Family & Relationships - 16 May 2007

2007-05-16 05:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by Nyema 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean how hard is it 2 figure out if a girl is flirting with u it shouldnt be that hard especialy when he lives with 3 girls and they all have a boyfriend how would u handle taht 1

2007-05-16 05:56:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i NEED A BOYFRIEND ANYONE WANT TO BE MINE?

2007-05-16 05:51:48 · 8 answers · asked by bandsrule28 1 in Singles & Dating

so over the wk end i had a really bad cold.

i was in bed since saturday on Monday i woke up and for some reason an abcess bump i had on one of my glut's was swollen and big. I went to the DR when i got there my temperature was checked and i learned i had 102 in fever. i went through a draining procedure anestecia was used. I didnt have a ride home so i called my boyfriend he was at his friends i was really bad walking like a zombie with a gauze full of blood.. The Anestecia was in me all day so i get a call from my boyfriend saying how r u? i was like cool and then i was like am i gonna c u today he said tomorrow! got mad and hung up.Tues i had to go back to get my glut checked and again i called him and he was at his friends again so i had to walk home again with a wet gauze.. i dont know what to do i know NO one has to do anything for any one but jesus i was walking home from the DR isnt that comon sence. Its like if he doesnt care about me why be with me

been with him for 3yrs

2007-05-16 05:48:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 05:46:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever since me and my husband got married, he's been extremely busy with a new job (crazy hours) in addition to his own lawn service. Lately, it seems like i'm feeling really neglected like he's losing love for me, because he seems to not want to alter his personal schedule at all to spend time. To me it seems like he's enjoying being away from home. We have been arguing alot lately also because I'm suspecting him doing some cheating (maybe it just my hormone/emotions). We haven't even had the chance to go on a honeymoon. It seems like he doesn't understand that I'm missing him that's all. When I express this to him, the only thing he says, Do you want to switch roles so you can start paying the rent.. What's going on with him. I'm getting really frustrated. does he want out of the responsibility of marriage. I'm beginning to nag him alot. I don't want to start cheating on him either. How can I pull myself together with this situation? Should I leave or stay?

2007-05-16 05:46:13 · 5 answers · asked by stella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've always been fun loving, giving, forgiving,long suffering, and extremely interested in pleasing my husband in every way(I feel that it's my duty).We've been married a little less than a year and the longer we're married, the harder he is to please. I'll ask him what he wants for dinner. He says "what do you want to fix?" I say, "I don't care, what sounds good to you?" He gets mad and says, "Now that's not what I asked is it?" I'll misunderstand something he says because it' about a subject that I'm not very knowledgable in(like cars)He'll get mad and yell, "Is that what I said?" He doesn't like the way I've raised MY daughters, but his daughter has 2 illegitimate children from 2 different guys. But MY girls can't do anything right. If I don't agree with everything he says, he's mad. If I try to help him with something, he says I don't think that he can do it by himself. He very seldom let's me do anything for him(rub his back, try to give sexual pleasure, etc) but he does it for me

2007-05-16 05:45:04 · 15 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we knoe each other for a long time. and we started talking and we got interseted in each other a lot am a person that like to take things slow he whant to have sex and i don't think it the right time for this and he can't waith anymore. if he if he does like me will he not wait? pust he called me a ***** and we don't talk any me why is that?and he got me mad and now i hate him.

2007-05-16 05:43:00 · 9 answers · asked by morelusmeesuka 2 in Singles & Dating

She also wouldnt say who it was

2007-05-16 05:42:50 · 8 answers · asked by badd_eclipse 1 in Singles & Dating

I was having a conversation about this with my girl friends last night and we all agreed we'd much rather get something noncommital at the end of a date like "It was fun. See you around" than "I'll call you" or some other variation of it. I never EXPECT a guy to say he's going to call, and when he does say it I have hope he might. Something like "see ya later" would be better, I think.

Thoughts?

2007-05-16 05:41:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He owes me $2,000 and I do not want to break it off until he gives me money. Forgetting about the money is NOT an option.

http://www.ditchtheex.blogspot.com/

2007-05-16 05:40:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like him a lot , he is so handsome

2007-05-16 05:39:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 05:37:37 · 9 answers · asked by adan e 1 in Singles & Dating

my old shagging partner got in touch after a break of 2 months when we argued. I had other arrangements and couldn´t meet him, told him why i couldn´t meet him, and said that my door is always open and that i would like to see him.

What do you reckon?? will he be in touch?

2007-05-16 05:35:58 · 21 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl changed her mind about dating you and, being honest, told you it was because she has unresolved issues from a rape/childhood abuse, and doesn't think that it's a good idea?

I don't know if it sounds like I'm being honest, or TMI, or what.. I need a guys perspective on this!

FTR: He's a friend of a friend, I've been out with him once before, in November, after the mutual friend's birthday, and he's been asking me out since. And yes, what I'm saying is legit and is the reason I am freaking out over the idea of going out with him... I don't know why I agreed, I thought the panic would go away but it hasn't and I can't handle it.

And just to be clear, I'm 20, he's 22. Plus I know he's desperate to lose his virginity; and I don't trust that he wouldn't emotionally lean on me a little to get me to sleep with him. Which I do NOT want to do. And no, it's not "one date" that I have or am agreeing to.

2007-05-16 05:35:38 · 13 answers · asked by Callisto 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 05:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with my husband for 4 years before we got married only about six months ago. Well, we are having so many problems with fighting and not getting along. And with our fighting or arguing about stupid crap he is getting more and more aggitated with me and now is calling me names. I know he doesn't mean it when he says mean things and he always says sorry, but it doesn't make the pain I feel go away after he calls me names. Well, I finally told him a few weeks ago how his horrible name calling and us fighting all the time is getting to me. It makes me so upset that sometimes I just cry even when we are not fighting or nothing has happened. Well, now this week he said he has been thinking a lot over the past few weeks and he thinks it would be best if we live separately for awhile. He says he loves me with all his heart and hates to seem me hurting and he wants to take the time of living separate to work on our friendship b/c it seems that we have lost that. What do you think?

2007-05-16 05:31:50 · 40 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so i'm like almost 19 and i have been pretty much boyfriend free for like years now, i hav'nt really even liked any body......until now. Yeah its like whenever i'm not around him, it hurts. Everything he does makes me smile. And i know he doesn't feel the same way which sucks alot. But don't worry...it gets worse. He's one of my best friends. So how do i kick this feeling? In fact I dont even think i can. Anyway i know this is going to sound completley selfish and horrible but i'v been crying for about an hour now and i just need someone to tell me i'm not crazy and that life might get better without him in my life that way. He'll always be my best friend. That will never change. But as far as being in love him on my part, i don't think theres anything i can do about that. grrrrrrrr i'm such a retard.
I hate being in love. Great now i'm rambling....sryy bout that.
-tears

2007-05-16 05:31:02 · 12 answers · asked by love_da_keys 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. I've known this guy for 5 yrs. were closer then hell, recently things have gone more sexual then I was comfortable with, I told him I didnt want to go there. I value our friendship too much. But it happened anyway, and surprise surprise he won't even talk to me anymore... HELP!?!?!?

2007-05-16 05:30:49 · 20 answers · asked by Breezy 1 in Friends

Say you'r in a store at night and you see a black guy with hiphop style of clothing you two are the only one's in the store do you get scared and think he's gonna kill you or think he's a gangsta or a thug?And when you see a white person with rock clothing do you think he's all nice and preppy and dose stupid thing's and has a easy way of life.

2007-05-16 05:30:08 · 16 answers · asked by Nice but true 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 13 years old and my boyfriend is 15, he's hot . He wants to have sex with me i do tooo but does it hurt and does it feel good?

2007-05-16 05:25:50 · 18 answers · asked by ashrocksgucci 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been chatting with a sugar daddy and i told him i was interested in working for his company. (real estate). I googled him today and found his name and company really does exist and i really would love the opportunity to work for him but do you think he will want more as i met him on a sugar daddy website? He has asked me if id like to come see his real estate business. I would only be interested in real work now as im kind of seeing someone else i like (not a sugar daddy)
what do you think. This opportunity could change my life.

2007-05-16 05:25:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

killing someone i am contomplating weather or not to kill My Friend Calebs GF she made him comit suicide if so how would you go about killing them just curiouse

2007-05-16 05:24:28 · 18 answers · asked by Harley R 2 in Singles & Dating

I am just curious. I went to bed with a VERY sexy guy on the second date because I knew he wasn't relationship material and he was way too sexy not too! Plus I have needs too and no current boyfriend. Just wondering what men think and why they don't call again after they get it?? The sex was good!! Why is it acceptable for men too sleep with anyone at anytime but women get a bad reputation? I thing that is such bull crap that men can bed however many women they want as quickly as they want and it be acceptable but women have to be cautious because they will be disrespected by men.

2007-05-16 05:23:21 · 36 answers · asked by Kellie B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 05:20:19 · 29 answers · asked by rockstarhooligan 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with my girlfriend for 4 years and we just had some miscommunications, she brokeup with me and 5 months later she was married to some friend that she hadnt seen in years. The relationship was great but rocky in the sense that we always said we would get married, then i chickened out and told her to wait. So, I know the majority of this is SADLY my fault, she couldnt wait anymore through my false promises. I am too sad to describe.
She has been married now 3 months, and she has called me a few times, we have spoken on messenger (she always initiates it) and each time she ends up yelling at me, telling me I waited too long, that I SHOULD have done, all these things. Instead of saying she loves this guy, she only says that he "treats her so nice, he loves me." She even said that she was tired of waiting for me, and she wanted to be a wife, she preferred with me,but couldnt wait anymore. Is she happy? She says she is, but honestly? why is she still so angry?

2007-05-16 05:15:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when i say overloved i mean a guy that loves u soooo much and needs u in his life.....and calls u at night time just because he wants to hear ur voice

2007-05-16 05:15:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 4 months prego w/ my husband's baby...i have recently found out that he has been talkin with some internet girl, i know he never physically cheated yet, i busted him out before that could happen, but he did have plans meeting her, and they talked about sexual things back n fourth...Would you think it is worth trying to work out, or just kick him to the curb?I don't know that i can ever trust him again...if so it will be a long time from now! I do honestly love him, and I feel heart broken...I know the kids would be devistated also...he is an awsome father to them...please help

2007-05-16 05:15:11 · 33 answers · asked by crazeymazey 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I need three bridesmaids dresses for my sisters' wedding, Navy Blue, Baby Blue, or Both. Where can I find some for less than $50 a piece? One of the girls is 13, so I don't want anything too grown up, but nice enough for a married 23-yr-old mom.

2007-05-16 05:12:33 · 16 answers · asked by Deb G 2 in Weddings

Im 26, and feel like a kid...I work in the office at a small factory..About 10 guys in the shop...Theres guy thats been here a few months now, Hes the youngest guy, and closest to my age..younger than me.....Hes cute...Im shy, and he seems alittle shy...So I may not even be his type....I dont want anything serious...But alittle fun and flirting is good...

2007-05-16 05:09:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating