Family & Relationships - 16 May 2007

Theres this guy Ive been knowing ever since 5th grade and ive liked him since then 2. I recently created a new myspace account and i told him how i feel about him but he doesnt know its me. I really like him and I would like to be with him. But i am i already in a relationship and I have fallen head over heels for my boyfriend and its only been ten months. I dnt know what to do. I know that leaving me boyfriend for him is out of the question but i kind of still want to be with the other guy. Wat should I do?

2007-05-16 11:11:05 · 4 answers · asked by ??cUrIoUs?? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can i change this because many people tell me that I am verry pretty and they say that they would like to date me, when I ask them though they tell me that i am too fat and ugly, and no one would ever dream about dating me. Any suggestions on how to fix this.

2007-05-16 11:10:47 · 41 answers · asked by beauty_tells_all 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy who's tryna talk to me calls me sexy, hot, baby all the time, but I notice on others he uses gorgeous and beautiful...what does this mean?

2007-05-16 11:10:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a cuckold fantasy only, I could never watch my with with a mandingo in real life.

After surfing the net and finding many Cuckold groups and websites, I am amazed at how many men have this fantasy and how many really do it with their wives. What struck me is that it is almost all white men and almost always they want to watch their wives with hung black studs. Can anyone shed any light on this subject?

2007-05-16 11:04:31 · 12 answers · asked by Harry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel Phylis' pain. I'm pretty torn about Nick leaving, although I hear that he may return. I HATE Brad. Daniel is a jerk for lying to Lily. I wish Colleen and her professer could get off of the show. Sharon disgusts me. Noah aggravates me. I think in Genoa city, Dishonesty is the root of most of the problems.

2007-05-16 11:03:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok..I have this guy friend that when me and him first met..he had a gf...then they got married after i blew him off...I blew him off and then about a little less than a yr later they got MARRIED..but b4 the he would tell me he didnt want to marry her an all that stuff Then i saw him and talked to him recently..and he bitched about her. and he said he was fixing to move out..and he has cheated on her..DOES this mean he is UNHAPPY? Keep in mind that he doesnt say this to get into my pants bcuz he knows better..we are JUST FRIENDS..I am just wondering how could he possibly feel about his wife if he is doing so much to hurt her?

2007-05-16 10:58:13 · 19 answers · asked by Shannon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he doesnt work says that his record holds him from getting a job i pay for everything and his child support i do everything and he does nothing he is always making excuses but he says that he love God and that he wants to be a good person and go to heaven i am going to pray on it and talk to my church memebers maybe they can suggest something so that i can make it work or else i am going to dump him i love him and i dont want to break up with him but he has changed me as a person i am not happy ne more i am always angry and i feel hopeless he makes comments that he can get girls but then i think to my self who is going to want his no car no money worthless with two kids *** but i love him i am so very confused i dont know what to do i know that what is going on is not right and not the way to live how would he like if his daughter was supporting her boyfriend and he was doing nothing> please i need some solid advice i am really close to moving on

2007-05-16 10:54:29 · 4 answers · asked by yfavenue 1 in Singles & Dating

mmm.... idk... things were goin good and then boom "Only friends" why does that hurt so much...?

2007-05-16 10:54:28 · 7 answers · asked by Paqrat 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend hang out all the time and we have a great time, everyone tells us we should be together and thats what i think too but apparently he doesnt because he has a girlfriend. We still hang out but now its different. Before he ever had a girlfriend he told me he loved me when we were drunk but then the next day nothing happened. What do i do?

2007-05-16 10:54:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm adopted & I really want to find her. I know her first, middle, and last name, the hospital i was born at, and a previous phone number of hers. I don't want to have to pay for one of those stupid sites, is there any other way?

2007-05-16 10:51:29 · 12 answers · asked by lissarocks02 2 in Family

You're a male in your mid 20's and you are attracted to ladies in their 30's. ?

2007-05-16 10:51:16 · 15 answers · asked by Dj Volt 2 in Singles & Dating

we are going to be 5 years married on June 30th but he always forgets our anniversary.... What can I do to let him know that I want to me surprised?

2007-05-16 10:48:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok . . well my boyfriend of a yr and a half. broke up with me bcuz i lied about somthing. . . i dnt blame him but over the past 5 months ive proved to him that was a one and only thing. well he took me back but 2 weeks later told me he couldnt be with me bcuz he still cant trust me. it seems like one minute we're great the next he pushes me away. it hurts. . and it seems like the more i wait for him the more it hurts me. . . everyone tells me to move on. but i cant. everytime i try he acts like he wants me back. not to mention he's my first love. . it was love at first sight for me and he was my first everything. . . we've been through more than you can imagen but yet it seems like we cant work through this. . . i want to move on. . . . i just . . . cant. . . . what do i do and if i have to move on how do i do it ?

2007-05-16 10:47:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it's probably just a slip of the tongue- they were married for over 15 years, divorced for over 3 years - and he still has to talk to her about the kids.
I've told him it hurts my feelings and he doesn't do it very often - but why does he do it all all?
I never call him by my ex-husbands name.

2007-05-16 10:45:36 · 18 answers · asked by Kaybee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband told me if my weight ever exceeded 140 pounds he would divorce me. I am now 5' 4" and 132 pounds. I try to eat healthy and work out. Why would he say this?

2007-05-16 10:44:48 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know of a situation in which a mother has been dysfunctional for many years, and an enabler for the problems of those she is close with. The wife of the person in the middle thinks he should disown her for her failings. He has never expected his mother to come through for him on anything since she never has since he was a teenager. His wife expects her to let her actions speak for her...and to abandon her until she does. He wants to remain civil toward his parent and maintain a positive relationship with his wife and children. Any ideas?

2007-05-16 10:44:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

MR RIGHT. all my friends are getting marrid and i feel alone eveyone keeps telling me not oto look for him but to wate and im not actively looking but it seems none wants me ive been single for a year and befor that i was in a 3 year relationship i will not do internet dateing i know im only 18 but i hate being alone.

2007-05-16 10:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by daughter of rock 3 in Singles & Dating

I am about to have my baby girl any day now...

I found out 8 different girls left my boyfriend all these voicemails, bc he told them to..

Some said I love you I love you!, Hii sexy I miss you, call mee...

My heart was broken... But when I saw this.... This is what really broke my heart...

I dont know what to do anymore, this is all I think about all day and night... Im so happy about my baby, but he makes me so stressed out and depressed...

So this is a girl who left him a voicemail that said I cant wait till you get off work... So when he was reading his email, I saw an email from her ( I remembered her name from the voicemail)
I asked him who she was and he said shes just my friend....
Well I emailed her and told her not to call him anymore, and she emailed me back saying this:

Lol, listen up honey. FOR STARTERS, HE SAID HE WAS SINGLE. And second of he ASKED ME TO call him. I don't give a f* .. Apparently your bf/husband/whatever he is...seems to think otherwise..

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2007-05-16 10:40:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We broke up on bad terms, I left him for another guy. I didn't have the guts to tell him, so my then new BF called him and told him to stop calling, as I was now seing him. I was embarrassed, and did not get to call him as my cell phone was stolen right the next day. I know he still continued calling, but did not leave messages, but I never was able to talk to him myself. I feel really bad, and I have been thinking about him lately. Should I send him at least an email, and try to explain myself? I don't know what to do, we only dated for like 6 months. Althou we only dated for a few months, things got intense, things were going really good between us. As of today, I still don't know what came over me, and why made such stupid decisions. I don't want him back, I just want him to know that I know I made a mistake, and that I should not have hurt him like that, and that I am sorry. Should I call him?

2007-05-16 10:39:08 · 12 answers · asked by gatubela 2 in Singles & Dating

THERE IS THIS GUY AT MY SCHOOL AND IVE KNOWN HIM FOR THREE YEARS NOW. I HAVE ALWAYS KIND OF LIKED HIM AND HE IS SOOO SWEET AND ATHLETIC AND FUNNY BUT HE HAS THIS GIRL FRIEND NOW. SHE IS SOO JEALOUS BECAUSE SHE THINKS THAT IM TRYING TO STEAL HOM FROM HER. I LIKE HIM &I THINK I KNOW THAT HE LIKED ME WAY BACK WHEN WE FIRST ME AN I THINK HE LIKES ME NOW BUT HE JUST ISNT THE TYPE OF GUY TO JUST PUT HIMSELF OUT THERE LIKE THAT. WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT HIM AND WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT HIS GIRLFRIEND? .................................

P.S I CANT TELL HIM HOW I FEEL BECAUSE MY FRIEND WENT OUT WITH HIM BEFORE AND THAT IS WRONG EVEN THOUGH I KNEW HIM BEFORE HER.... HELLLLLP!

2007-05-16 10:37:18 · 26 answers · asked by Live ♥ Laugh 3 in Singles & Dating

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2007-05-16 10:36:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years... i keep on mentioning getting engaged but he keeps on saying that hes not ready ... he says when you get engaged everything changes and i tried explaining to him that nothing will change... we talked it over and the only response he will give me is that "he's not ready to buy a ring" or "i'm not ready" or "marriage freaks me out" ... when his best friend told him that he was going to ask his girlfriend to marry him my boyfriend had a panic attack .. i dont know why he is like this but i wanna help him through it ... he's never had any bad relationships before... and our relationship is great ..its always been great and he agrees.... i just want to take the next step. and he has told me over and over again that he wants to marry me .... and then he will tell me that we will go look at rings but then he backs out ... and he says that the only reason he told me we would go look at rings is because "he knew thats what i wanted to hear"..

2007-05-16 10:36:25 · 10 answers · asked by *Isabella's Mommy 7/23/11* <3 3 in Singles & Dating

I get intimidated around people my own age and around "cool guys" because I feel inferior and uncool. I can't dance and I have a hard time carrying on a conversation with other people my age. Any advice to raise my self-confidence and tips for talking with 20 yr old people and just hanging out?

2007-05-16 10:36:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My close friend is having problems at home and is considering running away. I'm sure her problems aren't as bad as she says, but I have no way of knowing. I only have until May 30 to convince her to stay, but I'm not sure how or if I should. When she told me she was near tears, so something serious might have happened, but she won't tell anyone because she's scared. What should I do?

2007-05-16 10:34:32 · 18 answers · asked by Alex A 1 in Friends

I'm a freshman in high school and it seems the most immature guys ever are the class of 2008 (the juniors). they are SIXTEEN/SEVENTEEN. i mean i know guys are immature in freshman year and stuff [actually ..they really arent]. i would think they would have grown out of it by now. the bad part is i like a junior guy who hangs out with his friends afterschool and STILL makes stupid p*nis jokes, fart noises, and he basically thinks he is the effing sh*t. and he's not. whyyyyy

2007-05-16 10:33:55 · 23 answers · asked by Diana 2 in Singles & Dating

Me & my best m8 have problems with cheating... My m8 has a boyfriend but she really likes this other guy and she has kissed him.. shes worried about who to choose, her long distance partner (who she loves) or her short distance lover that she also dosnt wana loose... HELP! I have a long distance boyfriend but i still flurt with other guys but then i feel bad... at the moment theres 5 guys that i want to hookup with (or kiss) but then i have a bf... they don't care and neither do i??? i really wana kiss them but then i don't wana loose my bf!! HELP!! I really need an answer!!!!

2007-05-16 10:32:13 · 7 answers · asked by <3Chloe S xx 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well this one guy who is like my best friend, is really cute, cool and i think i might like him. I was the first one to be his friend out of all of my friends, and we talked every single day and got closer and closer, and i even thought he might have liked me. Everyone thought we were going out and made a great couple. But just recently he asked one of my best girl friends out and she said yes. now i think im starting to get jelous and we always used to talk online and now we barley do. i still want at least our friendship but i feel like its fading away and im scared because i love him (in some way not sure yet) because he is a great person. How can we grow closer again? should i tell him i might like him if and when they break up? i just have no idea what to do, and i am so confused! please help me!

thanks in advance <3

2007-05-16 10:31:12 · 8 answers · asked by sar. 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the deal...I asked a guy out and he said that he would think about it...My friend had gone up to him atlest 6 times to ask him what his decison is, but its alway the same thing "I'm still thinking." I'm starting to feel like he dosen't like me, but then again if he did i would think he would say no. Its been 2 days since i asked him out. I've asked his friends why he has to think about it so much, they think cause he like me AND another girl..but can't decide if he should go out with me, or go ask the other girl out

2007-05-16 10:30:12 · 16 answers · asked by misskris_hayden 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has admitted he cheated and has tried everything within his power to gain my trust again. He has now begun a "freindship" with another woman. How do I get past all of the hurt and resentment.

2007-05-16 10:26:38 · 46 answers · asked by First L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sis-in-law hates me. No one knows why. She is spiteful, rude, obnoxious, & a royal B!T#$, for lack of better words. I’ve never had a prob with anyone. Until now. She has been a B#$%@ to me ever since day one. I don’t know if it is a racist thing as I am white & my hubby & his family are Hispanic. There have been SEVERAL arguments all where I have been the bigger person & apologized just to smooth things over (see my other question). She even showed her @.$.$ @ our wedding. I was pissed, why on they day of our wedding?? BTW - She is 31 yrs old & I am 22. So the good person in me sends her a Mother’s Day Card just to get all of this passed us. But what does she do?? She makes childish comments on her myspace about the dresses I picked for the wedding. WHAT IS HER DEAL?!?!?! My hubby is FED up. He got pissed @ her like always, but when he takes up for me & yells @ her, he takes it out on me. He makes me feel guilty about getting upset by the things she does!! He told me that he is loosing his whole family & makes me feel like it is all my fault – AND I DON’T KNOW WHAT I HAVE DONE TO HER!!! I have tried probably more than 4 time to make amends with her, but she ALWAYS comes up with SOMETHING to cause a scene.

2007-05-16 10:24:19 · 30 answers · asked by *Fickle Pickle* 4 in Marriage & Divorce