should i do i mean me and her go out and everything on the weekends she really likes me as a friend but i don't wanna be just a friend i want to be her boyfriend
2007-05-16 07:51:47 · 19 answers · asked by superauctioninfo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said that you like her. Do you care about her? She has a boyfriend. If you care about her you won't interfere with her relationship. Be a friend. If it doesn't work out with her and the other guy, then you're free to make your move, but in the meantime, back off. Go find your own girl.
2007-05-16 07:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Phaedrus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fairly at that age, there -probably- is totally not a lot of a destiny at the same time. no longer declaring this is not any longer conceivable, although this is not likely. quite if he nevertheless messes round with somebody else. Your both youthful, i does no longer hardship about it too a lot considering the fact that rather a lot anybody variations after intense college. in the adventure that your planning on going to school and he's not any longer, or he will a diverse college, opportunities are intense you gained't see various 1 yet another anyhow and also you may meet someone in college that actual will be on your destiny and could no longer fool round with different ladies at the same time as your on a "damage". And regrettably, understanding my fellow gender, he's probably telling the different female an same difficulty he's telling you and she or he's questioning at the same time as your going to vanish from the picture. no longer to sound harsh yet it truly is life as a delicate individual. both you 2 will actual pass on as a pair or chop up up and also you'll get over it (I promise!). both way, keep in concepts this as a getting to draw close experiance for the destiny... with or with out this boy.
2016-10-18 08:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by zeckzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since she already has a boyfriend, she's really off limits, but since you're good friends and spend a lot of time with her...you can always tell her that you'd love to be more than friends. Other than that, all you can do is wait around and hope she becomes available and in the meantime just continue to enjoying spending time with her!
2007-05-16 07:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be her friend. Continue to support her. However.....if she is taken...then she is taken. It is her choice. She has to be able to see that you are a good guy...if she can not see that then...it is her problem. Do not put her in a situation where she will end up cheating and dont put yourself there either. Life is full of what comes around goes around...you dont want to be on that list for that reason. If you feel that you can not control your emotions around her....take a break and detach yourself slowly. A heart is a precious...you are putting yourself in a very vulnerable spot. Be careful....good luck.
2007-05-16 07:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by happybeans79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off and respect the relationship she has with her current boyfriend. Imagine this, put your self in her boyfriend's shoes, what if, and knowing that your girlfriend is flaming hot, and guys wants to be with her more than friends, and they try to take her away from you, would you appreciate that? ofcourse not, right?
but you know, not contradicting myself, it's actually a good concept of guys wanting your girlfriend, that just mean she is really really hot, but you have to make sure that she loves you enough for her not to leave you and be with someone else that is hotter than you.
You see, don't leave the one you love for the one you like, cause the one you like might leave you for the one they love.
2007-05-16 07:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by C A M S ™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think u should keep tryin and start actin a lil bit more like a boyfriend instead of a "best friend" if u give up she will never like u bein best friends is good but wen u go out it will feel like ur datin ur sistet be more like the hot sweet boyfriend u can be
2007-05-16 08:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by lauren m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you know about her relation to her boyfriend? If it's not serious, i think you should just tell her and see how she reacts. On the other hand if she is serious about him, it's best if you let go of it
2007-05-16 07:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by larissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lady already has a boyfriend. Be decent enough to honor that.
2007-05-16 08:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must like you back if she's going out with you on the weekends instead of her boyfriend.
2007-05-16 07:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude be a gentleman and turn the other way. If the roles were reversed you would not want another guy moving in on "your" lady would you ?
2007-05-16 07:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋