Iv been rejected about 6 times within the last 5 months, now I have found out a few of those girls had a B/f, and thats fine. But Now Iv got a few girls that are trying to hint to me they are into me (more then the other girls ever did) But Im not sure if I should make a move b/c of my past rejections. Any advise on how I should think about this, how should I change my way of thinking, I know the past is gone, but the future is unknown, I have a problem putting those past rejections in the bin, and looking ahead. Any advise. Thank you.
2007-05-28 16:34:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a saying on the ski hill, 'If you aren't crashing you aren't trying hard enough'. Be proud that you have tried and been rejected, that is the only way you will ever know.
I'm 40 years old and alone and have never been rejected in my life. And I remember girls I knew in high-school, and girls I've met all my life that I will never know if any one of them could have been the one, because I never asked anyone out that I wasn't sure I would get a yes.
There are girls who are going to be flattered if you ask them out, but you don't know who they are until you ask. You have proven that you can handle a ejection. Ask out who you want to ask out and if you get rejected be proud that you have the balls to try.
A coward dies a thousand deaths, a brave man only dies once.
2007-05-29 02:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by ninebadthings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋