How do i make SEX more adventerous?

Question

I have been with this guy for only about 5 months, and i think before me he didnt have many sexual experience but he told me on a drunkin nite with his freinds that our sex wasnt adventerous and when i asked him about it he said "from the crazy stories ive told him that i have had before, he feels im different with him,which maybe is true i know im a little shy about intiating, but i duno he said its because im growing up.. I duno i was affended really!!! and i dont want him to leave if he gets tired of me. What do i do? any suggestions

Answer 1

I really think it's sad that all these young people are already dissatisfied with their sex lives.

Maybe this permissive atmosphere is not such a great thing after all?

Answer 2

Outside the bedroom sometime, maybe in the kitchen or while watching television, ask him what his fantasy might be. Then maybe you can ease your way into a deeper conversation about the topic by asking what's one thing he'd like for the two of you to do together. I think communication is key and without that open line, it'll be more difficult for both of you to be happy.

Also, you might try just being spontaneous sometimes. Answer the door naked sometime when he comes over or leave the room one night while watching tv and call his cell phone inviting him into a candle-lit bedroom. Anything that surprises him adds more adventure.

Answer 3

Sex should be spontaneous and fun, and open to initiation by either party. Try just laying on the bed together for a while, talking or not, and just touch each other and do to each other what you feel like. If you have any imagination, one of you must then that will take over.

Answer 4

Initating is always good, especially when it's not expected.

Turn off the TV when you guys are in the middle of watching something and attack him.

Go get some massage oil and give him a message.

Avoid renting porn, that rarely works out well.

Hope that helps. Good luck.

Answer 5

My cousin gave me a cosmo at my bachelorette party it had a lot of interesting sex ideas, from sleeping possitions to sex with food, and others to spice things up. Try getting a magazine like that for ideas to try together or books stores always have books about sex positions and things. Or simply do a yahoo search i'm sure there are all kinds of websites that have sex ideas.

Answer 6

5 months into the relationship and then he tells you he doesn't like the sex! Yeah right....you should leave him because it's only going to get worse. You should NEVER tell a guy about your sexual past because he will then expect you to do those freaky things with him. Even if he isn't worth it.

Answer 7

flow into the city for a evening of eating and beverages. Take the very final bus domicile. take a seat each and each of how interior the back. while the team dwindles all the way down to in basic terms some sitting in the direction of the middle and front, do it interior the back of the bus. Ya. it is warm.

Answer 8

I would try doing thoes things you did in the past , maybe even try something new . Rent some porn and get some ideas ! You might just have fun doing it!!

Answer 9

Try new things, maybe sex in public places, different positions, maybe even try anal or some other form of intimate sex.

Answer 10

wear different things, just be available allow your imagination to run wild and just follow any ideas you have. If you like he will also. Just because you cared enough to try.