Family & Relationships - 16 May 2007

I'm a few year older than my ex she was 18 she said she loved me but wasn't in love with me is it just not realistic for a younger girl to fall in love ?

2007-05-16 08:14:11 · 19 answers · asked by BrandonJDB 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 08:14:00 · 6 answers · asked by t_warby 1 in Singles & Dating

Have any of you ever been so completley confused in a relationship that it drives you crazy? I dont know what the right thing to do is. All we ever do is argue over everything because if I dont like something he does and I get angry about it he completley takes it overboard and treats me like ****. I had my birthday and he didnt get me anything cause he doesnt have a job right now and when I questioned him about it he hung up on me and said "thanks for making me feel like ****". *I didnt mean to make him feel like ****, it just hurt my feelings. god wtf?

2007-05-16 08:12:16 · 6 answers · asked by whineyviney 2 in Singles & Dating

I get very uncomfortable around guys.. i always push myself away and dont allow myself to get close to anyone not just guys but my girl friends as well. i dont know how to open up.

2007-05-16 08:11:08 · 9 answers · asked by ebonydiva25 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend called and stated she had a friend that was very depressed but was retired from the army and loved to spend his money. She wants me to call him and talk to him and set up a date to go out one day. Anyone i have ever met was face to face. And i'm usually the one to start off things with a joke of how they are acting at a bar etc. I have never called someone that i know is depressed and try to lift there spirits. I told her if i call and i would rather we all went out together. But i am still left wondering what to say when i call. I know men are not very talkative. And i just happen to be sitting around the house myself feeling lonely all week, so how can i boost a retired mans spirits?

2007-05-16 08:10:48 · 22 answers · asked by Diamondbch 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 08:09:27 · 26 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 08:07:30 · 7 answers · asked by More Than Useless 3 in Singles & Dating

we're newly wed's and his attitudes/mood swings are sickening to me. He gets mad at the smallest things, blames his anger on me but rarely communicates to me about the problem..so I have no idea why he's mad, then he ignores me. He won't talk to me for days. He gets in bed at night and literally tries to make a barrier with the covers so that we can't touch. He's even wrestled me off of the bed before because I was touching him! We're always fighting over the smallest stuff that i never think is a big deal, but he'll be furious and hold a grudge for days. I'm tired of fighting for our relationship. I'm sick of ALWAYS being the bigger person. I'm sick of him NEVER being at fault..which makes me the one who's always wrong (in his eyes). I'm tired of crying ALL the time. He has serious issues but won't admit it. He just always tells me I have issues. My family notices his anger. There are times they don't want us around cus they know he'll eventually be mad at something. I wanna be happy.

2007-05-16 08:05:29 · 22 answers · asked by ~fullofluv~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think that my boyfriend is cheating on me with my mom. But we have been dating for a year and 2 months. he has only cheated on me one time, and he fingered my bestfriend. and i have never cheated on him. So please tell me what some signs are for cheating. and tell please tell me how I can prove it to myself. and please tell me what i could do if he is cheating on you .

2007-05-16 08:04:00 · 36 answers · asked by Shelly Brooke 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 08:03:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay, my step mom's a total pain in the a^#. She absolutely hates me, and I feel the exact same towards her. She always blames her and dad's fights on me, and EVERYTHING I do is wrong in her eyes. I can't do anything right. I really need some help dealing with her from an outside source, but she totally refuses to go to counseling with me and dad. She probably doesn't want to hear that she's wrong. I admit there are things I have done in the past that are out of line, but seriously, she's done more. She treats my brothers fine, and acts like they do nothing wrong and they're perfect little angels. But when it comes to me, ooooh no. I'm the devil in her eyes. And I try really hard to be nice, but not so that I'm fake. It's just so hard when she treats me like ****. On mothers day, I was nice and she was nice, but I could tell she didn't mean any of the sweetness towards me. It was only to pelase dad. Help on how to deal w/ her???

2007-05-16 08:03:21 · 15 answers · asked by kittyluve2010 1 in Family

I have been with my bf for 13 yrs and we have 3 wonderful kids together. After a "girls weekend" to Las Vegas, he started accusing me of messing around on him (which i have not done) and also being accused for over 13 yrs. Ran into old bf, spoke on the cell phone occasionally (nothing happened) and current bf found out. Now accused even more of messing around. Bf wanted to kick me out of the house,he says he is over that and now wants to get married. Should I say yes because I do love him? any suggestions

2007-05-16 08:02:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20, I've known this girl for 6 months now... We spend hours talking to each other every day since day 1.I'm head over heels in love and have done things I'd never imagined.She appreciates everything I do and tels me she'd die without me.I know I'm a very important part of her life,possibly her best friend, she trusts me with her life and knows how I feel about her.. Now here's the problem...

She won't take it a step further in the fear of losing me all together If things don't work out,as she feels she's bad at relationships,which is something she can't imagine,losing me... and I obviously think we're meant to be...and long for more

I can't get myself out of this either... I'm too involved.. I'm too deep into it...

Will I always be just the best friend ?? What must i do ?

I'd appreciate guy's and girl's perspective on this... Please Help... No jokes... touchy subject...

2007-05-16 08:02:22 · 24 answers · asked by lfc.manager 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 08:00:49 · 8 answers · asked by sunflower 1 in Singles & Dating

And the more refined they are, the more they love it!

2007-05-16 07:58:55 · 7 answers · asked by Cage 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom and I had an exceptionally close relationship. She lived next door to me the last ten years and I was her caregiver. I helped her with everything (cleaning, shopping, doctor's appointments... pretty much everything). We were always there for one another.

She went into CHF over the holidays and eventually came home with hospice. I thought she would be happy to be home. The month before she died she said some very hateful things to me - accused me of wanting her to die, pushing her to die. Told me not to cry crocodile tears for her - she'd soon be gone and I'd have everything.

These words devastated me. I can't understand why she would say those things when I have pretty much devoted myself to her care for the past ten years. The nurses said they see this a lot - dying people lashing out against those they love the most. She was on a lot of meds at the end and her electrolytes were messed up. Anyone else have a similar experience? Why would she do that to me?

2007-05-16 07:57:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is it true that if you think positive in a relationship and are always respectful and nice (even when your mad) then your more than likely to have a better relationship.

2007-05-16 07:56:05 · 31 answers · asked by whineyviney 2 in Singles & Dating

dont get me wrong I love my baby and love being able to be at home with her. But I am soo bored. I dont require much sleep and my baby sleeps for a long stretch so I am able to get all my housework done in time to have plenty of freetime during the day. Not only that but I am young and my whole life has changed. I've gone from a working woman who made good money(I was a waitress), with lots of friends to a stay at home mom with no money and no more friends since my life is soo different from theirs. Any suggestions for me? How do I keep from going crazy?! Every day is the same! Help

2007-05-16 07:54:45 · 22 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

should i do i mean me and her go out and everything on the weekends she really likes me as a friend but i don't wanna be just a friend i want to be her boyfriend

2007-05-16 07:51:47 · 19 answers · asked by superauctioninfo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 07:49:08 · 23 answers · asked by ray v 1 in Friends

He said "You need to paint yourself up, you are an embarrasment. He left and I started crying. I dont have time to fix myself up anymore. My life evolves around him and my kids. I noticed the other day that as soon as I sit down for more than 2 minutes to watch a movie at home, my kids or husband call me to do something. I sometimes dont even have time to shower. I sleep at midnight and wake up at 6:30am still exhausted. I dont know to be mad at him for hurting my feelings or should I be grateful that he can be honest with me. I dont want him to cheat on me later on. I need to breathe. I feel like disappearing sometimes. I even got cancer cells a few years ago in my cervix and doctors told me to take it easy so it wont reaccur. I dont know what to do. I need to better myself before I can better my family.

2007-05-16 07:47:09 · 28 answers · asked by cocoa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm scared of storms and hate being alone for them..... I know its lame to be scared of them but I can't help it

2007-05-16 07:47:08 · 36 answers · asked by that girl in the corner 2 in Friends

hes a good christian guy who is only interested in dating for marriage...........and we have been friends for 2-3 years now, and i want to be that one he marries.....................how can i show him that without losing him completely????/

2007-05-16 07:44:25 · 1 answers · asked by britzygail 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just served papers for Child Custody from my son's father who has not been in his life consistently since my son was born, I am going to represent myself, but i want someone to write up my response with out hiring a lawyer, who would i go to? (i.e. Attorny, Paralegal, etc.)??? please help me!! I need to know ASAP as i only have 2 weeks left to respond!!

2007-05-16 07:43:38 · 13 answers · asked by bootyliciouslatina692 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Am I suppose to file with California or Georgia.....He lives in Tennessee......

2007-05-16 07:38:16 · 16 answers · asked by quantynni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-16 07:36:56 · 35 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and and I are planning on getting married next year, after I graduate from high school. We have talked it over with his parents and they are ok with it. My parents are having a hard time accepting this though. We have been dating for 4 years now, we have been saving money (up to a few thousand now) to help us, we have started marital counceling through our church, we have gone over what we need to do financially and we both know in our hearts that we are meant for each other. His parents seem to understand this, and know I will continue my education here as planned either way. I am moving out when I am 18 anyways, so why not marry and live with the man I love? Please help me to get my parents to understand this and know that I am ready to do this. By the way don't bother saying I should wait, I know what I am getting into.

2007-05-16 07:24:29 · 29 answers · asked by cwgirlup2000 3 in Weddings

Ok, I stil haven't decided on colors yet. But when the time comes to get bridesmaids dresses, how do I go about making everyone feel comfortable in what they are wearing? Should I tell them, 'these are the colors, choose a dress' or should I give them a few different styles in the color I want or should I let them choose the dress and let them decide what color to wear.
Matching the wedding of course! Like my matron of honor wear one color and the bridesmaids alternate in color, cause I know I am going with at least 2 colors. It could go like this: light blue, lilac, light blue, lilac? One of my bridesmaid is a little on the heavy side and I don't want her to be uncomfortable in what everyone else will be wearing. Any advice is welcome! Thanks!!

2007-05-16 07:23:48 · 23 answers · asked by deeshair 5 in Weddings

we had lots of very exciting text messages for a few weeks and couldnt wait to get together.When we all met it was very exciting at first but when I saw my boyfriend actually doing it with the other woman I freaked and told everybody to leave. Am I a prude?

2007-05-16 07:21:32 · 30 answers · asked by weewa 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay- here's the run down.
My husband and I haven't been living together for over a month now. We have been married a year and a half. I moved out because I just was not happy. I was neglected and mistreated. (He never cheated though)
Now, he wants me back and is saying he will change his ways. He cries to me all the time and we have been spending time together for the past week or so. I am afraid he won't ever change... but I still feel so attatched...
However, I dont think I'm still in love with him...
What should I do?? Has anyone tried counseling? is it advisable? or should I throw in the towel and just try to move on?

2007-05-16 07:20:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce