What should i do?
I know this is a really long description but please I need help with this situation!!! I like this girl and she knows I like her because I asked her to the dance in the beginning of the year but she said she had to go to her grandparents 50th anniversary and i know she was not lying because she was not at the dance. Now its towards the end of the year and I am still a little intimidated by her. I'm really good friends with her best friend if that helps. What should I do and how should I act around her. We are 13 years old and in 7th grade. P.S i talk to her every once in a while. Please help!!!
2007-05-16 09:54:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well first of all, be yourself. but when your around her, don't act like your obsessed with her. just play it off cool. don't make her jealous with other girls!! that makes her think your a player. be as sweet as you can to her and let her know your always there for her.. most of all, try to understand her. if you end up being with her, after a while, this advice might give you some guidence on understanding girls..
WHEN SHE ACTS SHY
-SAY I LOVE YOU
WHEN SHE RUN AWAY FROM YOU
- CHASE HER
WHEN SHE PUTS HER FACE NEAR YOURS
- KISS HER
WHEN SHE KICKS & PUNCHES
- HOLD HER TIGHT
WHEN SHE IS SILENT
- SHE'S THINKIN OF HOW TO SAY I LOVE YOU
WHEN SHE IGNORES YOU
- SHE WANTS ALL YOUR ATTENTION!
WHEN SHE PULLS AWAY
- GRAB HER BY THE WAIST AND NEVER LET GO
WHEN YOU SEE HER AT HER WORST
- TELL HER SHE'S BEAUTIFUL!*
WHEN SHE SCREAMS AT YOU
- TELL HER YOU LOVE HER BUT MEAN IT
WHEN YOU SEE HER WALKING
-SNEAK UP BEHIND HER GRAB HER BY THE WAIST AND GIVE HER A KISS
WHEN SHE'S SCARED!!!!!!!!!
-HOLD HER AND TELL HER EVERYTHING WILL BE OK CAUSE SHE'S WITH YOU
WHEN SHE LOOKS LIKE SOMETHINGS THE MATTER
- KISS HER AND TELL HER NOT TO WORRY
WHILE SHE HOLDS YOUR HANDS
- PLAY WITH HER FINGERS
hope this helped. if ya need anymore advice, email sweetnshort3418@yahoo.com
2007-05-16 10:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ashleyyy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my only advice is to just work up the courage and ask her out. my brother's your age, and he spends so much time going girl to girl, it's nice to realize that guys your age can truly like someone. I have a feeling that if you have liked this girl for so long without making any moves, she probably doesn't think you like her! So start talking to her, and care about what she has to say. Question her about her life and whatever's going on, and don't get impatient with her! And maybe after a couple weeks, you'll be comfortable enough to make your moves! And don't get too close to her friend, she might feel intimidated by that. So I hope my advice helps you, you can IM me at xObrittchick, if you need any help or to tell me how things went. good luck kid!
2007-05-16 13:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to act tough around her, most girls deeply would love a guy who would hold the door and help them pick up something they dropped, etc. dating is a big circle or secrets. tell her friend that you like her (the one u like) but tell her not to tell anyone. in girl terms, that means tell her. also ask what she thinks of you. If they're friends, they probably will have talked about it, and if not, ask her to find out casually for you.
But, if nothing works out, don't sweat it. I know it may seem like the end of the world if nothing happens, but trust me, even if you guys do go out, it most likely wont last long, no matter what u think now. And if everything works out and u guys live happily ever after, I'm happy for you. That doesn't happen to very many ppl.
2007-05-16 10:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by jazzskater1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just act like yourself and try talking to her a little more. If you want, you can go up to them when they're talking and ask them both to do sometime on the weekend. Try as much as you can to get to know her before the end of the school year though. cause you might not see her much during the summer.
2007-05-16 09:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tizmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 I think you should be more in to School then girls. However be your self, the worse that can happen is she wont like you who you are, and if she dont like who you are then the relationship would never go any place any way because in time she would find out the real you. So..... be your self.
walk up to her and say . we both know I like you alot, and I am wondering if you feel the same about me?
if she says yes ask her if she wants to get pizza, if she says no ask her again in 10 years.
2007-05-16 09:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you talk to her, look at her face the whole time.
Talk to her, ask her about herself, and really listen.
Tell her you are interested in her. Women like directness, but not aggression.
Do NOT tell her in the form of a letter. That happened to me all through college, and I never spoke to those guys because they didn't have the guts to look me in the eye and tell me they wanted to date me.
Don't let her know you are intimidated. See it as a challenge...that you will go and talk to her face to face at least 5 minutes, and that you won't let your attention won't stray.
The next time you see her, talk for 10 minutes. Pay attention to only her. Nobody else.
You'll do fine.
2007-05-16 10:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my best guy friend and I started to be friends he just walked up to me and said wanna be friends? At first it was alittle weird but then I got used to it and now we are going out! I am in seventh grade to! when he started to talk to me he talked about some of the things I am interested in. He found out from my Best friend then he we just talked! I can talk to him for hours on the phone because we have so much in common! Well good luck! hope this helps a little Bit! :)
2016-04-01 04:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act normal! I don't like it when a guy asks all weird around the girl he likes (even though I do admit that I accidentally do around guys!!!!). If you can't help it, then don't try to show it. I hope that this relationship works out between the two of you!
2007-05-16 10:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Gleek12466 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel, don't be all shy actin, girls don't like that shy crap, you gotta show her you are strong....offer to treat to something after school, or when school is out take her out somewhere, you might wanna start by getting her phone number, or if you are too shy then tell her best friend to hook yall up...
2007-05-16 10:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by new jeroo dime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself around her. Casual, sweet and the gentleman I am sure you are.
2007-05-16 09:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋