Family & Relationships - 16 May 2007

I am the maid of honor for a wedding in July. I am having trouble finding those special invitations for the bridal shower. It is Hawaiian themed, yet I can only find invitations that have beach scenes or are too simple looking. I am looking for something elegant with a lot of color on it. Any help would be appreciated.

2007-05-16 06:38:40 · 15 answers · asked by popzonie 1 in Weddings

2007-05-16 06:38:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

The father of my 8 year old daughter got remarried and his new wife takes every alone opportunity with my daughter to tell her what a b**** I am and that she should ask to move in with them. His new wife also tells my daughter things like she and my ex are going to take me to court so they can take her away from me. This is beginning to cause many problems between my child and I. My daughter is so conflicted with all this that she has developed terrible stomach aches and is now on medication for them. I don't want to restrict her from seeing her father but I don't want her alone with the new wife if she is going to fill my daughter's head with horrible things about me. What approach should I take?

2007-05-16 06:37:49 · 26 answers · asked by Beana 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my bf for the 2nd and final time. I told him he is the most unappreciative, inconsiderate, deceptive person I have ever met. I love him but know that a future isn't possible and he knows why - but has neither agreed or disagreed. He refuses to talk about anything. I've never experienced anything like this before. I know it was the best/right thing to do and I'm perplexed by the strong sense of loss I'm feeling, crying out of the blue, etc.etc.

2007-05-16 06:37:24 · 15 answers · asked by Karen 1 in Singles & Dating

Would somebody really stand there with a gun forcing someone to marry?

2007-05-16 06:35:30 · 14 answers · asked by MissLady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

alright so i cheated on my girl...i love her an i want to marry her but if i tell her she'll end it...she knows i love her...an i dont know what to do it was one nite an i was drunk at a party an my girl wasnt there...it just happened...help me please i know it like "well if u loved her u wouldn't have cheated" but I DO LOVE HER MORE THAN ANYTHING....HELP...I DONT WANNA LOSE HER...

2007-05-16 06:33:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can someone do something about it? what is thier reasons for increasing the cost of stamps?

2007-05-16 06:33:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

can someone do something about it? what is thier reasons for increasing the cost of stamps?

2007-05-16 06:33:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are having a girls night out and I want some DEEP thought questions/conversation starters. Please do not submit any ideas that have to deal with boys or relationships. That is exactly why we are having this dinner.. To get away from all the relationship drama we've gone through.

2007-05-16 06:29:17 · 45 answers · asked by jessie 1 in Friends

How can a father ( out of spite ) take the children away from their mother? Don't they have to prove that the mother is unfit? What is the definition of unfit?

2007-05-16 06:29:14 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-16 06:28:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey guys, i was wondering how do you show your girlfriend you love her without saying those words?

2007-05-16 06:28:30 · 18 answers · asked by kal_el_kitten 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy since December,after 3 weeks he went and cheated. I think I was dumb to give him a 2nd chance.
Since I have given him a 2nd chance we have split up twice - he initiated it once andme once. I swear he is an idiot,but the problem is he wants the relationship back that he had in the beginning,and he wants it now and since I cant trust him - hes always in my face and always wanting to be coddled like a 2 year old..He is going no wheres in life because he has no ambitions - me on the other hand - I have a lot of ambitions,but I feel like he is bogging me down. We cant have a normal discussion - he always repeats himself - and when he doesnt get his way - he sulks and will sulk in a corner and talk to himself. he wants to go to counceling and I refuse because my theory is if we need counceling this early in the relationship,then there are serious issues and shouldnt be a relationship.His family sees the same thing I do..I am 4 1/2 months pregnant,but not by him

2007-05-16 06:25:19 · 38 answers · asked by country_girl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I been with my baby girl's father for 8 years. And his aunt is a real B****. She so bad that to get to him she will hurt my oldest daughter feelings and she is only 9 years old, by telling me that her mother is going to pick up the girls and then will call her mother and tell her that if my oldest daughter is in her house she is going to put her out. And we don't call her or go over her house. Now she keeps sending her kids to my house and will down talk me in front of the kids before they get there, and they tell my kids what she is saying about me and my oldest daugther who now feel like it because of her that she acts the way she do.This is also hurting my relationship with my baby girls father. He act's as if he don't see what she is doing and it so bad that he even told me one time when we was fighting because of her that when i'm gone she is going to be there and that really hurt. I feel like when she come's around that he is almost somebody else.Please help!!

2007-05-16 06:22:48 · 9 answers · asked by Lovechild 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my husband are divorcing and I am from California and plan on returning there. He is from Canada and he plans on staying in Canada. How can we share our daughter (3 years old) through the year? I don't think it's possible. He said he will fight for full custody and now I am afraid of losing her. I don't think you can have a child in 2 different school systems thoughout a school year. I am afraid that it is also too hard on the child. Someone will probably have to have full custody. I want her for the school year but he won't budge. Any advice?

2007-05-16 06:19:03 · 6 answers · asked by Rose R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know this...please tell!

2007-05-16 06:18:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't get it. Guys complain that girls like a holes and not nice guys, but yet they like biotches and not nice girls...so what is the difference?

2007-05-16 06:14:17 · 1 answers · asked by willow8975 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16, and I like flirting or anything, just to have a laugh. However, as soon as they start to hint that they like me and they want to take our relationship to a higher level I just back of, run away. What the hell is wrong with me? Ok im not the most social person on earth, a perfectionist and hard working at school, but so? as soon as a guy suggests we date, i feel i don't rly know him, how him as my bf will change other aspects of my life, i ask myself whether i can trust him, and think of the endless defects i have, here goes my self esteem again. what can i do to change?

2007-05-16 06:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by alexisvisjnic 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have gone through some difficulties lately. I have been extremely busy earning a bachelor's degree, raising children and working a full time job. I have graduated and I want to say thank you to him in style. I am finacially comfortable to not rich, so suggestions should not be of Donald Trump magnitude.

2007-05-16 06:10:21 · 13 answers · asked by jaygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

the grandparents have legal custody of the child.

2007-05-16 06:09:22 · 3 answers · asked by PB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well educated woman, with a great personality, and she has a good job. She is caucasian. You discover she has one child, a 3 year old girl. If you haven't already started moving down the road, how much would it affect your decision to continue a relationship if her daughter was black? Be honest

2007-05-16 06:08:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

whats your favorite part of your body?

2007-05-16 06:06:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 06:06:12 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs. Sublett 1 in Singles & Dating

Like how much compared to your actual income?

2007-05-16 06:06:00 · 18 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Weddings

my sister inlaw has sex for hrs with her man and I am ask you guys think it is guss or good.

2007-05-16 06:03:16 · 19 answers · asked by Michelle L Law 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance wants go with me to look for my wedding dress but I've been told it's bad luck? Is that true? Or is he just not suppose to go with me? Has anyone brought there husband along with them to look for there wedding dress? What do you think I should do?

2007-05-16 06:00:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-05-16 06:00:40 · 18 answers · asked by sexyduckie93 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of fourteen whole months has revealed to me that she contracted a std from a previous relationship. Two weeks ago I just noticed those burning symptoms when I urinated. I never confronted her on the situation at hand, only cause it was a possibility I cheated on her, but the fact is I never did, I know I never cheated on her, but always suspected her of having some one on the side. To make matters worse she's pregnant, and I don't know if it's mine or not, but I believe it is mine. We haven't used a condom during sex for four months now. What can I do or say when I confront her on the serious issue at hand?

2007-05-16 05:58:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was served a paper to answer for a Notice of Appearance to her attorny then what???

2007-05-16 05:57:57 · 8 answers · asked by Bob N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there for him..he is 31 lives with momma..have commitment issues..compliments other women (but apologized)..smokes weed..have a job but no money..dont plan on living his momma house...has alot of growing up to do...
i try to talk to him to make him see that i will be by his side..should i give up on him.....

2007-05-16 05:57:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating