ANYONE OUT THERE LIKE ME? I can only seem to get off during sex with my gorgeous bf when its totally?

Question

rough and it hurts down there, slow sex is like the worst, Im 27 and he is the first I guy I actually like having sex with all the time (i have 2, 3 year past realtionships behind me, and those guys I could have cared less havig sex with) but my new bf, I just want him all the time, he is 11 years older than me. Its driving me nuts cause I can only enjoy it when its rough, I am trying to get him on my side in that department as he said I am the only gf he has had who wanted it this much and like this...I dont know what to do!

Answer 1

Enjoy yourself. I like it a little rough myself... I think it's the thrill of the matter, instead of the same ole' hum drum way of getting laid. But be warned... to much of a good thing is never a good thing. What I'm saying is if you like it rough, and ask for it rough EVERY TIME, it too will get old,a nd stop being so exciting.

Answer 2

Some people will try to say that you must have been raped or sexually molested when you were little. I like it rough too and I grew up in a very decent home...Yes, you can like it rough. It's kind of like a massage. If you like a hard massage with back chops and such, that wouldn't mean that you were neccessarily beaten as a child or something...

Now that that statement is out of the way, you need to make sure you are compromising with your BF. Be considerate of how he enjoys sex too. If he doesn't like it rough but doesn't mind doing it you should make sure that you guys switch it up from time to time to be certain both of you are satisfied.

Answer 3

if he is curcumcised that could be the problem. many men who are circumcised as a baby have very tight skin on their penis when it gets errect and this can make errections uncomfortable. also the penis becomes less sensitive because of the nerves that have been removed when the foreskin is chopped off plus the constant rubbing of the glans on the underwear. the only way he can get something to feel on his penis is his hand which is tighter. I have had it both ways and after years of telling myself that cut was better, I now realise that it was so much better with a foreskin the way natural intended it. I never got picked on at school when I was uncircumcised but some of the guys who were did ask me about it. I just told them that I was natural. I even had some in high school who said they were sorry that they had been circumcised as a baby when they had no say in the matter. I was talked into being circumcised by my girlfriend when I was 18 because she had never seen a uncircumcised penis. I now regret that I had it done. For years I convinced myself that it was better to be cut instead of having a foreskin. I now reaslise the truth. I still enjoy sex but I dont have that nice natural feeling and the shaft skin it really tight, Some girls have said they prefer me being cut but I have heard there are plenty of girls who love the feel of a penis with a foreskin. some say a cincumcised penis looks better? but what can be pretty about a huge scar line? if i put a big scar on my face doest it make it pretty? plus some say uncut guys smell. mine has the same smell now as before i got circumcised I also miss the way that I didnt need lube when I masturbated but now i do. I now feel guilty because I had my 3 boys circumcised when they didnt need to be and now they will grow up without the choice of having a foreskin ro not because I took that away from them.

Answer 4

Some people like rough sex. That’s just how they are. Nothing ‘wrong’ with it (well, in moderation…you don’t want any real, permanent injuries from it). But if Boyfriend doesn’t like it that way ALL the time, then you need to respect that and compromise a little. Imagine if the situation were reversed. Let’s say he only wanted sex when it included and he didn’t ever want to do . Sometimes sex is not all about what *you* (and only you) want.

Answer 5

Older men are the BEST. I don't care how cocky a young man behaves or how much he brags about himself, older men always do it better!

As far as the rough stuff goes, yes a lot of women are like that. I like being spanked and having my hair pulled and basically having the living daylights screwed out of me, so it's normal, or at least not ABNORMAL.

Just explain that you just like it rough and he needs to understand that. But you're also going to have to make a compromise with him if he likes it better gentle, that way you're both fufilled.

Answer 6

Keep it up if you like it rough. Remember, peak sex drive for a woman comes in her thirties so you may be getting close. It also helps that you really care about this guy.

Answer 7

There is nothing wrong with like it rough. It is exciting and fun. Just make sure that if he wants it slow sometimes to do that to. It has to be a 50/50 partnership. You do for him and he does for you. That will keep the relationship good and exciting, you will both be getting what you want. I like it rough myself to sometimes and sometimes slow. I just suggest not to push your man to your side. Just do for him what he likes and he will do for you. Take turns. Don't be selffish okay just be slow for him to. Most older guys are more into pleasing the girl then themselves so that is good. He will want to please you also. Again just take turns rough one night, slow the next. Good luck. What you like is perfectly normal.

Answer 8

You will patiently have to explain to your bf that woman have needs and desires that are different. If he really wants to please you, tell him or show him what it is that you really want done to you and why it pleases you to the point of orgasm. He may not be aware of your particular needs. There is nothing wrong with you. Many women enjoy rough sex.

Answer 9

Tell him how you like it and be honest. If he likes it slow, you got to be willing to do it slow for him sometimes too. It takes a lot of energy out of us to do it hard and rough.

Answer 10

im a guy,, hes not a mind reader im sure if you tell him you like it rough he will like that alot of guys want to dofreeky things but dont know if the girl will want that just tell him give it to you rough he will trust me........