2007-05-16 08:09:27 · 26 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because its harder for men to commit while women have these natural maternal instinct to mate and have kids
2007-05-16 09:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by bust15nutz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, what a question. This is the way I see it. In society, the traditional format for sex is ultimately the female "letting" the male have sex with her. This is because guys view sex as a goal, something to brag to our friends about and if a woman "lets" us have sex with her, it makes us feel validated. It is an accomplishment to us because the female is the one doing the screening and ultimately deciding on having sex. Most girls need to have feelings build up before she makes this decision and those feelings must be hard to turn off after the sex. In fact, they are probably amplified. It is also man's natural instinct to have sex with as many women as possible to improve chances of procreation. So, we usually like to get the hell out of there when the deed is done.
2007-05-16 08:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by The doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't this an obvious answer?
Guys want to get laid
They will appear that they want to be attached.
After they get what they wanted.... the evaluation is different.
They can now ask themselves, truthfully, if they want to be attached. And well... in this case... the female(s) in question are getting attached and the males are not interested.
Perhaps they are after someone with different qualities?
Sex was too easy? Sex wasn't good? Who knows?
good luck.
2007-05-16 08:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by movngfwd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awesome question....I want to believe that women can be a little more sensitive to having sex, because women like to feel secure and wanted by there man. Some men don't have that type of emotional feelings when it comes to sex like women do.
2007-05-16 08:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most women look forward to having that special moment and once it happens you just get alittle attached. thats not always true though because women in some ways think like a men because when you out and see somebody that you think is very cute the first thing that comes to your head is there head. you get my point so its just not us. they do to when the call you afterwards, and when they always want you to come over, and dont want you talking to nobody there attached just like us.
2007-05-16 08:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Amiah is finally here!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, women look at sex as an expression of love or devotion. Men look as sex as a way to have fun.
2007-05-16 08:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by Matt - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get attached after having sex sometimes... depends on if there was a connection before/during the sex though.
The sex itself doesn't forge a connection nearly as much as the conversations and actions leading up to it.
2007-05-16 08:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't generalize to say that ALL men don't get attached. Many guys feel very strongly that sexual contact and intimacy is very special.
2007-05-16 08:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lots of reasons, mainly the female response is more emotional and the male response is more physical. Evolution made us this way. Women are designed that way by nature, but the male is designed to provide the seed, and then move on, to spread more seed. Sorry, that's just nature.
2007-05-16 08:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
because sex is something intimate n personal...men dont understand dat. dey just think is sex n just sex nottin else involed, n no strings attached. so dat is y i dont recomend "friends wit benifits" feelings get involved n emotions get mixed.
2007-05-16 08:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by hello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋