so over the wk end i had a really bad cold.
i was in bed since saturday on Monday i woke up and for some reason an abcess bump i had on one of my glut's was swollen and big. I went to the DR when i got there my temperature was checked and i learned i had 102 in fever. i went through a draining procedure anestecia was used. I didnt have a ride home so i called my boyfriend he was at his friends i was really bad walking like a zombie with a gauze full of blood.. The Anestecia was in me all day so i get a call from my boyfriend saying how r u? i was like cool and then i was like am i gonna c u today he said tomorrow! got mad and hung up.Tues i had to go back to get my glut checked and again i called him and he was at his friends again so i had to walk home again with a wet gauze.. i dont know what to do i know NO one has to do anything for any one but jesus i was walking home from the DR isnt that comon sence. Its like if he doesnt care about me why be with me
been with him for 3yrs
2007-05-16 05:48:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him! he is incredibly insensitive, and I don't know what girl would want to be with a jerk like that. go find a new boyfriend that will be more caring about you. >L
2007-05-16 05:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it takes a long time to realize that someone acts like that. I was with my boyfriend for 5 years and almost got married before i realized that he was not the one and i was always taking care of him and doing things for him not both ways like it should be. As hard as it might be sit down and think back on all the good times and the bad and see if in the past he has really done anything for you. Then sit back and think do you really want to be with someone who doesn't treat you right?? He should have taken you home it would have taken 15 min come on what a jerk. But i think that it is time to think and make sure this is what you want for the rest of the life or if it is time to move on and find that someone else
2007-05-16 05:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you don't feel well does not give you the right to be rude to him (hanging up the phone on him). also you told him u were cool when he asked how you were, when you should have told him the truth (that you feel like "doodoo onastick" I'm sure he would have put his video game controller down and rushed out of his friends house to come help you and get you home safely! please remember that common sense can be the most aggravating thing a man can hear a woman say because women are erratic and nothing is as plain as day when it comes to dealing with females! call him and tell him you are sorry for hanging up on him and embarrassing him in front of his friends. you can just tell him now that you wasn't feeling too dandy that day. I don't think he is what you called him in your title, I just think you damaged his ego when he was trying to be nice asking how you were and you hung up on him. P.S. I noticed how you left out the "i" in "got mad hung up"
Pretty good strategy but us men are not as slow as women would like to thin we are!
I hope you feel better!
2007-05-16 06:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? I think I need to smack him, I know that you probably love him (3 yrs) but omg!! I would never do another thing my bf ask of me EVER AGAIN after that, matter of fact I would probably never see him again, you know what I am not finished, even if you love him, he doesn't love you or even care about you, when I had a miscarrige my boy friend of one year, changed my freakin pads for me that's gross but that's LOVE!!
2007-05-16 05:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him and find someone who wants to be with you any guy in there right mind would have been right beside there gf at the doctors if he loved her. Hell my bf gets upset with me if i have to take my kids to the drs adn he cant come they arent even his kids but he cares so much about us all he is there for us even when we dont need him. Get yourself another man that is worth the effort and ditch this one. He prolly has another girl on the side and thats why he is at his friends house so much instead of by your side where he should have been.
2007-05-16 05:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by superthunda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he needs to go. If you were not intruding on his work schedule and he was just hanging and wouldn't pick you up, you should be furious. You shouldn't even have to ask the forum to help you figure this one out. Heck, if I was that sick and my fiance' did not help out that would be the end of our relationship. No ifs ands or buts about it.
2007-05-16 05:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself more than that!! Get rid of this idiot. He should have been there for you through out the whole procedure. And don't say....."but we looooooove each other" that ain't love. Besides u say "Its like if he doesnt care about me why be with me" when you should be saying "if he doesn't care about me than why am I with him"
2007-05-16 05:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by JL P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 yrs and he didnt even care enough for you to give you a ride? how rude of the dude. Get rid of the punk and find a more caring guy. thats just wrong.
2007-05-16 05:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So what is your question? (spell check is a nice feature here, do take advantage of it) You told us about your inconsiderate boyfriend but asked nothing.
Sorry he's not as thoughtful as a partner should be.
2007-05-16 05:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. Your @ss was infected so you went to the doctor and you're mad b/c your boyfriend didn't come to see you, but you didn't ask him to. Tell him what you want or don't be upset when you don't get it.
2007-05-16 05:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not your computer has spell check, darling?
You write miserable English.
Unless you develop your communicative skill, the world will misunderstand you.
You are inviting trouble for yourself.
2007-05-16 05:52:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋