Family & Relationships - 16 May 2007

I trust him & them & they deserve this - so all is good. So good in fact that I told him the only phone call I expected was that he got there ok & when he was leaving.

I want to leave a sexy pic (not naked but ya know kind of wink wink type deal) or note in his over night bag just for fun, but my friends says that I should expect that it would get passed around the campfire. I think that my 48 yr old byf is too mature for that and that he'd just keep it to himself and have something fun to look at while he's away.

Would it be okay to do this or should I just let him go and see me when he gets back?

I am excited that he's going & just want him to have a great time. Our relationship is 7 months young but very serious and we have any extremely healthy sex life.

What do you think?

Also,

2007-05-16 07:18:14 · 16 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now and all we really have done is mess around (if you know what im sayin) he says that he's ready to go all the way with me (it would be my first time) He's coming down to my house friday and i know hes going to want to do it...and i really do think im ready but then again im sorta scared...lol any tips or pointers for the 1st time ??? *thanks*

2007-05-16 07:18:04 · 18 answers · asked by Kelsie S 1 in Singles & Dating

How many years do you have to work in order to retire?
Started working in year 2000 at age 18. I imagine I can retire in my 50's. Setting up a life plan.

2007-05-16 07:16:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You know the question i will give you a million dollars to sleep with you wife
or
A million dollars to sleep with your husband

2007-05-16 07:15:00 · 45 answers · asked by suederay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-16 07:14:55 · 4 answers · asked by sister 1 in Family

Well I was wondering if what a "normal" relationship was because I keep wondering if mine was a "normal" one. I mean is spending like every spare minute with your girl "normal"?

2007-05-16 07:12:32 · 8 answers · asked by atomicsnapper666 1 in Singles & Dating

I filed for divorce in October, and my husband will NOT sign the papers because he does not agree with the custody agreement, etc... And mainly because he doesn't want the divorce.-- I DO!!! That's why I filed!!
He is stationed overseas in the military and is protected by law that he doesn't have to do anything regarding any legal proceedings until he returns to the States.
The divorce cannot proceed unless he contacts his attorney and lets her know what he wants to do.. But he refuses to call her.
He is a push over, and I think if his attorney calls him and ASKS what he wants to do, we could actually get something accomplished..
Would it be inappropriate for me to call/email his attorney to ask her to PLEASE call him to encourage him to get this over with?

2007-05-16 07:12:16 · 24 answers · asked by IWantToKnow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married 8 years to a drug addict, we have two children. My husband has tried everything to sober up, he is a periodic user and can't yet seem to quite for good. We have separated and dated other people. No one I've dated can measure up to my husband in bed, he is great at that. Plus he is very big and I like that. SIZE does matter after you've become accustomed to it and have had it big. Its hard to have anything else. But I'm tired of his lifestyle for my kids and myself. Will I ever find another man that measures up? I know this is not a good enough reason to stay married, right?

2007-05-16 07:11:53 · 32 answers · asked by Shanny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been pregnant for 4 months now. And I still have not moved in with him. He keeps putting it off and saying he wants to but not putting forth the effort? Did he get cold feet or has he just changed his mind completely? When I ask him about it he just denies any problems? Whats up?

2007-05-16 07:10:05 · 22 answers · asked by IamwatIam 2 in Singles & Dating

The wife also said I wont tell you until you tell me what you'lldo

2007-05-16 07:09:01 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Butt, legs, eyes, breast, smile???? Confidence maybe.... What?

2007-05-16 07:08:44 · 18 answers · asked by Kellie B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 07:05:22 · 1 answers · asked by red 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-05-16 07:04:52 · 13 answers · asked by david p 2 in Singles & Dating

He has been late on payments so we keep, getting letters from the bank, I just want him out of my life. He still owes about 3,000 on the truck, is it too late to get our names taken off the truck paper work.

2007-05-16 07:01:22 · 16 answers · asked by Celi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When you date someone for the 1st time should you kiss?

2007-05-16 07:00:45 · 32 answers · asked by tsmalls5 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok let me give you a example i was dating a girl about 3 mnths ago i took her to a club and we was dancing having fun i was wining on her we was talking laughing all the things you do when you go t a club i bought her drinks i tld her i wasnt int gettin into a relationship and when she called me and crying saying she wanted me to be with her she wants me to be her husband E.T.C i told her im nt interested and she too it to anther level by telling me that she was pregnant with my child she said she lied about taking the pill so i went crazy and i told her to F off and it seemed to make her want me more even to this day shes pestering me why are girls like that please help and foor the record shes noot the oonly one thats done that t me ??????

2007-05-16 06:57:20 · 5 answers · asked by Andre Williams 1 in Singles & Dating

What i mean is, our daughter is six months old and he was only with her for two weeks of that. I dont want to get him a corny "you're the best dad ever" card, because it will only make him think of what he's missing, and he'll consider the card a lie, because how can you be the best dad if you're not near your daughter? help!

2007-05-16 06:51:16 · 26 answers · asked by Christi F 3 in Family

2007-05-16 06:49:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are boobs really important to you guys. Could you date a girl with a flat chest or small breasts without wishing they were bigger?

2007-05-16 06:49:32 · 17 answers · asked by blue_seal07 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 06:47:32 · 20 answers · asked by astrofan09 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl at chruch she call me cute lots of time and she stare at me lots of time and last week and chruch she shake everyone hands she nevers does then she copy me and befor i go home she stare at me and if i dont look she stand up and look at me?

2007-05-16 06:47:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sorta big and I can't figure out why I don't have a boy friend.

2007-05-16 06:46:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-16 06:46:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He didn't see anything wrong with being huggy/kissy, attentive to her every need, giving her money/tickets when we are both broke, in front of me!
Things were suspicious for a while-vague/ lying, prob. cheating, did hurtful things to me at the end. I broke up.

I am still attracted to him for some weird reason! I guess when he puts on that stupid charm. I've NEVER been a needy girl, very independant! But I experienced true 'passion' for the first time with him. Maybe want to use him!
I am friends with his good friend. I really don't want to see the ex, but why should I quit going to the nice weekly outdoor spring music concerts because they're there?

Today is the first time I go and his/my friend said to just sit with him and ignore them. He can't stand the girl.
How to handle it? Totally ignore them, though ex will come say Hi. Take the high road? He is NOT the jealous type at all. Flirting with ex, he prob. won't care.
Indulge and tell her off if she comes over she's nervy

2007-05-16 06:44:57 · 11 answers · asked by Marie123 3 in Marriage & Divorce

him he tends to learn about it. Anyways, today this girl he likes told me she thought he was joking when he asked her out, I told her she wasn't and she explained to me that she didn't like him. She didn't tell me not to say anything so I told him, he might as well know right? But I started to wonder whether I did the right thing or not. Wouldn't it be better for him to know so he wouldn't waste all his time on getting the girl who doesn't like him like that? Or should I just keep my mouth shut about these things? Help? [:

2007-05-16 06:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-16 06:43:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-16 06:43:22 · 24 answers · asked by darowdomo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-16 06:42:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok not ALL men but it seems like most. Alot of guys are up for it whenever. Whilst girls...(seems like a majority) want to wait until they fall in love...or they really care for someone. Alot of guys seem to be on sex from the start and want it asap. It feels as though they have done it with to many people and that is why it has lost its speciality. Because if I am dating a guy who has slept with a number of people, I wont stay with them because they done it to many times that if I give myself to them it would be less special for them. Sort of like 'yeah yeah done this before'. Its not special emotionally anymore only physicly. You point of view? *I felt like asking something lol*

2007-05-16 06:41:09 · 17 answers · asked by Rianna 2 in Singles & Dating

rough and it hurts down there, slow sex is like the worst, Im 27 and he is the first I guy I actually like having sex with all the time (i have 2, 3 year past realtionships behind me, and those guys I could have cared less havig sex with) but my new bf, I just want him all the time, he is 11 years older than me. Its driving me nuts cause I can only enjoy it when its rough, I am trying to get him on my side in that department as he said I am the only gf he has had who wanted it this much and like this...I dont know what to do!

2007-05-16 06:40:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce