Family & Relationships - 16 May 2007

I love MY husband BUT everytime we argue... I think of all hes done to me even BEFORE we were married. And that builds sooooo much anger and hostility, so much that I cannot even look at him. I dont know if this is normal to have that and worse sometimes I throw it back in his face..all that he's done to hurt me. I sometimes ponder and think and get mad all over again..I love him BUT i hate feeling anger and hatred towards him. I get up, go to work, think of whatever and get distant w/him. When we argue we both say things we dont mean but I ponder on EVERYTHING HE SD!! Any suggestions?

2007-05-16 10:22:10 · 12 answers · asked by heART happY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My exboyfriend and I dated for a year and half. We were going to get married. We had a house that had everything we needed in it. Then we started argueing over something stupid and we broke up. Now he wants me to wait for him. He asked me to come to the talent show that he was in. He also asked me to pick something out for his mom for mothers day. He calls me sometimes. What does all this mean? Does he want to be with me or just be a friend? Should I wait on him or just give up on him? we have been broken up for 3 weeks now.

2007-05-16 10:19:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am sorry that i am bothering you people but my g/f found out that she has leukemia. She is home now but she has a home nurse. I am only on here to get advice on what to do because i can't think straight. I have not gone to school because my g/f is more important then any education. We are only in high school, we are juniors, i am mad at god for what he is doing to her. I am mad at god because what he is doing to her. My hospital has a chapel and when i found out that she has cancer, i ran out and i had to be alone. I ran to the chapel and started yelling to god for what he is doing. I did not mean it but i dont want to lose my baby, she means everything to me. I been with her for 4 years since 8th grade now in 11th. I will stick by her and i will not leave her. If anything happens to her then my life is over, she is the only girl for me and is she does not beat this cancer, then my life is over, I WILL KILL MYSELF. But she is not going to lose to cancer. she is hot, i love her alot.

2007-05-16 10:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-16 10:17:32 · 18 answers · asked by crystal n 1 in Singles & Dating

"I cant cut the grass, because I have allergies."
well I said "take some medication and wear a mask, I work too and I do all the house chores" which my husband says he doesnt know how to do - except he will put dishes in the dishwasher sometimes if I ask, and he has done the laundry a few times when i asked otherwise.......
But I am thinking about just hiring someone to do our lawn, we have only been here a few months and our grass has started to grow in and its starting to look terrible, what do you guys think?

2007-05-16 10:17:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-16 10:16:21 · 5 answers · asked by womanlover 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was a child homosexuality was looked at as evil, now young people are opening up to it more and more ..Why? I understand if someone geniunly feel that life style is truly made for them, but what about the trisexual those who will try anything once. I think the homosexual community should be mad as hell for people making a mockery out of their life style. I just don't want my children to fall into confusing trap.

2007-05-16 10:15:37 · 29 answers · asked by Dutchess 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A lot of them come on yahoo answers and ask questions about why the guys are not calling them after a week. Why don't girls take some initiatives sometimes?

2007-05-16 10:14:22 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend a bit over a year, he is 30 years old and I am 32. We really love each other and I thought of him as my soul mate and the one I'll marry We are so alike romanitic and very passionate. But last 5 months we have been getting into these enourmous fights. I want to live together he does not right now. I want him to stop seeing this one manipulative friend of his he does not. We are both a bit controlling. So we get into huge fight were I provocate and then cry and he gets really mad. Last time he said he hates me. But it more like "shut up" "I'm done" "it's over". He punches his wrist into the couch and shushes me. It has happened that grabs my wrists and threatens to break the juice bottle I am holding. It does not seem like he would hit and I don't want to leave him. Need your thoughts. Is this normal? This weekend he decided we are going to try again and be nice to each other. He displayed new great behaviour during a fight. I'm still worried, what to do?

2007-05-16 10:12:56 · 19 answers · asked by losing my mind 2 in Singles & Dating

I just dont get one thing

how come asian girls go out with white boys. Asian boys go out with asian girls. But asian boys dont go out with white girls???

2007-05-16 10:10:07 · 35 answers · asked by Brynn 3 in Singles & Dating

I get really frustrated with my bf when we're on a date, he's constantly texting people-i don't bother to ask who because I don't want to be nosey. When he comes over to my house all he does is play video games and completly ignores me...what should I do?

2007-05-16 10:05:39 · 3 answers · asked by jessica27511 1 in Singles & Dating

He is really mad at me, and he didn't show it until a couple of days later. He forgave me right away and hugged me and still was affectionate, but then a few days later he started distancing himself, and I couldn't sleep last night cause I kept thinking about something he said, and I figured out today that he's punishing me for MY bad behaviour. He always forgives me, but I want to know how can I get him back without having to go thru this. I want to shorten the time it takes for him to fully forgive me. I'm going to see him tonite for a short visit, and surprise him. And I think I'll do something for him this weekend, but what?

2007-05-16 10:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by theskyisthelimit02 3 in Singles & Dating

do guys like althetic girls?

2007-05-16 10:03:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i got 30 dollars over on texting on my fone and my parents don't know yet, when they do find out how should i approach them about it, i have done this before and they got really mad. i don't kno how to take it.
and it does not work to sya 'iam a kid,this is what i do'

ps~ i am 13

2007-05-16 10:02:59 · 15 answers · asked by ~*hollister*~ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just recently got out of a divorce, and one of my husband's complaints was that I am not attractive anymore. Now that I'm back on the market how can I make myself more attractive?

2007-05-16 10:01:33 · 19 answers · asked by Natasha 1 in Singles & Dating

This Guy i have been talking to for about 1month now. Sweet guy,He happens to be 2yrs younger then me. He took me to his house,introduced me to his mom,then his mom invited me over the other night for dinner,me and her made dinner together.He kept talking about marriage and i kept saying i am not getting married to anyone. Then he start asking me why?..it was but strange,I dont want him to get to serious about me since i will be moving away.What you think is going on in his mind?

2007-05-16 10:00:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My stepson is 20 years old and still lives with us. With 16, he dropped out of school and promised to get a job instead. So far, nothing like this happened in 4 years and has still not looked for work until recently. We provided him with food and housing all those years. He's lazy and does hardly contribute anything in the household, like cleaning etc. He just hangs out at home and does nothing. And if we criticize him for it, he flips out. Any argument with him turns into a storm of the nastiest, most violent cursing one can ever imagine. Even up to the point where he threatens the person with ultimate violence; walks up into the face, challenging an open fight.
This happened a couple days ago to me and I am his step dad for half his life, provided him with everything he needed. He threatened me to "f*** me up real bad" and I was challenged to the fight. I turned around, because I did not want to hurt him, for the sake of himself and my wife. What in the world can I do?

2007-05-16 10:00:39 · 37 answers · asked by McMurdo 3 in Family

What should i do?

I know this is a really long description but please I need help with this situation!!! I like this girl and she knows I like her because I asked her to the dance in the beginning of the year but she said she had to go to her grandparents 50th anniversary and i know she was not lying because she was not at the dance. Now its towards the end of the year and I am still a little intimidated by her. I'm really good friends with her best friend if that helps. What should I do and how should I act around her. We are 13 years old and in 7th grade. P.S i talk to her every once in a while. Please help!!!

2007-05-16 09:54:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-16 09:53:09 · 8 answers · asked by mouse 2 in Singles & Dating

How come i get mixed up with him just liking me as a friend or as more than a friend?

2007-05-16 09:49:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a girl who lives 2 houses down who is drop dead gorgeous. The other night we hung out and partied and fooled around a bit. After that I didn't see her for a while and if I did, she would be with her friends or some other guys. I absolutely cannot stop replaying everything in my mind and critiquing it and determining what I should have said and shouldn't have. Should I just go over to her house and talk to her? How do I get her attention again without sounding desperate and what do I say? I am a college guy who doesn't do that great at partying, I can't dance, and I don't have a ton of friends b/c they are all out of state, she on the other hand is a great partyier who knows what shes doing and seems to have many friends. This makes me nervous that I will seem like a "loser" to her. Advice?

2007-05-16 09:46:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know definetely this woman is his friend because she is almost 20 years older than your husband . The thing is, of course I don't mind if she call my husband but once this lady calling, she will talk between 1-2 hours. She is a single parent so I know maybe she needs somebody to talk to. My husband is a very good listener, so that's why. She doesn't really call that much, like once in a month. but still, I'm not really happy when she call my husband. Could I tell her not to talk to my husband on the phone for a long time? Because my husband also has things to do not only to listen to her complaints/story.

2007-05-16 09:46:10 · 25 answers · asked by Tesco 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I need help please with gift ideas for my wife's birthday.

She will be mid thirties and is pregnant so any pregnancy related gift ideas that will make it easier greatly appreciated...

She is not a girly girl and does not like make up cosmetics etc...

Previous successes include a necklace photoholder thingy with the kids photos in it.

She has no real hobbies as such...

We are taking limo to dinner etc but am really looking for something special.

2007-05-16 09:45:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i just need to know what u see

2007-05-16 09:44:38 · 4 answers · asked by ELIZABETH A 2 in Family

My husband told me about 6 months ago that when we first started dating, but after he told me he loved me, that he almost cheated on me. He was there with the girl, both naked, but for whatever reason he couldn't go through with the act. I am releaved that he didn't go through it but it makes me think differently about everthing the has happened with us. We have 4 beautiful children and other than this the best marriage. I think if we were just dating and he hadn't told me he loved me at the time then I could better get over it but it's not the case. I just wish he wouldn't have told me at all so my memories could be happy one's.

2007-05-16 09:41:07 · 26 answers · asked by milla212004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I talk to my son about birth control. My son and his g/f been having sex and she is now pregnant. they both are in high school, they both are 17 years old. I did find a box of condoms in my son's room. I need some help because i don't know what to do. My son is sexually active and he is 17 years old and is still in high school. He been with his girlfriend for idk, 3 years since the start of their high school career.

Everytime i turn around or pick in my son's room, they are always making out, one day i caught his g/f on top of him. They were just making out but still.

I did walk in the living room one day and they were having sex on the couch, my son told me he had sex like 3 times with his girfriend and she is now pregnant. He does have a job and so does his g/f. I don't know what to do, please help. His g/f is now staying with us because her parents threw her out because she couldn't wait to have sex until marrage and be more responsible.

2007-05-16 09:40:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

1. What do guys think when they see a girl of normal weight eating a lot.... do they think, gross, that girl is going to get fat.

2. When you take a girl out to eat, should a girl eat like a bird so her date doesn't think she's a pig..... or do guys care how much she eats.....

This is really a big thing with a lot of girls. We just don't know how guys feel about it. Thanks for your help!

2007-05-16 09:39:51 · 8 answers · asked by Hope 3 in Singles & Dating

GEESH! my youngest step son just found out his girlfriend is pregnant.. AGAIN. She has 2 kids with another man, they are ages 1 and 2, now she is pregnant again. They had a pregnancy scare earlier this year. She FREAKED out then, so WHY dont these people use BC?

My youngest step son couldnt hold onto a job if it came with handles, and is currently unemployed again. They have no furniture and cant even afford to get his car fixed so its parked. How the heck are they going to afford a baby? He lives in another state (thank god) so we cant really assist expect to send money.. and trust me we have sent enough already for other things.

My oldest step son had 3 kids in 3 years too!

I heard a comedian say once that the only thing poor people could afford was kids!

I am all for people having a family and stuff, but when you cant afford to support yourself.. why would you risk having a baby! I guess this will be one more welfare family. good thing I pay my taxes

2007-05-16 09:38:11 · 7 answers · asked by grapelady911 5 in Family

I'm getting married on the beach at sunset and i dont know what colors my flowers should be, or what colors my bridesmaids should wear?

2007-05-16 09:38:05 · 13 answers · asked by imlovinit21 2 in Weddings

I might try it, what do you think?

2007-05-16 09:36:36 · 36 answers · asked by David 3 in Singles & Dating