Ok not ALL men but it seems like most. Alot of guys are up for it whenever. Whilst girls...(seems like a majority) want to wait until they fall in love...or they really care for someone. Alot of guys seem to be on sex from the start and want it asap. It feels as though they have done it with to many people and that is why it has lost its speciality. Because if I am dating a guy who has slept with a number of people, I wont stay with them because they done it to many times that if I give myself to them it would be less special for them. Sort of like 'yeah yeah done this before'. Its not special emotionally anymore only physicly. You point of view? *I felt like asking something lol*
2007-05-16 06:41:09 · 17 answers · asked by Rianna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its quite simple sex isnt valued as something sacrred and special that should only be between married couples. Sex is a strong/speical bond and these days in society its all about sex. Its in magazines, ads, commercials, tv, movies, its everywhere. Sex is taken so lightly these days.
2007-05-16 06:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether it is special or not depends on the relationship between the two involved. It isn't special if I'm hooking up with a FWB. If I'm dating the girl then yeah it holds something more than a wham bam. Don't invest so much emotion into the act. When you are married there are many times you have sex just for the physical satisfaction and there is little to no emotion involved.
2007-05-16 06:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex although a physical act really could not occur unless the proper activities occurred in the brain. So when I guy loves you it does not matter how many other women he has been with you will be the one that is special and all the others will become meaningless. The key is he has got to really love you in order for this to happen.
2007-05-16 06:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by soulsearcherofthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's b/c they've been hurt (both men & women) too many times & some get jaded. I'm guilty of that myself but I still believe true love is out there but it might be easier to pan for gold. Not ALL but most guys are "Sex sex sex" TG my bf isn't like that. It's more about making love. Which I prefer. Call me a prude I DON'T care!
2007-05-16 06:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that has to be the worst reason to dump someone i have heard --- sex is ALWAYS special always exciting no matter how many times you have done it or with how many partners --- its part of how you feel for someone its getting closer to them its having their trust in you ---- i dont believe sex is devalued because more people experience it --- its a wonderful act between two people that care for each other ---- what do i know??? im 54 married for 30 years now dating again (divorced) and love sex its fun and does not hurt either party --- best wishes
2007-05-16 06:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It varies. Sex is fun for a reason. The number of partners one has had isn't really a good indication of how much sex they've had. If you do it 1 time with 100 people, or 100 times with 1 person, you've still had sex 100 times...right?
Your post indicates a person should not have sex frequently, so sex itself is special...it has nothing to do with how many partners...a person who has had sex 200 times with one partner (by your logic) is more likely to feel sex is less special than someone who has has it 1 time with 75 partners...because the multiple partner person has had fewer sexual experiences, thus should appreciate the act more than someone who has had more than twice as many.
I don't care who or how many, as long as they used protection and are disease free. ☺
2007-05-16 06:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOVE is special...what people are doing nowadays is crazy...a girl and a boy have to wait to do it when it has to...after marriage. This way the marriage will last and ill be filled with LOVE!
Take good care!
2007-05-16 07:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
historical relatives values. females have been oftentimes in charge of the spouse and young toddlers and elevating the toddlers. they are against gay couples via fact a relatives is "meant" to be a father, mom, and young toddlers. no longer 2 fathers or 2 mothers. i could wager that all of it started in early biblical cases, whilst they first got here up with the anti homosexuality factor. however the girls elevating the toddlers and stuff advance into probably via fact waaaaaaay returned in history.
2016-10-05 04:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decrease in family values and respect for relationships (consider the decrease in religion and increase in divorces) and an ability to get away with it most of the time.
2007-05-16 06:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by TCSO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Times are changing and not for the better, too much respect, trust, honor, loyality, even love has been watered down in the past 10-15 years and its getting worst,,,,,,,
2007-05-16 06:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋