He is really mad at me, and he didn't show it until a couple of days later. He forgave me right away and hugged me and still was affectionate, but then a few days later he started distancing himself, and I couldn't sleep last night cause I kept thinking about something he said, and I figured out today that he's punishing me for MY bad behaviour. He always forgives me, but I want to know how can I get him back without having to go thru this. I want to shorten the time it takes for him to fully forgive me. I'm going to see him tonite for a short visit, and surprise him. And I think I'll do something for him this weekend, but what?
2007-05-16 10:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by theskyisthelimit02 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Blow jobs. Lots of them.
2007-05-16 10:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by Steven D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well first of all I'd have to know what the heck you did to him. Maybe his anger at you is justified, maybe it isn't. It sounds like you just need to give him some time. I don't think I'd spring a surprise visit on him. Guys get mad but they get over it. True love conquers all and if it's love, you'll survive this obstacle. If he seems to get mad at you a lot or "punish" you excessively though, that's a problem. That could be qualified as mental abuse so I'd run fast.
2007-05-16 17:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not enough info here. What was the bad behavior?
Going out with another guy? Not telling him your mother called?
Depending on that, then the advice would be different.
2007-05-16 17:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, Hi, Reality here. Just letting you know that guys aren't pets. Its not like a dog where you give them a side of beef and they love you again. Guys are people and people need time to work through their thoughts and feelings.
If you're not willing to give him the time he needs, you don't really care for him as much as you claim.
2007-05-16 17:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop expecting him to forgive you. This can be accomplished by stopping whatever you're doing that makes him mad. Maybe it's your fault? Or does he have a short fuse? If so, dump him.
2007-05-16 17:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...to be honest were both in a same situation...lol
well anyways my suggestion is to give him sometime...some space....so to you too....cuz even we bring up the problem and they deny that their actually doing it....it wont do any different it might just ruin the relationship....also i'm pretty sure they know what their doing but they dont want us to know that they are actually doing it on purpose right??
like i mention i was in a same situation that my bf acting weird...he didn't call or text me yesterday...this morning he send me a sorry message but no explanation....but i never reply...cuz i dont know what to say...i might say something that i might regret later....so my plan now is to think deeply....and think what should i do about it....cuz i was thinking he might get used to this and that will hurt me later unless he learn his lesson and really mean his sorry right??
anyways this is all up to you dear....whatever makes you happy go for it...good luck
2007-05-16 17:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he punishing you?? what did you do thats so bad? i don't think any one should be "punished" if he loves you then he would forgive you anyway, try saying sorry but i wouldn't beg for forgivness!!
2007-05-16 17:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by CAROLINE J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take hem out for a nice i mean nice dinner i hope that helps or u can just dump hem but of course i don't know hem so i don't know what he has don or what u did to get hem to be like that bu if i where you i wood dumb hem and know unless hese just gitting back at you
2007-05-16 17:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by daddy's peanut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't tell you unless we know what kind of bad behavior it is.
Without that info, I can only imagine that he feels betrayed, and it will take a while, or forever, to trust you again.
2007-05-16 17:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should he be mad at you anyways??
maybe take him out for dinner or go for a walk in the park - spend some quality time together.
2007-05-16 17:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by JD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'He always forgives you?' Sounds like you keep giving him reasons to be mad at you. Stop giving him reasons
2007-05-16 17:12:49 · answer #11 · answered by keeprockin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋