well I need some advice, I have a boyfriend named Nick, and me and him have been friends for 6 years and been going out 4 a year and 5 months (almost six), and I love him SO MUCH and NEVER want to be without him!! He makes me happy. but.... I met this guy and he is just like AMAZING, he is sweet, cool, and SO CARING, and he tells him I make him SO HAPPY, and would do anything for me, he told me he loved me, and you know what? I love him too, he knows about Nick and says he'll be patient for whenever me and Nick break up, but what if me and Nick NEVER break up and he is just waiting? I tell him to move on but he WON'T! He refuses to!! I ;m so confused right now!! I love them both SO MUCH, and I know they both would make me SO HAPPY!! If you have ANY advice and I mean ANY I'd really appreciate it!! thank u SO MUCH in advance!!
2007-05-28 12:29:49 · 10 answers · asked by Kristina S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it's not like WHEN me and Nick break up, he meant it as IF me and Nick ever break up, he's not just waiting for mena him 2 break up, he just wants me happy
2007-05-28 12:44:19 · update #1
Maybe you and Nick and this new guy should all go on a long weekend trip together either camping or to a motel. The three of you could have a threesome and you could decide which guy you liked best or maybe the three of you could just continue to enjoy each other. Who knows, if things work out maybe you could bring in a girl friend for a foursome.
2007-05-28 12:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by don n 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like ur in a pickle alright! I'd say stay with the one you already have (Nick) . You should forget about the 2nd guy, stay friends with tell him to move on and find some other girl. If he won't give up it's out of ur hands. And if u can't decide between them either help urself or both could get hurt.
2007-05-28 12:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a guy who says i love you before you even go out are bad news. If he waits till u n nick break up than thats not a good man cause he's willing to wait till you guys break up thats stupid. Stay with ur bf and if you break up for what ever reasons than if u n this new guy still like eachother than go out iwth him. Make sure u tell ur man this b4, things can work out if u tell him and u might have new feelings for ur man now.
2007-05-28 12:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love nick, or you love this new guy? you can't have both. and you can't just hope you and nick break up so that you can have the new guy. if you want this new guy, break up with nick. but my advice is, stay with nick. break it off with the new guy, stop talking to him at all. don't let him contact you, don't contact him. he will move on in time. it's not fair, it's not only unfair, it's wrong of you to do this to nick. and this new guy will wait until you break up with nick? he's so sure this wonderful relationship you have is going to end? is he doing something to end it? it actually sounds very suspicious to me. just stay with nick, who you love, and stop talking to this new guy.
2007-05-28 12:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the other guy is willing to wait then he wants you to break up with nick now...he isnt going to wait forever...hes going to pressure you to break up with nick a.s.a.p....if he sees that your happy with nick then why would he try and break that up??
2007-05-28 12:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by proviso0610 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youthful lads/ adult men considered to no longer understand what on earth they are doing. I keep in mind thinking ' in simple terms get off me' lol. And as for my present day significant different i might in no way bypass decrease back i like it :)
2016-11-05 21:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by hinch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself these questions
who can you picture yourself with like 10 or 20 years from now
who will be a better boyfriend
and who will stay with you til the end
2007-05-28 12:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by greendayfanatic911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not date them both? Get the best of both worlds. Just don't tell them. Hahahaha!
2007-05-28 12:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by happy kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go the uglier one
2007-05-28 12:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by yowazup16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to choose. you're not being fair to either one.
2007-05-28 12:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋