Why do guys like girls' butts and what about them??? I just dont get it. And when guys hug girls front ways of a side hug what are u thinking exactly ( if ur even thinking about n*e* thing)
2007-05-28 16:50:28 · 17 answers · asked by Sweet and Sassy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question. I applaud you for asking it. I wish more girls would take the time to ask and see what is on a guy's mind.
Ok, first of all, about the butt. Guys like any "private" part of a woman's body. It is an instict that we have that was given to us. Its also stems from the psycological aspect that all of our lives, us guys have noticed that women cover up thier "private parts", and take great care not to let us see what they are covering up.
The same goes for breasts, tummy's and even sometimes feet. Although I cannot tell you exactally why guys like butts, and I dont believe anyone knows the answer, I can just say that anytime a guy sees a body part that he dosent normally see, it gets him excited. Its almost like a mystery, always wondering what is underneath.
On to your 2nd question. "Hugs" are wonderful. Depending on the maturity level of the guy you are hugging, he could be thinking several things.
Try to notice where his hips are when he hugs you. Usually when a guy hugs you, and he has something other than just casual friendship on his mind, he will press his hips close to your hips. If he hugs you, and he keeps his hips away from you, this usually is a more friendly hug and chances are that he dosent have anything else on his mind other than that.
I hope this helps! and good luck!
2007-05-28 17:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What's so attractive about breasts, either? They're just big lumps of fat on your chest (lol).
Biologically speaking, scientists believe that most guys are attracted to girls' racks (in the front and in the back!) because big ones mean you'll be able to have more babies. However, in the day and age of tiny little stick models, I think it's more likely because many men are what's called "tactile learners"-- in other words, they like to touch. It's how they explore the world. So I guess the idea of squeezing said body parts, especially as a sexual act (guys also think about sex a lot, if you haven't noticed), is really fascinating to them.
As for the hugging thing... I have no idea.
2007-05-28 23:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by janeowyn180 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why exactly, but guys like big booties (that is, if they're into butts). It's sort of ridiculous though, because once the fun of knowing your girl has a big booty is over, you'd better hope there was something else to carry her through the rest of the relationship...
2007-05-28 23:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by maphiaLu™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm more of a boob man myself but i look for a girl with a firm but cushionneyyyyyy... butt if i have the choice(of course)and when we are hugging its not so much that we're thinking about your but..... well i don't (when i hug my gf I'm more just happy that I'm with her and that we're close).....my current gf does not have a big butt or **** but i love even without those
2007-05-29 00:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am man and I couldn't tell you why but all I know if I see someone that walks by that has a butt and it shakes like a bowl full of jelly it seems to do something in men. Don't know why, I guess that's our animal in us even though we not animals. Dang I would love to now that answer.
2007-05-28 23:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by godblesswithhugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its jus sumthing bout it like its part of a girls curve an dbeauty and figure and for the second part its different for guys all guys think different sumthink i hop i kud keep u as a friend or dam i wish i cud tiouch ehr butt or awww its odd and different not all guys think the same in certain situations thts all
2007-05-28 23:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by mouse30227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked this question to all my guy friends about the butt. They all said they like the curve of it and also it's just another thing to look at.
2007-05-28 23:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like girl's butts for a lot of reasons. one, we know that its a covering for the vagina. we like that. two, a nice butt feels great to the touch as long as it doesn't feel like cotton balls or hardwood. three, its visually appealing. a nice round *** makes a woman look damn good. most of us see a great butt and immediately want to have sex with its owner..
2007-05-29 00:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Sometimes I'm thinking "I wonder how I'm going to beat the next level on (X video game)" anything from that to "Mmmm its nice to be so close to her..."
And exactly why we like the T&A? who knows, we just do! haha
-Duo
2007-05-28 23:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by Duo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The but ..if shaped a certain way is very attractive. I would not have a girlfriend with a flat, or big, but. Shapely behinds blow my mind!
2007-05-28 23:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by JaguarSmyles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋