I'm sorta big and I can't figure out why I don't have a boy friend.
2007-05-16 06:46:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Big does bother some men, in a society where skinny and thin is pushed upon us, men come to expect too much from women sometimes. But take heart, there are men out there who don't care what is on the outside. If you have a good personality, let it shine through. Men will see it, be funny, easy going, hard to shake(don't be a drama queen)...
Big doesn't mean you can't be attractive, take some care with your appearance, dress decent, be polite, cussing like a sailor doesn't help you much here. Sadly, us big girls need to show our insides off first...
Smile alot, no matter what...And be confident in who you are, it's not only skinny girls that have good personality's, so show yours off...
And give it time, the right guy for you will come along, eventually, don't rush it..
For now, look around and be grateful for what you have in your life, enjoy that and let fate take care of the rest...
2007-05-16 06:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Innisfil g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how big. A bit chunky, thick, chubby is fine. However, there is a point where it's not attractive anymore. I'd rather have someone a little bit bigger than too skinny. However, too big, and it goes limp.
2007-05-16 13:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by brandonb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every one worries about how they look but to find a decent guy think about what your looking for and who you are inside. there are plenty of men out there who enjoy being with bigger women. just don't settle. think about your self esteem, work on you
2007-05-16 13:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by anna34511 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a little weight on my women. I've dated women who's belly sticks out, with thick thighs and thick arms. But they all asked me out. :(
2007-05-16 13:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Joey T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister is married has a son and is over 150lbs over weight
weight should hold you back
you need confidence in yourself and know waht you want
tons of men love women who are bigger
2007-05-16 13:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like women who smile, make me laugh, and find me funny.. Size doesn't come into it unless she can't actually fit through the door.
-HtJ
2007-05-16 13:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by hesterthehester 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dig tiny women, however, women of all sizes and shapes turn me on. Are you ugly?
2007-05-16 13:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet that you are the type that approach men.?. If so get out of that habit
2007-05-16 13:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by cool v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if your happy with yourself that will show and people will change the way they act around you.if you look there are enough people out there that will love you for you.
2007-05-16 13:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by thumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh thats not b/c of that you need to be positive that will attract men.lol
2007-05-16 13:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋