I think that my boyfriend is cheating on me with my mom. But we have been dating for a year and 2 months. he has only cheated on me one time, and he fingered my bestfriend. and i have never cheated on him. So please tell me what some signs are for cheating. and tell please tell me how I can prove it to myself. and please tell me what i could do if he is cheating on you .
2007-05-16 08:04:00 · 36 answers · asked by Shelly Brooke 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should have been done with that when he fingered your best friend.. where is your pride?
2007-05-16 08:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by confuscious 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Get well away from this guy. He is trouble. If he took your best friend then he doesnt respect or love you. For a relationship to last you need trust and you don't trust him.
If you suspect your mom then you don't trust her and your relationship is more important than with your cheating boyfriend. Ask her outright, it may cause an argument but at least it would be in the open.
It sounds like you have need of a stable environment.
If you want proof. Dump your boyfriend and see what happens.
2007-05-16 08:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Guaranteed 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Once A Cheat Always A Cheat
2007-05-16 08:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Dr Universe 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
This is a very serious accusation if you believe your boyfriend is cheating on you with your "Mother". You have not provided any clues that make you think this is true, but you can start first by asking your boyfriend and/or your Mother. My belief is that if done once, the opportunity is available to do it again. So, you have major trust issues. If you believe that he is being unfaithful, it really does not matter who it is with - If I were you - I'd just let that relationship go just based on the fact that you cannot trust him. There are a number of signs and you already know what they are if he has cheated before. Let your Mother-wit (inner voice from God) guide you into the truth.
2007-05-16 08:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well does he act guilty? Guys that cheat act guilty.My boyfriend of 17 years always brings me flowers before or after he screws up. Some guys always take a shower before they will get close to you if they are cheating.Do some snooping of your own. In my book Once a cheater always a cheater.You can find a guy who doesn't and wont cheat.You don't need this guy. He has already done it once and he will probably do it again. I myself would dump the guy but keep my mother .
2007-05-16 08:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by teresa_lynn_36 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The # 1 sign that your boyfriend is cheating on you is, when he don't call as much as he did when you first start going out. He gets to many attitudes. Any more info from me Hit Me Up At wildenout2007@yahoo.com ( My Personal E-Mail Address).
2007-05-16 08:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
depend the kind of mom u have, have ur mom ever dated any of ur bf b4 or do u think she can do such? if yes, invite him to the house when nobody is around except ur mum feel very free with them and tell them u are 'going out get sth that will last at list 30 min pretend as if u've gone out, u stay close do this in three differ occation if nothing happened then know ur mum is inocent, if ur bf is cheating on u, he wont be keeping to time if close from work by 6, he wil be comig home by 8pm an other things like going to see freind and stay still the nxt day just know sth is wrong, all u have to do is just let him know that u love him darely, change things around u, u guys should have fun try as much as possible to make the other girl ur frd.
2007-05-16 08:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by halla 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Loss of Sex Drive
Unless there is another cause of stress (i.e., difficult assignment at work), then a sudden loss of interest in sex may indicate your loved one is getting it elsewhere.
Defensiveness
A cheating partner often feels bad deep down and this guilt can come out via defensiveness or blame placed on you. Be on the look out for signs of aggressiveness from your partner Host of Excuses
They may seem cliche, but comments about needing to work late, having to take a business trip, or needing to unexpectedly meet with a client, can all be signs of cheating.
Telephone Hang-Ups
If your partner's new liaison is bold enough to call your home number, he or she may hang up if you answer, instead of your partner.
Gifts Out of Nowhere
Besides defensiveness, your cheating partner may try to throw you off track by being extra nice. Flowers, chocolate, and other gifts, especially if they are typically uncommon, could be a sign of infidelity.
With your Mom? My ex mother in law done this to her daughter. So I know it can happen, I wish you the best of luck in this awful situation.
2007-05-16 08:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well I have had this problem I was at my friends house one night and I saw that my BF was making out wit my mom but i cried but then I let it go because he said he loved me so much that he would put me before his own family and if I was you i would break up with him if he has the nerve to cheat on you and then finger your best friend oh NO he would be out of my hands cause he would not do that to me and me still keep him cause if he cheated once he is going to cheat again!!
2007-05-16 08:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
doesn't have too much time for you
will not let you answer his phone, and when the phone rings checks call display and will not answer the phone.
dosn't make love to you as often.
I could go on..
let him go, how can you trust someone who cheated on you, as they say once a cheater always a cheater!!
I went through it twice
it seems at the time he's the only one for you but the pain will go away, and you will find that right person,
I know cause I found him...
2007-05-16 08:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
One time or not break up with him he cheated on you once he's bound to do it again! some signs are hes late or he is canceling plans without an excuse lipstick on his face underwears or bra in his car girl there are plenty of other fish in the sea THAT DONT CHEAT ON YOU!!!
2007-05-16 08:08:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋