Family & Relationships - 16 May 2007

He's been sending signals which strongly suggest he likes me. He's also been saying words which are leading to the conclusion that he's into me. But he wouldn't say it. We're losing time, cause I'll be leaving next week and I haven't decided yet if I'll come back. I don't want to do the first move. What should I do? Help!

2007-05-16 03:54:22 · 16 answers · asked by Nia F 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, so eryone says that guys like girls that play hard to get...but then again some people say they dont. ive also heard that they get annoyed by hard to get and that they like nice sweet girls..

WAT IS IT?!?!
i hate when ppl dnt kno wat theyre tlkn about...
pleeez answer...super duper confused

2007-05-16 03:51:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause i am about to dump him right now

2007-05-16 03:50:58 · 3 answers · asked by Tia L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 03:48:07 · 19 answers · asked by killy_jake 1 in Family

2007-05-16 03:47:15 · 7 answers · asked by nichola e 2 in Family

My wife and her mother on on the deed, I've been paying my share since 2004 My wife and i have are going through a divorce but it's to expensive. I think we're playing the waiting game. Well my wife and her brother moved out. Can they sell the house while i'm still there. i'm alittle scared. i still take care of my daughter there. my wife took the car and i have nothing but her sisters car. Things look alittle shady. Can someone give me some good advise.

2007-05-16 03:47:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I couldn't figure out how to edit my previous question. So I decided to post a follow up. Sorry.

First I want to clear things up. I have had sexual experience and I know what its all about, but she doesn't. We are both very eager to have sex and agreed to do it before marriage. We are in a long distance relationship. We have been together for 10 months, but seen each other only for 4 days. I am going to see her next month and so wanted to make our first time really special.

I have asked her how she would like to have her first time. But she doesn't know. She just said: look around on the internet, so here I am :-)

I don't need advice on the intercourse itself. I just wanted to know how to make it really special and romantic? I know that everyone does candles and rose petals, but I want to be more original than that. Any ideas?

2007-05-16 03:47:03 · 4 answers · asked by dimkadimon 2 in Singles & Dating

I received a 14 day notice to quit. Im scared and upset. I can pay what I owe by next week. I will pay as much as I can on Friday.
Its my understanding that I have to leave and if after 14 days are up, I need to go to court but that could take a few weeks.
I have nowhere to go, noone to take me and my family in.
If i get evicted, I wont be able to get another lease for years probably.
My husband was out of work and now finally has work. We have been late before.I got a raise at work, and my husband's new job has been giving him overtime when it can.
People say save for a rainy day, set aside 2 mos rent in case things go wrong.But we were living paycheck to paycheck and couldnt afford to.
We have no luxury in our lives.No vacations in 6 years, cant remember last nice dinner out.so dont say cut back there is no where to cut back.
I will talk to office today but I feel hopeless, what can i say to these ppl?

2007-05-16 03:46:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-16 03:43:24 · 24 answers · asked by stefani h 4 in Friends

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2007-05-16 03:42:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend...yet i've talked to someone online for 6yrs. is it cheating if i flirt?

2007-05-16 03:40:03 · 8 answers · asked by canadian angel 2 in Singles & Dating

They're getting snatched up so fast :(

2007-05-16 03:37:45 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica H 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is older than me, we live together and are very happy together. But lately he has been trying to dictate where my life is going and how I get there, kind of like controlling. I tell him to please stop and if I make a mistake then I have to deal with it! Let me make mistakes and be my own person!!! He thinks I am being unappreciative when I say these things, but I do appreciate everything that he does but I do not want to be controlled! Does anyone have any advice PLEASE!? I would like to be able to explain what I am feeling - without making him mad.

2007-05-16 03:34:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How faraway is your mother living from you?

2007-05-16 03:34:06 · 16 answers · asked by gabnella 6 in Family

2007-05-16 03:32:45 · 17 answers · asked by Erin A 1 in Weddings

2007-05-16 03:30:47 · 3 answers · asked by Sharon 1 in Weddings

to have sex if you're a virgin.

2007-05-16 03:27:16 · 28 answers · asked by ashlee . 2 in Singles & Dating

There's been an old tradition (at least in my country) - a husband is a 'hunter' who brings prey home (actually money), and a wife is a 'hearth keeper', she raises children and does most housework. Her job usually lets her work not as hard as men and her salary is lower. Although both a wife and a husband combine their incomes which is then spent equally.

I've heard often a husband and a wife in a Western family don't combine their incomes and spend money on their own, is this true?
How do they maintain the balance then? Do they divide housework among them evenly or the wife has to do more work anyway? Maybe the amount of housework has become lower?
Are women's salaries lower than men's ones?

I'm asking about Western countries, but you may also tell about how it's going in others. Thanks for your replies in advance.

2007-05-16 03:26:22 · 8 answers · asked by nordarr 2 in Family

I am 28, and I had my daughter when I was 18. I haven't dated since I got pregnant with her. At first it was because I was so scared I would get hurt again, like I did with her father. But once she got older I didn't want her to become attached to the one I was dating, and then it not work out between him and I. Now that she's 10 years old, do you think it's time that I put myself back out there and available?

2007-05-16 03:25:59 · 22 answers · asked by Christine 2 in Singles & Dating

so im 18 and the guy i like is 23 what is your opinion?

2007-05-16 03:22:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'v been dating this cute, rich girl for 2 years, but her attitude is not good, she brings me down. She cheated on me so things just are not going to work, and she can't seem to let me go. In between her alcoholic benges, I have reconected with an old friend and she is totally smoking! a very hot girl and really easy going too. She has told me how she feels about me, she said "one day we will be together" and she told me that she has felt attracted to me for several years, but she has a boyfriend she has been dating on and off for several years, he is a cool guy, I'v known him awhile myself. What should I say to this girl, I dont want to wait for one day to be together. What would you do in this situation? P.S. the really hot girl and I have never had sex.

2007-05-16 03:21:15 · 21 answers · asked by realestate_nate 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We live together and before this week he was perfect. Happy, funny, in love. Everything was literally heaven. We were planning on an engagement in a few months and have already kind of started planning.
Now all of a sudden, meaning starting monday, hes been mean! Monday we got in a big crying fight and it ended with us saying how much we loved each other and as far as I could tell, the fight was completely over and we were all good. So then, yesterday he comes home and is just 'grumpy'. Theres no other word for it really. He is being careless with things, throwing them down. I said "I love you more than anything" in bed and he said "yeah I can tell" or when he got back into bed from peeing in the middle of the night i went in to kiss him and he yelled "Can I at least get comfortable???" When we were watching a movie there was a spider on the wall and I was like "ew! Kill it!" and he rolled his eyes and murmered about pathetic girls who are afraid of spiders....

2007-05-16 03:20:35 · 20 answers · asked by spamber 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know, I know; we all hate it when we ask someone out, they say yes, then two days later they change their mind.

But since my mind is definitely changed, and he's a close friend of a close friend, I can't use the usual evil tactics of "I'm sorry, but no" and ignore.

So what is a polite, kind, but firm way of letting him know that I've changed my mind?

((I'm 20, he's 22, so it's not like "I'm too young to date" is going to work))

2007-05-16 03:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by Callisto 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been getting with a guy for about 2 months, were not going out, but i do really like him. Hes had a really hard time with the last girl he liked, but says hes getting over her but wants us to remain good friends until his head is totally sorted. We were doing things like foreplay for about a month, but then we ended up having sex. I found out the next day he had lost his virginity to me, he knew i had had sex once before. We were protected and everything so im not worried about that, but I want to know what you people think. Am I just getting used, or do you think he does like him. He knows i like him, but said he wants to get his A-levels out of the way, and get his head sorted properly before it goes any further.

2007-05-16 03:20:09 · 5 answers · asked by pwincess.klee 1 in Singles & Dating

some ask me something

2007-05-16 03:18:37 · 3 answers · asked by Jessy 1 in Singles & Dating

I've have been paying 4 health insurance 4 my daughter for 10 years now @ my place of work + providing monthly funds to her mother that we both agreed on ( did not have to go to court). I've found out that she has Medi Cal for my child, how is that possible? Can this hurt me in the future? Should I be worry? What is the worst that can happen?

2007-05-16 03:17:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-16 03:13:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-16 03:13:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am 21 i want to get married. Which age is right to get married?

2007-05-16 03:10:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have come across people of sorts and ladies with broken heart . even has happened to me. (single and dating).

2007-05-16 03:08:10 · 12 answers · asked by ogeh 1 in Singles & Dating