What would you do if your boyfriend did this to you?

Question

I am about to have my baby girl any day now...

I found out 8 different girls left my boyfriend all these voicemails, bc he told them to..

Some said I love you I love you!, Hii sexy I miss you, call mee...

My heart was broken... But when I saw this.... This is what really broke my heart...

I dont know what to do anymore, this is all I think about all day and night... Im so happy about my baby, but he makes me so stressed out and depressed...

So this is a girl who left him a voicemail that said I cant wait till you get off work... So when he was reading his email, I saw an email from her ( I remembered her name from the voicemail)
I asked him who she was and he said shes just my friend....
Well I emailed her and told her not to call him anymore, and she emailed me back saying this:

Lol, listen up honey. FOR STARTERS, HE SAID HE WAS SINGLE. And second of he ASKED ME TO call him. I don't give a f* .. Apparently your bf/husband/whatever he is...seems to think otherwise..

Heres more

Heres an IM she sent me of them 2 talking:

Rubia SensuaI [11:06 P.M.]: i just dont see the big deal in my msg and her dumb *** emailin me how the fk did she get my email?
nealjweinstein [11:07 P.M.]: this *****

Rubia SensuaI [11:07 P.M.]: ****** lil ****.
nealjweinstein [11:07 P.M.]: shes going nuts,
Rubia SensuaI [11:08 P.M.]: ima bass her head i swear
nealjweinstein [11:08 P.M.]: i cant wait till the babies bord
nealjweinstein [11:08 P.M.]: born
Rubia SensuaI [11:08 P.M.]: she better ntot **** with my **** with her nerdy sel.
nealjweinstein [11:08 P.M.]: imma take her and dipp out

Rubia SensuaI [11:23 P.M.]: I SWEAR TO GOD,I DONT C ARE IF SHES PREGNANT
Rubia SensuaI [11:24 P.M.]: smh
Rubia SensuaI [11:24 P.M.]: ima fuxk her up she bettr not **** with my ****
neal

Answer 1

kick him in the balls and tell him its over

Answer 2

for starters if you feel the need to look on your fellas text e-mail and voicemail that just screams that you dont trust him and second of all what the hell are you playing at ask him straight out what is going on and tell him that you want a valid explanation as to the messages and if its not up to your standards or your still feeling messed up from it then just dump him. No matter how long you have both been together be it 1 week 1 month 1 year or 1 decade, the man clearly is playing you. So have some self respect and do what you know is right. I dont mean to sound harsh but you have to know that most men think with their *****. I have been messed about by many men and i know the warning signs and he is playing you babe. hope it works out for the best. xxx

Answer 3

1st off sorry you are going thru this especially that you are pregnant. Dotn worry, as far as the girl is concerned she will get hers in the end. Its really not her fault she is caught up in this. Most likely your bf didnt tell her he had a gf much less a baby on the way. But it is her fault she is acting a fool. She isnt going to do anything. Dont let her bother you. Use those emails and get a restraining order against her. Im so not surprised that another man has been caught cheating. Its seems as if its a trend around here. Good luck

Answer 4

Right now.. your first concern is your baby. I don't know why you're letting him stress you out. He's obviously up to no good when you're not around. He's screwing other girls and doesn't give a rats *** about you or your baby. He's a dog and needs to be thrown out. This whole situation sounds all too familiar to me. I'm sorry this is happening to you but you'll be better off alone.. I promise you. Leave and don't even give him an explanation. Don't answer his calls and stop listening to his voicemails or emails. Take care!

Answer 5

What I would do and what I should do are probably two different things. To the outsider, the answer is obvious: Get rid of this guy and never, never, never look back. What kind of person is this who goes around collecting women when is gf is about to have a baby? And, even worse, collects the type of women who don't have the decency to apologize and back off when they learn he has a pregnant gf.

When we care for someone, it's totally different. We make excuses for poor behavior.

Here is a good guide: If your new daughter were a young woman and came to you with this exact story, what would you tell her to do? THAT is what you should do.

Hugs

Answer 6

Seems you picked the wrong guy to make babies with, not too bright on your part. This is your problem, not his. You are the one who made the mistake, you are the one who wants to be with a cheater, you are the one who wants to share her man, you are the one who doesn't understand "once a cheater always a cheater". You need to fix you, not him.

He is cheating on you, he will continue to cheat on you because you like it otherwise you would dump him, he will aways cheat on you because he doesn't respect you.

Oh and don't listen to that fool to saying "take the tapes", those are meaningless to any court. You will get the same amount of child support with or without the tapes. The court doesn't care if your boyfriend is cheating on you, they will only laugh at the fact that you think tapes make any difference.

Answer 7

this is absolutely horrible, and i am so sorry this has happened to you. but, you are gonna have to get rid of this jerk he is nothing but trouble and a liar and is going to do nothing but cause you trouble all the time you are with him. i know you dont want to hear this but honey think about your baby now and be excited and find you a man and i mean a real man that is kind, considerate ,generous, and attentive. you dont need aboy like that, and his filthy mouth little hoe will find this out in the long run too.....

Answer 8

drop his a** honey!!
you dont need a guy that cheats on you especially when you are pregnant with his kid
i know you wanna stay with him becuz of the baby but hes not worth it and it sounds like he dont even care about the baby or you anyway
you dont need this you could get stressed out or upset and get yourself sick and have early labor or something
what i would do is forget about him but definetely get child support from him
milk him for all hes worth
and go for full custody of your child
then if he wants to see the baby it will be at you conveinence
i doubt he will though he sounds just like my cuzins baby daddy a dead beat
just worry about you and your baby

Answer 9

Ditch him, get a lawyer, take the emails and tapes of the girls and convince the judge that he is not ready to be a father and have him pay custody. The tapes can be used because they knew they were being recorded.

Answer 10

Save all the information you gathered. Emails, Voice mails (save to tape or something other than saving it to voice mail it will eventually be erased) Leave his a.ss.. Sue his sorry butt for child support, put a retraining order against him using the emails as evidence. Take care of your baby. .Why ya bullshitting.. People like that make me sick to my stomach!!!

Answer 11

I dont know what you are waiting for. Ask him straight up whats his problem OR else just dump him. I mean, your not going to be the only single mother in this world.