I trust him & them & they deserve this - so all is good. So good in fact that I told him the only phone call I expected was that he got there ok & when he was leaving.
I want to leave a sexy pic (not naked but ya know kind of wink wink type deal) or note in his over night bag just for fun, but my friends says that I should expect that it would get passed around the campfire. I think that my 48 yr old byf is too mature for that and that he'd just keep it to himself and have something fun to look at while he's away.
Would it be okay to do this or should I just let him go and see me when he gets back?
I am excited that he's going & just want him to have a great time. Our relationship is 7 months young but very serious and we have any extremely healthy sex life.
What do you think?
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2007-05-16 07:18:14 · 16 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I disagree with the people who say it doesn't matter how old he is. Maybe they're all young and don't know any better. I am a 44 year old man, and I would not pass around a sexy pic of my wife, but when I was 24, I probably would have. I say go for it -- you sound very thoughtful and I'm sure he appreciates that about you. Besides, if you keep it PG-13 rather than R-rated, it doesn't really matter if it gets passed around or not, right?
2007-05-16 07:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think leaving him a note would be a wonderful idea. Those types of gestures are what keeps a relationship strong. You are going out of your way to let him know that even though you are not with him, you are still thinking of him. If the note (or picture) gets passed around a camp fire then maybe you need to rethink your opinion of your boyfriend. I have been married to my high school sweetheart for 9 years and he would never tell or share anything personal between us with anyone, nor should your boyfriend. Maybe this would be a good chance to see how he will react. More than likely he will have a smile from ear to ear, wish he was home with you and call you to let you know he appreciates your thoughtfulness. Go for it!
2007-05-16 07:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send the sexy picture with the wink, I think it is a cute idea. And from what you say about him, I doubt he would want to pass it around and show it to the other guys. That would be acting like high school boys. Wish him a good time and get ready for that welcome home private party you two will be having. Absence makes the heart grow fonder!
2007-05-16 07:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bad idea and the reason why for example.. I play golf 5 to 6 days a week and the guys i play with are in their early twenties to 60 years old and everyone of them that has a girlfriend/mistress have to show the rest of us the new photo's they have taken with their cell-phones and I mean very explicit photo's. Them being out camping with out females I'm sure the photo will get passed around like you are nothing more than a piece of meat.. my advice too all you young single women is never let your boyfriends photograph you naked with their cell-phones unless you want the rest of us too see you in sexual positions.
2007-05-16 07:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think a sexy pic would be appropriate becuz even if he didn't "pass it around," it's possible it might be seen by others and that could cause embarrassment to him or unnecessary and unwanted razzing by the guys.
A sweet and provocative note with promises of things to happen when he gets home would be really all he needs.
2007-05-16 07:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by trinitygamble69 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you trust him to be mature and to not as your friends says: pass it around the campfire, then I say why not? It would be something nice to him to remember you while he's gone and a nice reminder of what is waiting for him when he gets home.
2007-05-16 07:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by M Elizabeth M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it. Your both adults. If he passed your picture around, I'm sure it would be he's proud of what he's got.
If your scared, then write him a note, or tell him to call you if he lonely late at night.
2007-05-16 07:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by walker9842 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your fellow campers ought to delight on your hiring a babysitter besides! i think of the worry would outweigh the relaxing in this occasion and that i does not even choose to pass if i could not get a sitter.
2016-11-04 03:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do the sexy letter before the picture. Even if he is to mature to pass the picture around, it doesn't not guarantee that someone will not come across it and then them pass it around.
2007-05-16 07:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by sdarp1322 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He just maybe be proud to show it around the campfire, It shows that you are thinking of him. My girlfriend does it to me when I leave to go on a hunting trip & I love her for it!!!
2007-05-16 07:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by Paul M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋