him he tends to learn about it. Anyways, today this girl he likes told me she thought he was joking when he asked her out, I told her she wasn't and she explained to me that she didn't like him. She didn't tell me not to say anything so I told him, he might as well know right? But I started to wonder whether I did the right thing or not. Wouldn't it be better for him to know so he wouldn't waste all his time on getting the girl who doesn't like him like that? Or should I just keep my mouth shut about these things? Help? [:
2007-05-16 06:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So, I just asked him and he said he didn't mind because she probably wasn't gonna go out with him anyways. I hope he isn't really mad now though...
2007-05-16 06:55:19 · update #1
Best friends talk about this kind of stuff, if you are truly his best friend, you owed it to him!
2007-05-16 06:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two people spend that much time together, they're trains of thought seems to run in tandem, like twins. You have both acclimated to the other's social norms, and adopted each others differences. It's a relationship that those with social anxiety (myself included) would die to have with anyone else, as they can't even hold eye contact with their parents. You have someone on your side, and although you may not be able to reproduce with each other, that doesn't mean you have to be uncomfortable with this level of comfort and trust. Nothing is off topic because you trust each other to not spread the word. Guys joke about jerking it at every opportunity, and don't shy from gesturing it either. Conversation, or collaboration, is a path to actually getting somewhere (productivity). If I were you, I would collaborate on creating something big with this friend. She sounds like she would make for a great business partner. Consider yourself lucky.
2016-05-19 21:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by tawanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie to be honest??NO you shouldnt of said anything...this is their business and not yours..being best friends doesnt give you the authority to repeat things to him...unless..i say unless its going to be beneficial to him or if itll hurt him..like say soemone says their going to beat him up or set a trap for him etc....somethings are better left unsaid..are you sure you..yourself doesn tlike him a bit more than just a best friend??im wondering...an dalso sweetie...we get hurt in life with relationships etc..thats how we grow an learn..just like yourself....
2007-05-16 06:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by bettym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep out of stuff that's none of your business.
2007-05-16 06:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You save him some heartache! I wish more people would be like you.
2007-05-16 06:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your doing good by telling him
2007-05-16 06:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by ******** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, for your buddy's sake.
2007-05-16 06:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋