-05-28 02:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Goldman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because if it were real love then you would know that life is a series of compromises, forgiving and forgetting, thinking of someone besides yourself and your feelings, etc. What you describe here seems more like an obsessive-compulsive disorder relationship.
2007-05-28 02:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's love for the wrong person it hurts, if it's for the right person it's the most beautiful, warm, happiest feeling ever! Don't give up on love - it is out there waiting for you.
2016-04-01 00:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because:sometimes the love is real love so you can't imagine your life without it. sometimes you love a person very mush but he\her doesn't love you.
2007-05-28 03:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by rima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club
2007-05-28 02:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by MuSiC = LiFe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My relationship is not that hard. If yours keeps getting harder, then maybe it's not the right relationship for you.
2007-05-28 02:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by FireBug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sometimes the guy/girl u like, don't like you back, but there are other guys/girls that like you a lot, but you don't like them, but wish you could because they are nice and truly like you, and wish the guy/girl that you like, could like you back the way it should....
personal experience!!!
2007-05-28 02:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by kelly m. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it takes time, effort and trust
2007-05-28 02:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋